Are the genderwar threads hurting the the website and encouraging infighting?

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Are genderwar posters retarded?


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It doesn't help that Null is egging it on with his "women are smol beanz who need special protection from me" attitude. I was on board with his general premise of Kiwi Farms being a rare place for women to share certain views (particularly on troons) where they would otherwise be brutalized for daring to be concerned about their own safety but he has taken it way too far. It's natural that when the more deranged men see Null doing all kinds of site changing and thread bannings in favor of the deranged women of the site who outside of this issues I mentioned are already coddled and deified everywhere else on the internet as paragons who can do no wrong and are always right and always treated as above men they would lash out against it.

Luckily it's mostly just a few dedicated retards outside of the occasional passerby shitposter. Lidl Drip and her equally retarded woman-hate detractors are brain-rotted and probably intensely lonely because of their weird hate for the opposite gender. I don't see much weird gender hate outside those groups. Following the rules of the internet I just assume everyone is male, but you passively find out when users you see post a lot are female and it turns out nobody is deriding them every time they post and they are just part of the conversation like normal, be it being agreed with or called a retard for what they post rather than their genders.

So, I think that the creation of the man-hate thread definitely did make some people act worse because of the double standards involved and riling up the retarded men and emboldening the retarded women, but both threads also tend to contain their retards so it's kind of a zero sum game in terms of total site retardation levels. It's best just to ignore the threads, there is nothing of value in either one.
 
Yes. Apparently absolutely nothing was learned from tolerating faggotry, and I'm not just talking about the homos now. You give the petty nonreproductives a place to stew and ruminate and gosh darn it heckin #vent about how everyone else is the problem and the production of the pitch-black caustic sludge it is won't be held by the retard zone for long. They'll keep it in the bedroom (containment threads, Discord channels, DMs) guys, promise!

Out of fairness, lock and abolish both threads. Let the posters at large decide if these ideas are worth keeping around.
 
Every time I want to leave I keep getting sucked back in :c
I would imagine that the same goes for at least some others.
It would definitely be better if both threads were purged.
All the womens will have to live without their telepathic high-income chads, all the men will have to live without their stepford tradwives, and I will have to live without a lady friend willing to hold me and cuddle all the time :c
But it will be for the better.
 
It's making the site unfun and Reddit-like, honestly. It's childish, boring, and derails a lot of threads that have nothing to do with it.

The gender-wars sperging is one of the reasons I lost interest in most major social media platforms. I find I'm less inclined to browse now because this playground-tier "us vs. them" culture is sucking the fun out of a place I normally enjoy.

While I'm grateful Null's given us women a platform to speak our minds about AGPs and other anti-woman bullshit, this sort of thing isn't helpful for anybody. You're not empowering us by giving complete immunity to the "men need to be knocked down a peg" types. All it serves to do is make us look petty, immature, and like everything women-haters claim we are.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with these threads in theory, but it's having a negative impact on the website now. It's just not as enjoyable anymore. It needs to stop bleeding into every other thread. The gender-hate threads are not containment zones if they don't even contain.
 
it's true, BP does account for -200% of KF's donos
That's a lot of cake (made with superior European ingredients) shipped to lidl

Null is personally making a half dozen artisanal European bakers financially independent with that autist money in his quest to engineer a replacement chantal. I can't think of anything better tbh
 
I think that there is real good in these people being permitted to argue outside of their bubble.
I've come to disagree. I think these threads should exist, and it was right to grant the man-hate thread protection, but for the same reason that there are Gentlemen's Clubs and Ladies Nights, and why there are Stag Nights and Hen Nights, and why 'locker room' talk should stay in the locker room, it's probably socially necessary that the genders discuss the other amongst themselves. The differences between men and women are both human and existential, and its rather different for men and women to hear criticism about their entire sex from the other in a way they cannot reasonably defend - men get angry and aggressive, women become militant and hold a grudge - the people invested just end up point scoring or taking up the baton wherever. It's healthy to have candid discussions about the other gender, but not en-mass with instant resorts to crass generalizations that can get others roped in - with members of your own gender and then individuals on the other with who you can feel you can speak in a way that's plain.

Like, it would probably be the same result if we had a Goyim-hate thread that was Kosher-zoned.

That gooner leak should have just been amusing, but it turned into yet another satellite holy war about which sex is the naughtiest about pee-pees and cooties and calling people fat. Like I shouldn't need to care but to understand what's going on I need to navigate more incoherent events and characters than in a Dark Souls wiki.

I don't know if it's possible but I personally think these places should be like for a private 'request access' group. It's not segregating a community or a board, just a very specific topic that there is already meant to be no-crossover with anyway.
 
I've come to disagree. I think these threads should exist, and it was right to grant the man-hate thread protection, but for the same reason that there are Gentlemen's Clubs and Ladies Nights, and why there are Stag Nights and Hen Nights, and why 'locker room' talk should stay in the locker room, it's probably socially necessary that the genders discuss the other amongst themselves. The differences between men and women are both human and existential, and its rather different for men and women to hear criticism about their entire sex from the other in a way they cannot reasonably defend - men get angry and aggressive, women become militant and hold a grudge - the people invested just end up point scoring or taking up the baton wherever. It's healthy to have candid discussions about the other gender, but not en-mass with instant resorts to crass generalizations that can get others roped in - with members of your own gender and then individuals on the other with who you can feel you can speak in a way that's plain.

Like, it would probably be the same result if we had a Goyim-hate thread that was Kosher-zoned.

That gooner leak should have just been amusing, but it turned into yet another satellite holy war about which sex is the naughtiest about pee-pees and cooties and calling people fat. Like I shouldn't need to care but to understand what's going on I need to navigate more incoherent events and characters than in a Dark Souls wiki.

I don't know if it's possible but I personally think these places should be like for a private 'request access' group. It's not segregating a community or a board, just a very specific topic that there is already meant to be no-crossover with anyway.
Would you feel more comfortable if we added trigger warnings to all posts that don't coddle moid feefees? Somehow the fact that 99% of A&H has always been incels whining that all women are whores who deserve bad things happening to them because "they voted for it" has never bothered any of the people who now complain about "gender wars" when there's maybe a handful of women on this site giving push back to the incel posts.

It's just funny how disingenuous you faggots are when you complain about "gender wars" but clearly only are upset that there isn't a 100% moid hugbox anymore and you now get called out by women for saying really dumb shit and face reprecussions for harassing female users across the site instead of being able to just bully women away with "tits or GTFO lul hurr durr".

Moids on here are super fucking fragile and can't take any push back. Everyone has to be 100% in agreement or it's a "war".
 
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