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Latefagging but USUALLY it's more about the attitude one has towards music than the music itself. I mean, I guess if you only listen to burzum or Christian Latin chanting or something you'll raise some eyebrows LOL but the music that generally gets deemed as "male manipulator music" is honestly really popular music a lot of women also like.This isn't really advice but I'm curious: I've been reading the "What are some of your "warning sign" bands" thread and started wondering if femoids use music taste to filter moids and if so, what are your filters?
what it's definitely a turn off is guys who never stop talking about how they just got into music and have such deep tastes (unlike other guys, or you, is implied) and then they show you, like, the most widely known Aphex twin song. Which is great and all, but acting like liking music is this such deep thing when you're just listening to it, not even making it, is painful. Almost everybody likes music, it's not a defining character trait.
this might be personal but I find it a turn off people that say that they "just got into music" and are trying to speedrun it LOL. Reeks of consoomerism. Not all, but most people who say that always guide their tastes by the numbers instead of what they actually like. Ironically these people end up being way less open minded to music discussion or recommendation than you would think.
I also think it depends on the woman's own taste. If music isn't something she feels strongly about, she might be weirded out by anything out of mainstream or not care at all. If she does feel very strongly about music, she might be either really open minded and lax or might easily feel disappointed if you don't match that level of passion.
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