Simply put, the public is not educated enough on what kind of tells they need to look for. Anime avatars calling your child a 'kitten', profiles talking about 'boypussy', anything of the sort needs to be taught to the general public and not written off as 'stupid internet shit' like it tends to be. These abuses aren't as obvious as unmarked candy vans. The abuse has evolved, but the public attention and reporting has failed to keep up with it. Most average people these days simply do not know how to identify this shit.