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Kelly Lenza / LividLipids / softbodytendermind / ass_child / photopotamus - "Radical body liberationist”, Intentionally Repulsive, Uber woke middle-aged SJW influencer wannabe, doxed her former therapist for getting WLS, ate her way to heart failure
Jerry is an obvious doormat, but he's probably also worried about paying alimony if he kicks her out. She'd qualify since he agreed to support her all these years.
Even if he didn't think about the alimony angle, his family would have mentioned it to him at some point. They probably pushed him to make Kelly get a job so he'd owe her less alimony in the future should a court do those calculations. We know Jerry's parents hate her from her own posts.
It would be well worth getting rid of her, of course. But he seems like the type to not do the longterm math on supporting her inhouse for the rest of her life vs just cutting her a check for 20 percent of his income instead. She's eating, spending and driving a car on his dime currently.
It would be well worth getting rid of her, of course. But he seems like the type to not do the longterm math on supporting her inhouse for the rest of her life vs just cutting her a check for 20 percent of his income instead. She's eating, spending and driving a car on his dime currently.
He's waiting for someone to die. I would be a lot more sympathetic if he wasn't destroying his daughters' lives by letting Kelly mold them. Those kids are fucked and it's so sad to have seen it all set in motion.
I've heard of couples opening up their marriage, and jealousy and anger arising when one partner does "better" than the other.
Usually it's the woman who does "better" for obvious reasons. So in addition to resenting her for being a terrible wife and mother, Jerry might resent that, too.
I really don't know anything about Jerry, though. I don't get the sense he's terribly plugged into his marriage to begin with. I don't really get why people assume he's out his foot down about anything. Yeah, Kelly was allegedly a SAHM, but any working dad should still notice when his children are morbidly obese and one falls into DKA. Some dads can be VERY checked out.
Though I still agree he's the main person "angry" about her hookups.
Jerry’s primary identity is “gamer” so any time he can get a Kelly and her needs out of his way is a win for him.
I assume the girls are completely left to their own devices pretty much all of the time, whether either or both of their parents are home. It’ll be interesting to see how their mostly feral upbringing will affect their behavior as adults. I’m very interested to see if either of the daughters ever move out, or if they live in the family home until they’ve all died or the house is condemned.
Right now Kelly's girls are too young to fully understand why she's a terrible mother but old enough to start building resentment towards her. When they reach the age where they start to realize all the ways she's fucked them over in pursuit of her own desires Kelly is going to be in for a rough time.
She's probably telling her kids all this* about her dissatisfaction and how exhausting it is to half-ass being a mom, which has just got to crush those girls. Her total distraction already tells them they're unimportant, and there's no way Kelly keeps her resentment under wraps.
*not the sex stuff, we can hope, though do they ever wonder where mom goes every night she's out having sex with randoms?)
And really, not one person in the world needed to hear specifics about the short king with the giant nads.
Maybe not now, but almost certainly once they hit their teen years; mothers like Kelly are so devoid of social interaction (on account of making their entire personalities being mothers) that the risk of emotional incest and oversharing will skyrocket as they get older. If there's one thing I hope those little girls learn, it's that it is completely inappropriate for your mother to tell you she never should've had you or how she misses the different kinds of sex she's had on which kinds of drugs.
Something about super online parents seems to lend them more towards oversharing as a whole - not just online, but to people in their lives as well. Like they no longer see a boundary as to what's acceptable to talk to which relatives or how power imbalances in age differences can make certain topics require more grace. Kelly just firehoses everything, so I wouldn't be shocked if her girls start learning about her vulva gape once puberty hits; the only reason she likely doesn't do it now is because they certainly must make dreadful conversationalists, given that they're little ferals. Watching sweet little kids be undersocialized and neglected to such a degree hits me so hard in the feels, it's difficult to read Kelly's thread at times.
Or my personal favorite, "You know, women don't have to have children! If I'd never had kids, I'd be doing [X interesting job] and living in [Y cool city]. But...I'm glad I had my kids." [insert sadsack Mommy dreaming about a career path she was too lazy to pursue anyway] You'll see that in articles and social media posts all the time, and it never, ever fools the children.
One girl is probably on a tablet while the other is watching TV in a different room. Sounds like the daughters don't get along, thanks to Kelly playing them against each other, so everyone in that house is probably completely separate from each other whenever possible.
Even though Jerry seems like a checked-out autist and is at least partially complicit in the filthy house, neglected and emotionally disturbed children, etc I actually have sympathy for his situation to some degree. I think it was likely him who managed to reign in the humiliating degree of oversharing Kelly does on her mainstream social media accounts about him and the girls, at least. He probably isn't concerned about Kelly posting her own degeneracy if she keeps it on anonymous accounts that aren't too obviously linked to their real life identity. Kiwifarms or the "secret" tumblr he doesn't know about or doesn't care, his concern is likely normie social media accounts followed by members of IRL family, coworkers, and social circle.
If he did divorce Kelly the kids would be far worse off. Jerry knows as a SAHM that Kelly would almost definitely get full custody and would smear him in the worst ways possible to get it (not that she wants them, but spite + money + too lazy/fat to work). Without his presence serving as a slight deterrent, Kelly would ramp up her behavior, and expose the children to all kinds of inappropriate and harmful ideas, emotional abuse, etc. constantly. She would - guaranteed - emotionally dump on the kids oversharing nasty things about the divorce, use them as pawns to extort and manipulate Jerry, and eventually use every tool in her cluster B arsenal to poison the kids' relationship with him. She would probably at least try to turn his family against him with abuse accusations, and gaslight his daughters into thinking he abused them as well. Depending on how far she goes with these accusations, they might be extreme or disgusting enough to involve law enforcement. I'm no fan of the guy and there's a lot he could be doing better, but I also don't blame him entirely for just keeping it together until Kelly fats herself to death or gets murdered by a fetlife hookup. Even if his free time is mostly spent parked on his ass playing vidya while the kids watch their iPads, just the stabilizing influence of one chill parent consistently in the home who is present, sober, and not actively resenting you counts for a lot.
Whether or not their marriage is shitty I have no idea, but whatever else you can say about their household situation, it's stable. Impressively so, considering what they're both like. I doubt Jerry is especially thrilled about being a literal cuck, but he probably considers that a very low price to pay for a little more peace. If Kelly spends her time being all giddy talking to strange perverts on fetlife in between going out to fuck them, that's hopefully less time spent at home in an ugly mood that she inflicts on everyone else in the house (or Kelly might behave like less of a miserable cunt after taking out some sexual frustration).
Something about super online parents seems to lend them more towards oversharing as a whole - not just online, but to people in their lives as well. Like they no longer see a boundary as to what's acceptable to talk to which relatives or how power imbalances in age differences can make certain topics require more grace. Kelly just firehoses everything, so I wouldn't be shocked if her girls start learning about her vulva gape once puberty hits; the only reason she likely doesn't do it now is because they certainly must make dreadful conversationalists, given that they're little ferals. Watching sweet little kids be undersocialized and neglected to such a degree hits me so hard in the feels, it's difficult to read Kelly's thread at times.
It's not really an online thing, it's a narcissist thing (social media is designed in a way meant to draw out and amplify people's worst impulses, so a lot of narcissistic/oversharing behavior develops on there and gets repeatedly reinforced until the habit leaks into real life. This isn't the Thunderdome so I'll leave it at that).
It's always been a common trait among narcissists to have extreme boundary issues with their children in general and absolutely zero discretion when it comes to oversharing every last personal, intimate, or embarrassing detail about them with people who neither need nor want to know that information. Not that they're great at keeping their mouths shut about anyone's personal business, but with their own children it's on another level. It could be to mock or shame the child, or make a martyr of themselves for dealing with the child's needs, or out of exaggerated overprotectiveness, or to keep the child forever dependent, or many other reasons, but they all boil down to their deeply ingrained sense of lifelong ownership over their children. Anything the child ever owns, up to and including their body, personal boundaries, decisions, accomplishments, material possessions, narc parents believe they own it all by proxy to violate freely if they so choose. Most do learn to reign it in as the kid gets old enough to push back, but oversharing is the easiest one to forget themselves and fuck up on. I don't think it ever comes naturally to respect their children as human beings rather than possessions, it's like they see a grossly inappropriate violation of their child's privacy as no different than sharing an anecdote about their pet cat.
In Kelly's case I'd guess resentment could be partially why she overshares about her family the way she has, but in all actual fairness she also announces all kinds of very explicit, personal, and highly embarrassing information about herself to the internet all the time, most of which is a million times worse. She even knows she has a thread here, yet continues to post fucking appalling titty towel nudes and doesn't care. I will grant her that she isn't being hypocritical and maybe not even malicious, she legitimately seems to have no concept of embarrassment in general.
That was a whole lot of words about the family dynamics in the household of random fat retards I've never met. It's just my usual stream-of-consciousness word vomit but still, that's enough internet for today.
She has no respect for herself, her husband, OR, most importantly, her children if she's choosing to make her "sexual exploits" with randos public. I thought her posting nudes of herself in that dirty bedroom and eating fried chicken in a bathtub were bad. This is a bridge too far.
i gotta write more about this later w a content warning and shit but fuck i hate losing weight. i have lost a significant chunk and i fucking hate it for so many reasons.
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i had a big long rant started. but what it really boils down to is that it's all a fucking trap, it's always been a fucking trap. weight loss and body image and its associated cultural supremacy is always a fucking trap. it's a trap for everyone.
it's been a really shit day. tomorrow will probably be half shit. needing help and care more always makes it more scarce. i'm so fucking tired.
you know what sucks the worst sometimes? i still fucking love everyone. i still wanna live. i still want to see it all and take chances. i wish i didn't. it hurts a lot.
Why oh why does she fall into this trap, when she just wants to live? She’s even in absolute love with all her friends now!
And she even announced that she got touched directly in the poussy on Discord!
Most mother's of two don't need to announce to the world that a man touched them sexually. I mean, the two kids are pretty much an advertisement for that. No one thinks Kelly is a virgin.
Also, before she brags about her hook ups, let's see a picture of these bridge trolls.
She flat out said that she didn't want her second daughter, but went through the treatment anyway.
Narcissists are incapable of thinking ahead. Very likely Jerry and Kelly made a deal; if Kelly had the girls, she wouldn't have to work, which would have definitely appealed to her. Unfortunately, being a narcissist, Kelly completely forgot to take into account that raising children is work, and hard work at that, and unlike paid employment you don't get to down tools and unwind at the end of the day.
i gotta write more about this later w a content warning and shit but fuck i hate losing weight. i have lost a significant chunk and i fucking hate it for so many reasons.
Oh, cheer up, Kelly. I'm sure you're more than capable of gaining all that weight back and then some if you really want to.
I really can't understand why she would hate losing weight. She's aggressively hideous now and she can still be aggressively hideous even if she manages to get down to 120 lbs (or whatever would be a healthy weight for her). Surely the mobility and other health improvements would make it worthwhile?
Oh, cheer up, Kelly. I'm sure you're more than capable of gaining all that weight back and then some if you really want to.
I really can't understand why she would hate losing weight. She's aggressively hideous now and she can still be aggressively hideous even if she manages to get down to 120 lbs (or whatever would be a healthy weight for her). Surely the mobility and other health improvements would make it worthwhile?
How much weight exactly has Kelly lost? I haven’t seen any evidence of it. If it’s a lot, then her saggy boobs and huge apron will get even worse. I could see her hating that, and the crepey skin on arms, legs, neck etc that age a person significantly. I doubt that’s the case though. I suspect that she loves weightloss (especially the effortless kind), but has to pretend differently to keep her place in the deathfat furry HAES body positivity realm.
Oh, cheer up, Kelly. I'm sure you're more than capable of gaining all that weight back and then some if you really want to.
I really can't understand why she would hate losing weight. She's aggressively hideous now and she can still be aggressively hideous even if she manages to get down to 120 lbs (or whatever would be a healthy weight for her). Surely the mobility and other health improvements would make it worthwhile?
