Well, they have experienced something, because I regret to inform you that they extend the definition "arophobia" to very basic elements of social normality. For example, making the assumption that most people experience love and attraction, or that most people eventually hope and expect to be partnered or married, qualifies as "arophobia." Asking a person how their dating life is going, or assuming that they experience normal human feelings, qualifies as "arophobia." So, they've experienced "arophobia" because they perceive normal human experiences and expectations to be hateful and judgmental exchanges. In sum: these retards are more desperate to be oppressed than you can ever imagine until you've spent time among them.