ok cool that's entirely reasonable. & yeah don't worry if this angle's been presented I haven't seen it
so I had some concerns because
@Mandarys_Milan, I respect that you had some really bad experiences in your relationship & I respect that you acknowledge that sometimes you don't have your facts straight. By the way, if you prefer a name other than "mandarys" which I'm using for efficiency's sake, please let me know
Here's the sequence of events as I understand them, without the fluff - just sort of facts that can be proven? No motivations, inferred or not, is what I'm saying
1. mandarys is shmorky's fan
2. mandarys is invited to live in shmorky's apartment on west coast while shmorky works under lowtax
3. (carefully, another shmorky's fan, gets shmorky's skype after fbing shmorky for a while. feb 2014. my point is mostly about mandarys and shmorky so brackets because of relevance, not gravity. from feb to may 2014 there is exchange of written child pornography between shmorky, an adult, and carefully, a minor of age 17. this is illegal)
4. mandarys and shmorky start dating [what's the exact date when this takes? cause this will determine whether shmorky /cheated/ or not. not to say that invalidates the child porn just to set records straight]
5. three months after mandarys and shmorky start dating, they get engaged
[6. dk where to put this, again, depends on date of engagement, would be good to have] oct. 2014, after a period of no skyping, carefully finds out about mandarys, and asks shmorky about it on skype. they have no skype contact past this point.
7. mandarys doesn't have her pills (is there concrete evidence shmorky took them? i know lowtax said it too but who did lowtax get the info from? shmorky taking her pills is such a weird thing to me because I don't get the motivation)
8. mandarys has a psychotic episode, tells shmorky that shmorky wants her dead, pushes a knife at shmorky, screams. shmorky stands there and gives defensive, short replies. shmorky makes an audio recording of the episode and posts it on something awful. [what's the date on this? a time would help on context]
9. around feb 2016? mandarys wants to leave
10. shmorky calls the cops several times close to the time of departure, the last one resulting in mandarys having 1 month of jail time
11. mandarys moves back
12. shmorky moves
So
@Mandarys_Milan could help me a lot by filling in some dates. There's just one thing I want to talk abt right now though which is that, Mandarys has been saying that shmorky was taking revenge on her by calling the cops. But um, we've already seen that Mandarys has episodes where there are knives involved. I'm just saying it seems a little bit more possible that shmorky had legitimate reasons for those calls? The fact that he's six feet tall isn't really relevant, since we know a lot of men are the victims of domestic abuse, and they're probably of variable heights. I think the cops would know that as well.
About the pills - Mandarys, can you tell me the reason why you think shmorky took them? Do you know how Lowtax knew that shmorky took your pills?
Regardless of anything I said above, shmorky broke the law by rping and sharing explicit material with a minor, some explicitly of underage individuals, so both of those things are crimes. What I'm calling into question is sort of the added accusation of abuse. I'm seeing more of a mutual abuse situation here. Unless Mandarys can provide me with more details that imply otherwise, of course.
idk if this forum tracks edits but any made are for clarification or ease of reading. edit: ok, it does. cool