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Troons should be donating to @Null instead of Trans Lifeline....
Have we been doing something wrong?
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Troons should be donating to @Null instead of Trans Lifeline....
Have we been doing something wrong?
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I'll open a Troon LifeLine that is just an automated script saying things like "YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL" and "YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO EXIST AS YOU FEEL MOST COMFORTABLE". At least I'd have a 100% pickup ratio.Troons should be donating to @Null instead of Trans Lifeline.
My moral compass is going off, Shmorky might be a shitty guy but that doesn't mean he deserves to be at a point where he wants to die.
I don't know this actually upsets me.
Heck no matter what you said on the other line at least you'd ANSWER the calls.I'll open a Troon LifeLine that is just an automated script saying things like "YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL" and "YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO EXIST AS YOU FEEL MOST COMFORTABLE". At least I'd have a 100% pickup ratio.
He wants to kill himself because he got caught being a pedophile & it's getting to point where his mind games aren't working on everyone anymore. I don't see any reason to think he's actually remorseful. He got caught in some of his God knows how many lies and he's throwing a tantrum. Even saying that he truly wants to die is. He wants this to go away.
THA-TTHAHTATHTATHATH THAT'S ALL, KLURFS!I just can't help drawing this madness!
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My moral compass is going off, Shmorky might be a shitty guy but that doesn't mean he deserves to be at a point where he wants to die.
I don't know this actually upsets me.
Oh hey that's me, um, I just was trying to point out that we kinda stopped Shmorky from killing himself and that mindset that we run people off into suicide is pretty wrong
Sorry for posting again - don't have much interesting to share yet, but I can confirm a few things:
1) thedevilphil@hotmail.com is his
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2) thedevilphil@speakeasy.net is his
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(none of those conversations are very interesting by the way, it's just scripts he's sending me. I just wanted to confirm his email addresses were genuine.)
3) Probably most importantly, his voice used to be pretty normal. I've attached a recording to this post that he sent me of how he imagined the "Christmas Time In Essex" songs to sound. You'll hear him talk briefly before he starts singing. Not sure if that'll work. If it doesn't I can rehost it somewhere else.
listen, i get it. you should hold onto that, having a strong moral compass is a good thing.My moral compass is going off, Shmorky might be a shitty guy but that doesn't mean he deserves to be at a point where he wants to die.
I don't know this actually upsets me.
The only reason he's depressed is because his pedo chatlogs were found, this all could have been avoided if it weren't for his own actions.My moral compass is going off, Shmorky might be a shitty guy but that doesn't mean he deserves to be at a point where he wants to die.
I don't know this actually upsets me.
you'd probably prevent all the suicides honestlyI'll open a Troon LifeLine that is just an automated script saying things like "YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL" and "YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO EXIST AS YOU FEEL MOST COMFORTABLE". At least I'd have a 100% pickup ratio.
Though, I should say I still don't want him to kill himself, I want him to get some therapy and better himself.
He's just sympathy baiting, he was posting how he wish he never existed and "Oh boo hoo I am such a terrible artist" kind of thing before the chat logs got even got released.My moral compass is going off, Shmorky might be a shitty guy but that doesn't mean he deserves to be at a point where he wants to die.
I don't know this actually upsets me.
Just think of what Mandarys has told us about their relationship and compare it to those things.Coercion and threats
Main articles: Coercion and threats
A tool for exerting control and power is the use of threats and coercion. The victim may be subject to threats that they will be left, hurt, or reported to welfare. The abuser may threaten that they will commit suicide. They may also coerce them to perform illegal actions or to drop charges that they may have against their abuser.
At its most effective, the abuser creates intimidation and fear through unpredictable and inconsistent behavior. Absolute control may be sought by any of four types of sadists: explosive, enforcing, tyrannical or spineless sadists. The victims are at risk of anxiety, dissociation, depression, shame, low self-esteem and suicidal ideation.
Intimidation
Main article: Intimidation
Abused individuals may be intimidated by the brandishing of weapons, destroying their property or other things, or using gestures or looks to create fear.
Economic abuse
Main article: Economic abuse
An effective means of ensuring control and power over another is to control their access to money. One method is to prevent the abusee from getting a job. Another is to control their access to money. This can be done by withholding information and access to family income, taking their money, requiring the person to ask for money, giving them an allowance, or filing a power of attorney or conservatorship, particularly in the case of economic abuse of the elderly.
Emotional abuse
Main article: Psychological abuse
Emotional abuse include name-calling, playing mind games, putting the victim down, or humiliating the individual. The goals are to make the person feel bad about themselves, feel guilty or think that they are crazy.
Isolation
Main article: Isolation to facilitate abuse
Another element of psychological control is the isolation of the victim from the outside world.
Isolation includes controlling a person's social activity: who they see, who they talk to, where they go and any other method to limit their access to others. It may also include limiting what material is read. It can include insisting on knowing where they are and requiring permission for medical care. The abuser exhibits hypersensitive and reactive jealousy.
Minimizing, denying and blaming
Main articles: Minimisation (psychology), Denial, and Blame
The abuser may deny the abuse occurred to attempt to place the responsibility for their behavior on the victim. Minimizing concerns or the degree of the abuse is another aspect of this control.
Using children and pets
Children may be used to exert control, by threatening to take the children or making them feel guilty about the children. It could include harassing them during visitation or using the children to relay messages. Another controlling tactic is abusing pets.
Using privilege
Main article: Privilege (social inequality)
Using "privilege" means that the abuser defines the roles in the relationship, makes the important decisions, treats the individual like a servant and acts like the "master of the castle".
I just can't help drawing this madness!
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For all we know this could actually BE Shmorky.I was checking out the Shmorky thread on SA and some bizarre individual registered an account purely to defend Shmorky, then had a meltdown:
https://forums.somethingawful.com/showthread.php?threadid=3803719&userid=220132
For all we know this could actually BE Shmorky.
I mean it was made today and he did start coming back online today, plus ya' know, the account had a meltdown and he's very prone to that!
But again it just could be one of his Tumblr fans :/
"Crazy SA guy" said:It's pretty cool that you have friends you can call or email did you ever consider the degree of isolation that some people get into? Have you never been an awkward kid with no friends at school? Christ. "Meaningful interaction with your friends" people who belong to minority populations have always been scattered and isolated, the internet is a medium that allows them to group together and organize, it's been fucking amazing for like, Deaf community, various patients with rare congenital diseases, and yeah, men who want to present more feminine, and trans women. You are literally taking away someone's entire social network that they've built over the past decade stop being a fucking ignorant asshole
Re: My point about Lowtax being kind of unpleasant: Dude knows his friend is in an abusive household, & takes it personally that afterwards his friend doesn't wanna talk to him and posts about it on the internet? Do you people like... know how abuse works? PTSD? Anything?