I literally hate the idea of a t4t relationship. EVERY TIME I ever complain about my romantic life THE ONLY FUCKING ADVICE I EVER GET IS "well maby you should try a t4t relationship

" NOOOOOO. I fucking hate that the only way I can EVER APPARENTLY BE RESPECTED IN A RELATIONSHIP IS BY DATING ANOTHER TRANS PERSON??? I SHOULDNT HAVE TO??? also I just don't find trans people attractive if I'm thinking about the long run and Intimacy. I just hate the fact it's the only fucking advice I EVER receive. AND MOST OF MY COMPLAINTS ARENT EVEN TRANS ISUES. I could just be like "I wish I had more free time out of the relationship" and all I get is THE SAME ADVICE? also all I've heard about t4t relationships is bad things, like how they don't understand YOUR trans struggles because it's not the same as theirs or just the burden of worrying about your own gender related mental health and there's. I DO NOT care about allat with other people. The worst thing is that I don't even see myself as trans so t4t relationships just feel like there REALY not going to understand me because I haven't seen many people with the same mindset as me. It's fucking bullshit man.
Edit: even if the stuff I've heard isn't all truth, I still stand by my choice because of the other points. I just find it completely unfair that it seems to be my only option. My mind won't change