Why introducing kids to sex concepts too young is a bad idea?

Content? No one can convince me that Jackson wasn't outright diddled.
I wouldn't be surprised, honestly. One of Jackson's recollections (and I can't recall where I read this) was recalling as a young kid, he was taken to a strip show with a huge audience, where a woman took off her clothes on-stage... except, plot twist, the "woman" was actually a man. And apparently the crowd loved it. IIRC Jackson recalled being confused and horrified.

If someone else knows what the fuck I'm talking about, please link to it.
 
I wouldn't be surprised, honestly. One of Jackson's recollections (and I can't recall where I read this) was recalling as a young kid, he was taken to a strip show with a huge audience, where a woman took off her clothes on-stage... except, plot twist, the "woman" was actually a man. And apparently the crowd loved it. IIRC Jackson recalled being confused and horrified.

If someone else knows what the fuck I'm talking about, please link to it.
Damn, that explains a lot.
 
Question for thread BTW.

So I think I said earlier Japan sexualizes their kids early. I mean in terms of "they really do expose five year olds to concepts way too early."

But people have told me "no they don't, that's one of those myths that got spread because of anime."

I'm curious whose right here: Do Japanese mamas and daddies really go around telling their little girls to obsess over their breast size, or is that just something westerners *think* happens because of anime?
 
As a result, the very first exposure I had to sex as a concept was at the tender age of 11, through this HTML-only website I clicked on when looking for horror stories called "BOILED ALIVE!", featuring several fun pixel gifs of flames and people cooking a big cauldron over a fire. It turned out to be a gore fetish website about cooking and eating people, filled with stories, illustrations, and Photoshop jobs to the effect. It was the first sexual material I ever came across on the web, and it did something wrong and fucked to my brain. I was so intrigued at this visceral thing, read it all, and looked for more, moving on to stuff like the Necrobabes gore porn stories where people describe literal painful dismemberment and organ removal hand in hand with sex acts. I had barely started puberty and had never even spoken with my friends at (my rural Catholic) school about sex. I had never seen normal porn. I had never seen a penis or a diagram of a penis in my life (I'm a woman).

Obviously this made me extremely troubled sexually for my entire life and basically gave me extreme paraphilias surrounding gore and violence. I've been in therapy for it since I was 18, but it has essentially not worked, and I have been battling an addiction to this stuff my entire life. I have gotten involved with violent, unstable, dangerous men because of my inability to kick this early childhood sexual desire to be killed/maimed/eaten/etc, and as a result I have been raped multiple times in my life, and I'm in my early-mid 20s. It's this ridiculous neural drug urge that overpowers my higher thinking and has fucked up my sex life irreparably.
...did you sign up just to say this? Why? :\

You could have just given a little anecdote about "being exposed to a fetish site too early fucked me up", you didn't need to exposit this much information.
 
...did you sign up just to say this? Why? :\

You could have just given a little anecdote about "being exposed to a fetish site too early fucked me up", you didn't need to exposit this much information.
I dunno. Telling the full story makes it more impactful. Summing it as literally "I got exposed to a fetish site and it fucked me up" would almost sound like a joke a KF regular would make.

It highlights just how big the problem is. Incompetent or uncaring parents, too much access to information, kids being able to stumble into information they don't understand...

[Ramble]

.... On that note, one movie/TV cliche that's begun to irritate me is "little boy discovers Playboy for the first time" (or its modern equivalent, but its been a thing for awhile). The kid is always like super excited even if they're like, eight. I remember Small Wonder did this as a joke... and just, to me this never made sense. When I was a kid I didn't even see what was so great about it. "It's naked people, so what?" But for some reason TV writers seem to think that just seeing a naked woman will instantly make balls drop.
 
I dunno. Telling the full story makes it more impactful. Summing it as literally "I got exposed to a fetish site and it fucked me up" would almost sound like a joke a KF regular would make.
Maybe it would have been more impactful if the OP had posted on the site before this, but this is her first post and most of it is about how she has an extreme guro fetish "and it's all [insert site here]'s fault". That's a bad first impression at best and active reason to be suspicious of said OP at worst.
 
Question for thread BTW.

So I think I said earlier Japan sexualizes their kids early. I mean in terms of "they really do expose five year olds to concepts way too early."

But people have told me "no they don't, that's one of those myths that got spread because of anime."

I'm curious whose right here: Do Japanese mamas and daddies really go around telling their little girls to obsess over their breast size, or is that just something westerners *think* happens because of anime?
That probably doesn't happen, but what does happen is that way too many adults who sexualize minors suffer from very little social consequencrs, especially when it comes to high and middle schoolers. An example of that is that things like Enjo kōsai (where adult men go on dates and pay schoolgirls in exchange for sex, basically child prostitution) and JK Business (basically the same child prostitution as before, but with certain hostess bar/maid café elements) are rampant
 
I've also been told that in Japan a lot of kids are scarily hyper-sexual in ways that would be horrifying to us in America.
Question for thread BTW.

So I think I said earlier Japan sexualizes their kids early. I mean in terms of "they really do expose five year olds to concepts way too early."

But people have told me "no they don't, that's one of those myths that got spread because of anime."

I'm curious whose right here: Do Japanese mamas and daddies really go around telling their little girls to obsess over their breast size, or is that just something westerners *think* happens because of anime?
Put the loli doujins down
 
.... On that note, one movie/TV cliche that's begun to irritate me is "little boy discovers Playboy for the first time" (or its modern equivalent, but its been a thing for awhile). The kid is always like super excited even if they're like, eight. I remember Small Wonder did this as a joke... and just, to me this never made sense. When I was a kid I didn't even see what was so great about it. "It's naked people, so what?" But for some reason TV writers seem to think that just seeing a naked woman will instantly make balls drop.
I wasn't excited per se but extremely curious. I always wanted to look behind the curtain hiding the adult section at the video rental store (this just jogged a memory of me sneaking in there actually lol) or the plaques hiding the porn mags in the liquor store. That shit shouldn't have been there to pique interest in the first place.

That probably doesn't happen, but what does happen is that way too many adults who sexualize minors suffer from very little social consequencrs, especially when it comes to high and middle schoolers. An example of that is that things like Enjo kōsai (where adult men go on dates and pay schoolgirls in exchange for sex, basically child prostitution) and JK Business (basically the same child prostitution as before, but with certain hostess bar/maid café elements) are rampant
What's that translate to?
 
I've also been told that in Japan a lot of kids are scarily hyper-sexual in ways that would be horrifying to us in America.
To say the least, mothers tend to masturbate boys to calm them down and teen girls try to imitate ahegao face because they view it as tempting for boys.

Regarding whole sex thing. Lately, this autumn I had opportunity to spend whole month on Canary Islands which I am visiting regularly for last few years. In any case, the exposition of pornography to adolescents became one of major agendas and government is encourages parents to talk to their kids about sex. According to ads I have found during my stay, about 80-90% teens below 12/13 years regularly watches porn content. There are even social campaigns on TV to raise awareness of parents what their offspring are doing on computer and how to tell them that sex in porn begs for unrealistic expectations of what in reality is.

On contrary, same government allows for something called "pride month" and even nastier "fetish parades". Imagine a view of grown, adult man wearing spandex and dog masks on leash in bright day light when kids just hitting puberty are exposed to this kind of freaks. You will see awfully old gays on beaches touching their balls and almost fucking. Multiple bars with "dark rooms" and zones explicitly for gays, or as they portray it "no women zone".

In any case, that can't go without some impact in young minds that may question their sexuality simply on case of looking on degenerates who encourage hazardous relationships with unknown older people. I can't wipe a picture from my head of a table with four gays one of whom was much younger than the rest and was visible uninterested in any interaction with way older fags. Literally this twink was looking for somebody to free him from this situation...
 
What the hell is sex related concepts? The only thing children should (maybe) learn that sex exists, without being exposed to material or different perversions. Making it a taboo probably helped make a lot of coomers who saw consumption of it as rebellion against the system. While targeted exposure of pornographic material is used by groomers.
 
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I mean, between those two options he's probably right, but it's a false dilemma, neither needs to happen.
you can't force teens to not like sex. this year we had 2 huge dramas about mr beast's Delaware guy who fucked a 11 year old when he was 16 and james bear fucking his sister when he was 13 and she was 9, and courtney peet decided to strike back at jerry peet for fucking her when she was a child and he is only like a bit over year and a half older than her.
All of those things were tragic, but real.
A healthy sexual outlet (with their unrelated peers) would've fixed those problems.
 
I've been in therapy for it since I was 18
Please, please change therapist. Or even mode of therapy. Your issue is actively dangerous to you and you have been terribly harmed. There is someone out there who can work with you to give you the ability to set safe boundaries. I am horrified at how badly you've been failed by therapy. You might find a clinical psychologist more helpful. You will also obviously need to do work on your trauma. But please change who you are seeing. I am very worried about you.
 
I don't. Sadly many do and its apparently hard to convince them its bad for the kid.
Agreed. Between a mother and daughter, that’s necessary when she starts to grow up.

But for boys, with the amount of porn they consume, they could probably teach their fathers.
 
Ahh, posting that whole thing was an impulse I kind of regret now.
Please, please change therapist.
I have twice, but yeah, I need to do so again. I just don't know why nothing helps. Thank you for your concern, I'd be receptive to advice if anyone has it on finding psychologists who aren't poisoned ideological freaks.

I live in a very liberal American city, and there's been this strange movement in the industry towards a variety of """sex positivity""" that affirms violent degeneracy and tries to direct you into practicing BDSM. I've been funneled into it multiple times and that's always where I meet dangerous people. I cannot express the degree of hatred I feel towards the advent of "kink" in liberal society. I keep getting re-directed towards the movement that groomed me. It feels like a Sodom and Gomorrah kind of society
 
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