They try to portray it this way but the studies are inconclusive and show very minimal results
Some people just have the look or mannerisms...there are others who just have no filter and are overly confident.
Look I'm a homo so I can say this, but there are men out there who will never pass for straight. You ever see a guy and just know instantly he was born to suck cock?
Yes.
Maybe he doesn't want to? Why should he start changing his mannerisms for someone rude (or clueless)?
Some guys are just immediately clockable as gay no matter what they do. I kind of feel bad for them, it must make life more difficult.
I was coming at a point of avoidance, which is better than having a confrontation at all. If someone doesn't know you're gay he wouldn't come to harass you in the first place.
That's unfortunate.
I think it was near a gay bar. I was giving an example of how forward gay men are, that they will sexually harass (or assault) people. If he did think I was gay, it doesn't excuse it. I'm attracted to women, but I don't see women doing that kind of shit. And if he didn't think I was into men, that would make it worse, as there was no possibility of me being into it. That people who know you like men expect that you'll be into them is also true, but not necessarily the point of the example. That may not have been clear, as it did follow me bringing up that gay men think other gay men will be open to having sex just because they are gay earlier in my post.
For the record, I did say no, and then he kept trying to talk to me. My guess is he was drunk.
It definitely is real. I wonder if the origin is social or something to do with brain development, I remember looking into it a little while ago but I never found much. I reckon it’s a bit of both though. In my childhood/early adolescence the vast majority of my social interactions was with women and I had some flamboyant speaking patterns and mannerisms. In my later teen years though the majority of my friends were men and after a bit my speech changed and now I sound like a regular straight guy and my body language became a lot more masculine as well. I wouldn’t be surprised if the faggcent has an impact on personality though since I still feel like my core personality is a lot more feminine than most other guys.
It's not difficult, I'm going to assume most of you live in America and I guess over there. if you live in a small-ish town, not close to any major cities, it probably is hard because you probably stand out. But if you're in a big city in Europe or even a normal town (in my experience), no one gives a shit and no one pays attention to you. Unless you walk through one of the many sand nigger territories then you may be thrown verbal abuse.
I guess it can be particularly bad in highschool years (public, low-mid tier) or even later, just because a lot of teens are retarded and actual bigots.
I was never out in secondary school (high school) but there was one kid who was and he got teased and bullied a lot, kids are dumb, and many act with sheep mentality. I hope these days people are more understanding and less retarded, though I am not highly optimistic.
The faggcent is probably just host behavior modification from toxoplasmosis.
I don't believe in bigotry. I think there's only prejudice. Whites hate blacks for being violent and retarded and blacks hate whites for being put together. Two very real things and not made up
