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Happy New Year, gentlemen.

Friendly reminder from a Zoomer: The gender divide will soon reach its peak and when it does femoids will be stuffing their face with ice cream and Prozac. As for men, some will simp, others will remain based and redpilled and the rest will try to lead their lives without female approval for the most basic of things.

Death to romantic bullshit. Long live singledom.
 
I was just out with a female friend and she was trying to convince me to install dating apps, when I said its a nightmare for most men and doesn't work she decided to give me some unrequested advice on what a good successful profile should be.

So she gets her phone out and starts showing profiles on her feed and giving a breakdown "this kind of picture is bad, this is good, you should have something here, write something funny in this bit" etc. Then a profile comes up with just one crappy picture and nothing else filled in/no bio. She takes a look and says "See this is a really bad picture with no profile...but he looks hot though" and swipes yes on him :story:

She just invalidated her entire argument and advice in a split second and it all boiled down to - jump through a million hoops and try to be perfect for a hope of a crumb of pussy if you are a normal dude on these apps or if you look like a male model just upload one shitty out of focus photo and you are set. I give her a questioning look and she just didn't get it. I'm not using these fucking apps, the juice isn't worth the squeeze.
 
I was just out with a female friend and she was trying to convince me to install dating apps, when I said its a nightmare for most men and doesn't work she decided to give me some unrequested advice on what a good successful profile should be.

So she gets her phone out and starts showing profiles on her feed and giving a breakdown "this kind of picture is bad, this is good, you should have something here, write something funny in this bit" etc. Then a profile comes up with just one crappy picture and nothing else filled in/no bio. She takes a look and says "See this is a really bad picture with no profile...but he looks hot though" and swipes yes on him :story:

She just invalidated her entire argument and advice in a split second and it all boiled down to - jump through a million hoops and try to be perfect for a hope of a crumb of pussy if you are a normal dude on these apps or if you look like a male model just upload one shitty out of focus photo and you are set. I give her a questioning look and she just didn't get it. I'm not using these fucking apps, the juice isn't worth the squeeze.
is she hot? I cant imagine any girl more than 6/10 using these shitty apps.
 
with zero friends
Off-topic, but how is this even possible? I've noticed this claim both in this thread and several dating general threads on this website several times and I genuinely don't understand this phenomenon. I'm kinda awkward, not an extravert by any means and really not that sociable but nonetheless I have 3 best friends + countless new and old friends and acquaintances I'm not that close to but can easily hang out with.
My sis is just 2 years younger than me (so it's not "the youngest generation is lost!!1" issue) but has NO actual friends. She's a nerd and and gets awesome degrees at her college, yet she had no friends at school and at college she only managed to get somewhat close with like a single other girl. I can't call her shy either.
In comparison, I used to be classmates with an ugly girl that was an outcast and oftentimes got bullied for her appearance and even then she was a close friend of another, slightly better-looking and more sociable female classmate. Hell, I used to be bullied at school myself at one point, yet that evidently did little to hinder the development of my social skills.
The fuck is going on? At least how I understand it, you have to be an actual fucking FREAK, and I'm talking about "creepy momma's boy", "unhygienic hoarder" and other sincerely off-putting, degenerate "brain cockroaches" levels of freakiness, to have absolutely NO friends. 99% of people you know and meet are NOT like that. From what I could gather, this dude is NOT like that. So I ask again, what the fuck is going on? Is the world going insane or am I just wrong and it's actually more normal to have absolutely zero friends than I'd like to think?

I also fruitlessly tried to rent a hooker today (all of them were busy, what the fuck did I expect) so now I'm very grumpy, horny and slightly drunk. Please disregard this rant if you found it to be way too retarded.
 
Off-topic, but how is this even possible? I've noticed this claim both in this thread and several dating general threads on this website several times and I genuinely don't understand this phenomenon. I'm kinda awkward, not an extravert by any means and really not that sociable but nonetheless I have 3 best friends + countless new and old friends and acquaintances I'm not that close to but can easily hang out with.
Unless you have major mental illness or personality defect it is impossible to not have any friends ever. When someone says they have zero friends what they mean in 99,9% of cases is that they don't have the friends they think, they are entitled to.
 
Off-topic, but how is this even possible? I've noticed this claim both in this thread and several dating general threads on this website several times and I genuinely don't understand this phenomenon. I'm kinda awkward, not an extravert by any means and really not that sociable but nonetheless I have 3 best friends + countless new and old friends and acquaintances I'm not that close to but can easily hang out with.
It usually starts with them being bullied at school due to being weird or otherwise not fitting in, no-one wants to be their friend because they know they'll get bullied as well if they do, so they turn to the internet and end up having all their friends be "internet friends". They might speak frequently and do stuff with one-another like regular friends would, but no-one ever really counts internet friends when they say "I have no friends".

It's why I never take the "we need to bring back bullying" argument that so-called "alpha males" make seriously. It doesn't make kids become normal, it just ends up being the trigger that makes them retreat from regular society and stick to the internet for socializing, since no-one wants to talk with people that treat them like shit 24/7.
 
It usually starts with them being bullied at school
Like I said, I'm not sure that's the root cause of the problem. Even a bullied child can and should be able to find friends at least outside of their school class (extracurricular activity clubs, common yard/city district, simply random encounters, etc).
so they turn to the internet
Maybe it's children having access to the Internet that is the real problem. Just a thought that crossed my mind right now.
 
Not having friends makes sense if you are terminally online.

I still have friends that I’m close to from middle school as I approach middle age. At this stage though it’s basically friendship through routine. But I’ve made a number of friends in recent years thanks to my family. We’re all in similar situations where the men work and the women stay at home or work part time. So we help each other out, hang out on occasion, etc.
 
My college is miniscule so much so that people spend time just sleeping. After they have slept for 22 hours they spend the next hour and a half raping and attacking each other.

Then they spend 15 minutes trying and failing to kill themselves before returning to their beds to sleep for another 20+ hours.
 
Not having friends makes sense if you are terminally online.

I still have friends that I’m close to from middle school as I approach middle age. At this stage though it’s basically friendship through routine. But I’ve made a number of friends in recent years thanks to my family. We’re all in similar situations where the men work and the women stay at home or work part time. So we help each other out, hang out on occasion, etc.

Church time in a healthy religious environment can help. Sometimes, you don't need to go for the service, you go for even just a small reminder that you are a social being that needs to be around fellow people from time to time.
 
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If we're talking about young people yes, someone probably has to have something wrong with them (or move around a bunch) to have no friends.

Unfortunately as an adult, unless you're willing to make a really active effort to stay in touch with people it tends to fall off. A lot of the reason having friends (or romantic partners even) is so much easier in school and college is purely because you have a thing you all are forced to do together in person.

The reality is, most people are simply not naturally inclined to make the effort to maintain relationships. And that was never a problem since people had to live and work together, at least until the modern era.
That's been especially damaging for males I think, since they tend to develop relationships through shared struggle, while women can just kind of talk to each other.

It usually starts with them being bullied at school due to being weird or otherwise not fitting in, no-one wants to be their friend because they know they'll get bullied as well if they do, so they turn to the internet and end up having all their friends be "internet friends". They might speak frequently and do stuff with one-another like regular friends would, but no-one ever really counts internet friends when they say "I have no friends".

It's why I never take the "we need to bring back bullying" argument that so-called "alpha males" make seriously. It doesn't make kids become normal, it just ends up being the trigger that makes them retreat from regular society and stick to the internet for socializing, since no-one wants to talk with people that treat them like shit 24/7.
But then what's the alternative, kids just never socially develop because everyone has to entertain them or they'll go hide online with other spergs?

Sometimes bullying really is done just out of cruelty, and I'm sure this varies by area, but it seems like the majority of the time "bullying" is a natural response to a kid who's being irritating or socially unacceptable. In fact it seems like the more likely someone is to say they're being (or were) bullied, the more likely it is they deserve it, since it means they refuse to accept that they hold any culpability for people singling them out. They're perfect how they are, all those other people giving them trouble are unintelligent brutes, and there's nothing they could do.

If people can just detach to the internet, that's a major growth opportunity being missed out on. Figuring out how to get people to have baseline respect for you is a valuable skill pretty much no matter where you go.
 
That's been especially damaging for males I think, since they tend to develop relationships through shared struggle, while women can just kind of talk to each other.
All of the institutions and organizations where adult men formed and maintained bonds were outlawed by the Civil Rights Act, on the grounds that when men socialize, we tend to form business relationships, and this disadvantages women.
 
Off-topic, but how is this even possible? I've noticed this claim both in this thread and several dating general threads on this website several times and I genuinely don't understand this phenomenon. I'm kinda awkward, not an extravert by any means and really not that sociable but nonetheless I have 3 best friends + countless new and old friends and acquaintances I'm not that close to but can easily hang out with.
My sis is just 2 years younger than me (so it's not "the youngest generation is lost!!1" issue) but has NO actual friends. She's a nerd and and gets awesome degrees at her college, yet she had no friends at school and at college she only managed to get somewhat close with like a single other girl. I can't call her shy either.
In comparison, I used to be classmates with an ugly girl that was an outcast and oftentimes got bullied for her appearance and even then she was a close friend of another, slightly better-looking and more sociable female classmate. Hell, I used to be bullied at school myself at one point, yet that evidently did little to hinder the development of my social skills.
The fuck is going on? At least how I understand it, you have to be an actual fucking FREAK, and I'm talking about "creepy momma's boy", "unhygienic hoarder" and other sincerely off-putting, degenerate "brain cockroaches" levels of freakiness, to have absolutely NO friends. 99% of people you know and meet are NOT like that. From what I could gather, this dude is NOT like that. So I ask again, what the fuck is going on? Is the world going insane or am I just wrong and it's actually more normal to have absolutely zero friends than I'd like to think?

I also fruitlessly tried to rent a hooker today (all of them were busy, what the fuck did I expect) so now I'm very grumpy, horny and slightly drunk. Please disregard this rant if you found it to be way too retarded.
It's simple, just be autistic and live in an urban hellscape and possess the social skills of a teenager.

Lots of people are lonely these days, unfortunately I am one of them. To be fair my life is pretty fucked in general so it's no surprise I'm completely alone.
 
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