Michelle Buteau schools Dave Chappelle on how to tell a queer joke without being transphobic: “Can you make it funny?”

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Michelle Buteau has some words of advice for fellow stand-up comics who still rely on gay and trans jokes and punching down at the LGBTQ+ community in their sets: do better. Or, at the very least, make your bad jokes funny!

In her new comedy special Michelle Buteau: A Buteau-ful Mind at Radio City Music Hall, which dropped hit Netflix December 31, 47-year-old Buteau takes aim at arguably the most famous anti-LGBTQ+ comedian of our time: Dave Chappelle.

At one point, she recalls a story about a Black lesbian friend then notes the mixed reaction her story seems to be getting from the audience. Some find the bit funny and laugh, while others appear uncomfortable.

“We can tell jokes and stories and not disparage a whole community,” she says. “We can do that. We can make it funny. We just have to work at it. So, if you ever run into Dave Chappelle, can you let him know that sh*t? I don’t think he knows that sh*t.”

She then calls him “the GOAT,” an acronym for “greatest of all time,” then clarifies, for Chappelle, it stands for “going off on trans people.”

In case you need a recap: In 2021, Chappelle caused major controversy when he made several “jokes” about the transgender community in his Netflix special The Closer, including calling himself “Team TERF,” an acronym for “trans exclusionary radical feminist.”

Despite calls for the special to be yanked from the streamer, Netflix CEO Ted Sarandos repeatedly defended Chappelle’s transphobia as freedom of artistic expression, resulting in several Netflix employees staging a walkout that October.

Chappelle, who also received criticism for making “jokes” about the gay and trans communities in his 2019 Netflix special Sticks & Stones, later responded by saying, “If this is what being canceled is, I love it.”

“Dave, it’s not funny,” Buteau says in her new special. “It’s dangerous. Make it funny. I can’t believe somebody would make millions and millions of dollars for making people feel unsafe. That is so wild to me.”

“I’m manifesting this sh*t tonight. This is a Radio City Music Hall takeover, and I’m gonna tell everybody, I wanna make millions and millions of dollars for making people feel safe, seen, secure, heard and entertained.”


In an interview promoting her new special with USA Today, Buteau added, “I’m not saying you can’t say things. I’m just saying, ‘Can you make it funny?’ Because it doesn’t feel funny.”

“You’re hurting people and you’re making it dangerous. And it’s not just Chappelle. It’s part of the culture that I don’t understand. When people say, ‘We can’t do what we used to do.’ Yeah! Slavery used to be legal, you guys. Sometimes we’ve got to move forward, and I’m sorry if it’s different, but wrap your little mind around it.”

A Buteau-ful Mind is Buteau’s second Netflix comedy special after her 2020 debut Welcome to Buteaupia. Her performance marked the first time a female comic has recorded a special at New York City’s iconic Radio City Music Hall.

 
She then calls him “the GOAT,” an acronym for “greatest of all time,” then clarifies, for Chappelle, it stands for “going off on trans people.”
"going off on trans people" would be GOOTP you unfunny hack.
“I’m manifesting this sh*t tonight. This is a Radio City Music Hall takeover, and I’m gonna tell everybody, I wanna make millions and millions of dollars for making people feel safe, seen, secure, heard and entertained.”
Ma'am this is a comedy show, tell a joke about how pussy stink or whatever it is female comedians joke about.
 
Ma'am this is a comedy show, tell a joke about how pussy stink or whatever it is female comedians joke about. Get off the stage, you fat idiot, we're here for the funny and you ain't bringing it.
I fixed it. Cuz I'm helpful like that.
Fat is funny. Stupid is funny. She is both.
She would only be funny for being fat and stupid if she fell the wrong way down an escalator. And I demand Benny Hill music. Physical comedy is almost always improved by Yakkity Sax. I think thats like a law of physics or something.
 
the joke bombed then which means netflix had to shanghai people off the street to fill the seats. not the case for Dave Chappelle.
I notice this article doesn't actually say what the joke is, so I found the transcript:
I hurt myself because I squat a little bit every now and then, but not in a good way. Horn! Thanks. It got pretty bad once. My husband thought it was sciatica. I didn't know what it was. I was so young. I thought it was overpriced pasta. I asked my husband to check the receipt. I had definitely bought penne pasta. I was so young. Who knows what sciatica is?
Good! I like adult audiences. Thank you for taking care of your muscles. "I can't make it to the show. My sciatica made it difficult." I also wear reading glasses these days. I'm an old woman who can't see the menu. "Turn on the lights. Why are restaurants always dark?" I'm this old. Then I went to the doctor because of my sciatica. I got some athlete-grade ibuprofen. Good, because I am an athlete. And a Theragun. Do you know what that is? I didn't know. A massage gun to help with everyday life. What's that?
I had to stay home, so I invited my friend over, who is a beautiful, black lesbian. I call her Oracle. She is wise and gorgeous. When she saw the massage gun, she gave me a knowing look. I said it was for sciatica. She said, "Whatever." I said, "It's a Theragun. A gun, as the name suggests." "Depends on what you point it at." she said, "No." And she said, "What?" Me: "That's not true." She said, "What?" I looked at her and said, "No. Do you like to get your bottom pounded?" I said, "No. Do you like a good pounding? I never would have guessed. You're such a quiet person. You always read a book every two weeks. You tip too much at the coffee shop. You park far from the door so you can get steps. I wouldn't have guessed you liked bottom pounding." She said, "Yes, I do. I spend way too much on these guns when I'm looking for the right one." I said, "No! My brain is melting." I continued, "Honestly, you should ask someone to hit your pussy." No biggie, just a little slapping. Just a little bit of a smacking. "Knock, knock." "Who's there?" "Just smack, meow." That's all. She said, "No, listen. Theragun is Therafun." I wondered what lesbian Lion's Den I had ended up in. Spell and all. I didn't know she liked to bang. She thinks she knows someone else. Let me give you a quick recap of what happened. I told you a true story about a beautiful, black lesbian friend of mine. It involved some mild violence against a tranny. Just a little bit of a rant. Most of us laughed. Some judged, some wondered. I can see it here.
The joke is essentially that her quiet bookish friend instantly assumed that this:
theragun.jpg
had been purchased for use as a masturbation device, as she herself uses a heavy duty massage gun to masturbate with, because she likes it rough. There's an inkling of a joke in there, subverted expectations and all that, but it's not told in any sort of funny way. It's just a bit weird and oversharing, and her friend being a "beautiful black lesbian" isn't relevant to the "joke".
 
She then calls him “the GOAT,” an acronym for “greatest of all time,” then clarifies, for Chappelle, it stands for “going off on trans people.”

If this is the level of humor, banter, and wordplay in the special, it's no wonder its Rotten Tomatoes page has 1 (ONE) positive review, from some access media ballwasher. This is the official synopsis, by the way: "Michelle Buteau talks going viral, raising twins, and the lows of getting high in this herstory-making special."

Dave Chappelle can rest easy, knowing that this woman represents no threat to his comedic career. Or mine. Or the sardine tins in my pantry's, for that matter.
 
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