Strange things women do/have/endure - That guys wouldn’t know about

[Trump's Chosen]

Is it some kind of divine punishment for women that men are more smelly and women have more sensitive noses?

 

[Stan]

Spoiler: TMI

Once my ex-boyfriend cut up extremely spicy peppers (had a specific name I don't remember), and later that night fingered me. He didn't even think about it. I was sobbing in pain in the shower for like 30 minutes and had to pour a glass of milk on my genitals.

Ouch... I'm sorry that happened.

Mouthwash isn't enough to clear it from your tongue either, you just need to let the capsaicin work its way out over the better part of a day

I recall Maangchi, the Korean cooking Youtube lady, recommends in her kimchi recipe to wear nitrile gloves while mixing up the ingredients because of the abundance of red pepper flakes. I got jalapeno spiciness stuck in my nails one time. It was like the capsaicin managed to work its way down into the ridges of the nail and wouldn't be washed out with anything - soap, hand lotion, ocean water, you name it.

 

[unrealistic expectations]

What experiences do you as women have with trannies? Do they invade your IRL spaces or just shit up your non-fruit farm message boards?

I live near a particularly woke city. The other day a friend told me that a tranny at her hospo job is really sending her by watching her a bit too closely and trying to mirror her moments. This friend is majorly BPD though and quite paranoid so that could all be in her head.

The ones I've had the displeasure to have known have all been failure to launch/too autistic to socially function males and females. The females all started with eating disorders. The males...coom brained, ruined their lives with anime and porn types. One was a prostitute and on getting kicked out of his share house again, was looking around for women's shelters that would take him. I was too disgusted to ever find out if one ever did, cause one probably did. He'd worked his way through about 5 sharehouses in 18 months, peaking each poor set of new housemates before getting kicked out and moving on to the next. He constantly smelled of literal shit and would just discard his used estrogen patches in the shower. My friend spent more nights at my house than her own while they were getting him out of there.

 

[Hubelublub]

watching her a bit too closely and trying to mirror her moments

This is definitely a thing, and it's creepy as fuck. I never figured out a way of handling it, other than to try to not become incredibly self conscious about every single thing I do, and becoming extra cautious about home security.
Moving away from any area where troons are is the best solution.

Non-troon, but still retarded, men do something a bit similar if they're into you. You mention liking something once, and they decide your entire personality is based around this one thing. You like the colour ocean blue and you watch How I Met Your Mother? Congratulations, every time he sees anything related to either of those things, you'll hear about it. Prepare for an endless array of gifts relating only to those two things.

It's as if they try to capture who you are, but are too dumb to recognise people as being a synergistic whole, not a collection of facts. They're retards who want to learn the cheat codes so they can get to the end because they don't realise the journey of playing the game is where the real fun is.

Men also don't appreciate how threatening 'being targeted' is when done to a woman by a man. We generally don't like being the sole focus of your time. It feels like a lion stalking its prey, watching our movements and habits so you can catch us when we least expect it.
In troons especially, but all dumb men in general, I worry the next move is peeping at my window and breaking into my bedroom so you can nick my undies.

There's absolutely no way to tell where a man is going to stop his hyper-monitoring, until it's too late and you're trying to explain to the police why you didn't 'do something sooner'.

 

[NoReturn]

There's absolutely no way to tell where a man is going to stop his hyper-monitoring, until it's too late and you're trying to explain to the police why you didn't 'do something sooner'.

I've said this before and I'll say it again, there are a lot of guys out there who know which lines to not cross so that you can never say he did anything explicitly wrong, and if you say "He made me uncomfortable" you're accused of overreacting or being hysterical unless you want to sit down and list off every single thing he's done all together.
You see it in the Stinkhditch all the time.

"He started wearing the same makeup as me."​

"Maybe SHE just likes your sense of style and is using you as inspiration."​

"He started wearing the same clothing as me."​

"Lots of trans women look to their peers for ideas on how to dress. Have a little empathy."​

"He started acting like me and talking like me."​

"We already discussed this. It's not that weird."​

"He changed his name to my name."​

"You don't own that name, but all of this together is a little weird, I guess."​

​

Like you need a preponderance of evidence to be allowed to be uncomfortable or dislike someone.

 

[unwieldy_object]

Non-troon, but still retarded, men do something a bit similar if they're into you. You mention liking something once, and they decide your entire personality is based around this one thing. You like the colour ocean blue and you watch How I Met Your Mother? Congratulations, every time he sees anything related to either of those things, you'll hear about it. Prepare for an endless array of gifts relating only to those two things.

Lol, this is so spot on with too many men.
Not to mention if you say that you might want to do something at a later point they don't ask for confirmation but expect you to want to do whatever it is.

 

[Hubelublub]

Not to mention if you say that you might want to do something at a later point they don't ask for confirmation but expect you to want to do whatever it is.

These are always the faggots who say shit like

I was thinking about maybe going kayaking at the lake this afternoon after work

And you say

Oh that sounds cool. It's a really nice day outside!

And suddenly there he is at your desk at 4.59pm, asking where your swim gear is.
And at 5.01pm, there is he getting shitty and manipulative while you try desperately to find a way to go home without getting a target permanently painted on your back.
And at 9.00am the next morning, there he is whining to everyone you work with that you cancelled on him for no reason even though he paid to reserve the kayak and he doesn't understand why you're so unreliable and rude.
And at the end of the week, there he is now considering you a bitch who must be taken down, he's stalked your social media and seen you've socialised with other men during the week (you slut!), and, still feeling the sting of his imagined rejection, he's now posting endlessly on woman-hate threads about how all women are frigid whores who can never be trusted because they all want to divorce rape you and abort your babies.

you're accused of overreaching or being hysterica

This is why women reach a certain stage of life where they ignore all criticism from men.

It's like the racist thing. If you constantly call me a racist for every single fucking thing, at some point I'm not going to care about being called a racist anymore. The word "racist" loses its sting.
Same thing with critical comments from men. If moids always critique everything I say, I'm just not going to give a shit what they say any more. You overplayed your hand, now I won't play your gay game anymore.

I have much more success these days beginning from a position of disliking all men and only liking the ones who prove worthwhile.
The worthwhile ones are a really small number, so odds are you won't miss any of the good ones.

 

[Terfmaster9000]

This is why women reach a certain stage of life where they ignore all criticism from men.

It's like the racist thing. If you constantly call me a racist for every single fucking thing, at some point I'm not going to care about being called a racist anymore. The word "racist" loses its sting.
Same thing with critical comments from men. If moids always critique everything I say, I'm just not going to give a shit what they say any more. You overplayed your hand, now I won't play your gay game anymore.

I have much more success these days beginning from a position of disliking all men and only liking the ones who prove worthwhile.
The worthwhile ones are a really small number, so odds are you won't miss any of the good ones.

Fact is, people will see you do, or say something, and the way they interpret what they saw will depend on how they already feel about you. And very often, how people feel about you is a reflection of their inner world, and not necassarily of you.

Imagine you are over at your friend's house. She made Pizza. Your friend, who loves you, will see you take the last piece of the pizza pie and think nothing of it. Or she will be glad someone ate the last piece, so it doesn't go to waste. Or she will assume you really liked the taste of the pizza she made and she will be glad/happy for it!
Another person, who dislikes you based on how you look, something you said, or a story someone told about you, or just because they don't like the sound of your voice, will see the same and interpret it as you being a greedy bitch. An evil person for eating too much/not offering the last piece to someone else, a person who doesn't care about others, a fat bitch!

Your action is the same. It can be neutral in nature. It can be completely irrelevant. How people interpret your action will depend on how they see you, not necassarily how you really are.

I don't know when I realized that, but since I have, it has made me a much freer person. I explained this concept to a friend who had some work trouble recently and it helped her, too. I think especially for people pleasers who feel too overwhelmed when someone dislikes them or something they do or say, this understanding can be very useful.

tldr; don't care too much about criticism. Too nice? Not nice enough? Too pretty? Not taking care of yourself enough? Talking too much or too little? It's whatever. It all depends on who is looking.

 

[NoCockatrice]

I don’t think a lot of men have any idea of how much effort goes into just the “natural” look. When men say they like women that look natural, they mean this:
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Not this:
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Just to do the “natural“ look, a woman will typically use:

• Mascara
• Eyebrow pencil/gel
• Concealer, foundation, or both
• Tinted lip gloss
• Hair styling products
• Eyeliner, just in more neutral shades and/or not very exaggerated
• Highlighter
• Bronzer
• Blush

This also sucks with employment for women too, as even jobs that aren’t looks focused will still encourage (sometimes force) women to wear the natural makeup look on a daily basis, otherwise they get told they look “tired” or “unprofessional.” Men get nowhere near the same pressure to wear makeup, unless they’re in the entertainment business and are required to wear foundation and/or concealer to even out the skin tone and cover acne.

Hell no, the woman in the first picture has so much stuff on her face she's literally glowing. Could've told from a mile.

I unironically prefer ladies without make up. The prettiest girls I knew/know don't wear it, yet they're rockin.

 

[Maricón de Mierda]

Your action is the same. It can be neutral in nature. It can be completely irrelevant. How people interpret your action will depend on how they see you, not necassarily how you really are.

 

[anliteralidiot]

What experiences do you as women have with trannies? Do they invade your IRL spaces or just shit up your non-fruit farm message boards?

I actually have neutral-positive experiences with them. Most of the fandom spaces I'm in are very lgbt+ friendly, and the gender talk doesn't come up, and irl the solo person I've seen was too shy to ever bring it up. Keep in mind that I'm a shut-in female autist, though.

And men will never experience the pure wtf of having a very stressful moment before their period, and it...magically stopping. Like wtf we can hold it in?

Spoiler: examples

I had a convention to go to, and I was entering the cosplay competition. It was on one of the heavy days, too. Magically stopped. Didn't see a drop of it all day. Big clot the next day, when we were flying home.

And a surprise pet death on Christmas day delayed it by a few days. I was already spotting and expecting, but this bought me a few days... I guess it's a consolation prize.

 

[shrimping]

What experiences do you as women have with trannies? Do they invade your IRL spaces or just shit up your non-fruit farm message boards?

I'd seen the mythical transvestite prostitute/sex worker here and there before the insanity started. They mostly kept to their weird depraved underworld, I thought it was fine. I didn't notice them on the internet before they got too ballsy and started demanding that everyone should become aware of their presence.

Spoiler: pl sperg

In college I had a MtF in my group, which was the first time I actually had to personally deal with one, and it's where my journey to peaking started too. This dude had severe male autism and also skinwalked me. I never had to deal with a man who literally "mansplains" and talks over women as much as this guy, at least I know now that these types really do exist. He turned every conversation into either something sexual or an autistic monologue. Everywhere he went he brought along his fat, very sweaty girlfriend who dressed in highly revealing clothing while being a lard-ass. I'm pretty sure she was some kind of they/xem too. She didn't speak our language, knew English, but was semi-mute by choice. She'd whisper to him, and he'd say whatever it was back to us, usually still in English. Very awkward. The girl also had a couple of breakdowns because the lecturers got very annoyed with this random stranger trying to come into class uninvited. Even slightly raising your voice at her would make her emotional.

Nowadays, both TIMs and TIFs dominate the lesbian/bi woman dating scene, and there's pretty much nothing you can do about it. Even ignoring them is hard, because there's just SO MANY, every friend group has one, and you just have to put up with it. And I have to note that I live in a fairly trans-unfriendly country. It just makes them more annoying though, fuels their delusions about being the most oppressed group ever. The TIFs are fairly easy to tolerate. TIMs stick out like a sore thumb and make everyone uncomfortable, and it's always some retarded spicy straight bitch bringing her poly "girlfriend" along and expecting everyone to comply. And no one ever does anything because, idk, female socialization is just sometimes retarded like that.
Still waiting for those tides to shift

 

[PandaChai]

I had a heart-to-heart with my little sister over the holiday season, and remembering this thread I asked her if she had experienced (suffered?) men bring creeps and she said only once (thank goodness) but that she ended it by barking like a dog at him.

 

[Jaws Of Hell]

So uuuhh... I'm reading the Tranny L's thread and some troon talked about waxing his legs with his mother. A kiwi commented on that saying it's a disgusting concept because who would ever wax their legs next to their mother and I'm a bit confused because I have literally done this. I have a wax heater, waxed my legs the other day while watching a movie on tv with my mom. Am I incestuous gigahon coded??? I'm actually worried, please advise.

 

[Yaks]

So uuuhh... I'm reading the Tranny L's thread and some troon talked about waxing his legs with his mother. A kiwi commented on that saying it's a disgusting concept because who would ever wax their legs next to their mother and I'm a bit confused because I have literally done this. I have a wax heater, waxed my legs the other day while watching a movie on tv with my mom. Am I incestuous gigahon coded??? I'm actually worried, please advise.

My mom helped me wax my legs the first time. It's called mother-daughter bonding.

 

[NoReturn]

Am I incestuous gigahon coded??? I'm actually worried, please advise.

My mom helped me wax my legs the first time. It's called mother-daughter bonding.

Inspired by this: Weird mother-daughter relationships.
Everyone has to deal with weird parental relationships, but there's a something there with same-sex parents. Dads and their sons don't really have the same relationship challenges (or positive things) that women and their daughters do. That's not to say that a bad relationship with a parent is exclusive to one sex or the other, but rather, that it's different, and that difference can lead to different communication difficulties than men seem to face.

Consider the following:
If a woman says she and her mother "aren't close", in my experience, the reaction from other people is different than that if a man says he and his father aren't close. If a woman says she doesn't like her mother, the reaction is different than if the man says the same of his father. I'm not saying this is better or worse, or one side has it harder, just that the fact that it is different means there's a lack of a shared experience there.

Similarly, even between women, and especially these days, you run into situations where woman A can say "I'm not close to my mother" and it's because the mother is legitimately a source of pain and anger for that woman, and woman B can say "I'm not close to my mother" and it's because woman B didn't get to go to Disney as often as she wanted as a kid, or the mom likes Trump, or some other bullshit.

 

[Mandy Stroyer]

Inspired by this: Weird mother-daughter relationships.
Everyone has to deal with weird parental relationships, but there's a something there with same-sex parents. Dads and their sons don't really have the same relationship challenges (or positive things) that women and their daughters do. That's not to say that a bad relationship with a parent is exclusive to one sex or the other, but rather, that it's different, and that difference can lead to different communication difficulties than men seem to face.

I was thinking about this as well. In terms of the post you're replying to, I was taught to shave my legs/pits, do my makeup and hair, pick out outfits, and any other "feminine" bonding experience in the same way a dad would yell at you for not holding the light straight while he worked on the car. I don't think there's a single thing wrong with doing any of those things with your mother since your father wouldn't know how but when it's mandatory is when issues arise.

If a woman says she and her mother "aren't close", in my experience, the reaction from other people is different than that if a man says he and his father aren't close. If a woman says she doesn't like her mother, the reaction is different than if the man says the same of his father. I'm not saying this is better or worse, or one side has it harder, just that the fact that it is different means there's a lack of a shared experience there.

Mothers are regarded as infallible caregivers. They take the brunt of the emotional and physical labor of raising children and you're meant to 'owe' them. Even a bad mother must be compensated for the duty of birthing you. Fathers are seen as disposable, and their reputation of disposing themselves by going out for a pack of cigs the instant a pregnancy is announced doesn't help. The "default parent" phenomenon is a good example of this. Dad is a background character to the child a majority of the time whether that be due to work, lack of interest in their kid, or male incompetence though even a loving stay-at-home dad can be demoted to second fiddle. Children are naturally drawn to their mothers first so when one isn't, it's definitely seen as weird on the part of the child rather than the parent.

 

[PandaChai]

If a woman says she doesn't like her mother, the reaction is different than if a man says the same of his father.

Scrapped what I was typing, @Bronze Age Baddie put it much better than I could.

There's also the disparity in perception between a "daddy's girl" and a "momma's boy", though there is a level of immaturity/childishness seen with both those sorts of people. And what's with this recent "boy mom" meme? That is, mothers of male children, not a guy who takes on a motherly role.

 

[NoReturn]

And what's with this recent "boy mom" meme? That is, mothers of male children, not a guy who takes on a motherly role.

"Boy mom" is a phenomenon where the mother prefers her male child over her female children (if she has any) or participates in an usual relationship with him. Where this veers into the uncanny (and not just preferential treatment) is when it crosses into the realm of emotional incest.

Examples:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RkH-TdsxmEA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=POiWfbwbOJY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ly-9gCIvo5k

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=br6hju8dIAk

What happened at lanealexisxo’s wedding? Mother-in-law’s kiss shocks viewers


This can happen either when the mother is using the child as a replacement male-partner (though emotional incest can happen with daughters as well) or when she sees the male child as "her man" and has issues with other men, but her son is one that can never escape her.

 

[FeatherPlucker]

Shithead men telling us that we have to "make babies" all the time.. while they simultaneously hate their mothers, hate their wives, hate "mommy bodies", hate spending time with, or money on, their own kids.