I wish I could share your optimism on the leaks being fake, I hope you are going to be proven right in the end, but in my experience, these things usually turn out to be real.
This situation gives me memories of many shitty releases of the past. There are dubious leaks, everyone is in denial and copes real hard, then it turns out everything is true after all. Brings me memories from 2013, when everyone was in denial about the rumors, that Aliens Colonial Marines is actually a shit game. Same thing happened with Watchdogs, people said the graphics look like crap on leaked shots, compared to the E3 demo, because they were made on consoles, or weak PCs.
We can basically confirm there is at least one black dude and one sexual cutscene, that may, or may not be gay. After February 4, we can finally learn about the context and decide how bad it is.