Kelly Lenza / LividLipids / softbodytendermind / ass_child / photopotamus - "Radical body liberationist”, Intentionally Repulsive, Uber woke middle-aged SJW influencer wannabe, doxed her former therapist for getting WLS, ate her way to heart failure

[Speakeasy Electric]

I’m not up on all of Kelly’s lore, what even makes a person have this sort of pathology? It’s not all soc jus liberalism and therapy culture, though that certainly encourages her loudness about it. What the fuck happens to someone that makes them a sadistic narcissistic person who actively neglects those closest to her and seeks out to hurt others for pleasure? Was she abused? Are her parents like this?

 

[Clotso Coof]

what even makes a person have this sort of pathology?

Kelly is so extreme, I have to think she was genetically predisposed to a severe personality disorder like narcissism or sociopathy.

Twin studies have shown that nacissism has the highest heritability of any personality disorder. Those studies are controlled for parenting and other environmental factors, with the twins in the studies raised in the same household. Sociopathy also seems to be partially inheritable.

If Kelly had a terribly abusive childhood, she would have spilled every single detail online over the years. She'd wear it like a badge. Same with brain damage or anything else that could be blamed on another person or a health issue. Look how much she harped on about her undiagnosed Long Covid until her current sex pest arc.

 

[glass_houses]

Kelly is so extreme, I have to think she was genetically predisposed to a severe personality disorder like narcissism or sociopathy.

Twin studies have shown that nacissism has the highest heritability of any personality disorder. Those studies are controlled for parenting and other environmental factors, with the twins in the studies raised in the same household. Sociopathy also seems to be partially inheritable.

If Kelly had a terribly abusive childhood, she would have spilled every single detail online over the years. She'd wear it like a badge. Same with brain damage or anything else that could be blamed on another person or a health issue. Look how much she harped on about her undiagnosed Long Covid until her current sex pest arc.

She's complained about her mother controlling her food, forcing her to diet, body shaming her if she gained weight as a teenager etc. A narcissist can destroy your life and mental health without laying a single finger on you, and the behaviour Kelly's describing is consistent with what many people say gave them an eating disorder later in life.

Anything Kelly says needs to be taken with an entire mine's worth of salt, but I have no doubt that there were some things in her early life that were less than ideal. Said things might not have even been all that traumatic on the Terrible Childhood scale, but like you say, NPD has a strong genetic component, so it wouldn't have taken much by way of nudging to make her brain develop in that direction. Some people can take horrendous abuse and still come out the other side warm and loving individuals; some people have a perfect life and are shitcunts for no reason.

 

[LonesomeDud]

Sometimes abuse is hard to articulate. You never know how things will weigh on a child - Disapproving "micro aggressions" weighed daily on a child can feel crushing.

A friend of mine grew up deeply affected from this by a parent, although that parent wasn't abusive. It pushed a wedge between the parent and child, and what the parent wanted for the child, and ultimately accepting who the child became, which wasn't a bad person, but very different and hard for the parent to relate to. It's easy for my friend to demonize his parent, but the truth is more complex than what anyone can write in an internet post, or even really explain to a therapist. Sometimes, it's just easier to let it go and focus on becoming the person you were meant to be. (lol right Kelly would never)

 

[Adrenochrome Dreams]

Is the consensus that she’s actually out there doing all this shit?

Part of me can’t help but think this is all just an elaborate wank fantasy with her larping as a very sexually active polyamorous person.

It’s hard to believe that somebody who struggles with the basics of everyday life (including just standing up, and walking), doesn’t leave the house much, seems to have limited energy and success with socialising with people, and can barely entice her own husband to have sex with her, has somehow gone from 0-60 MPH in a nanosecond in her wildly promiscuous, extra-marital activities.

 

[Breadbear]

Is the consensus that she’s actually out there doing all this shit?

Part of me can’t help but think this is all just an elaborate wank fantasy with her larping as a very sexually active polyamorous person.

It’s hard to believe that somebody who struggles with the basics of everyday life (including just standing up, and walking), doesn’t leave the house much, seems to have limited energy and success with socialising with people, and can barely entice her own husband to have sex with her, has somehow gone from 0-60 MPH in a nanosecond in her wildly promiscuous, extra-marital activities.

She's a furry on FetLife. I can believe it.

 

[vanilla_pepsi_head]

Is the consensus that she’s actually out there doing all this shit?

Part of me can’t help but think this is all just an elaborate wank fantasy with her larping as a very sexually active polyamorous person.

It’s hard to believe that somebody who struggles with the basics of everyday life (including just standing up, and walking), doesn’t leave the house much, seems to have limited energy and success with socialising with people, and can barely entice her own husband to have sex with her, has somehow gone from 0-60 MPH in a nanosecond in her wildly promiscuous, extra-marital activities.

She's undeniably fat AF but if she is capable of deep-frying and freezing her own chicken tendies in bulk for available bedtime snacks, hauling her fat ass to go suck up medical resources at some doctor or therapist appointment several times a week, and engaging in any number of hobbies when the mood strikes her until she inevitably burns her bridges, she is certainly more than capable of emotionally abusing her entire household until her autist husband gives up his after-work vidya time to do everything himself while she hurples out to a hotel somewhere and lays there letting some filthy fetlife degenerate infect one of her fat folds with venereal disease. Like many lazy, narcissistic fat fucks she frequently tries to pass off her sloth, gluttony, entitlement, and tendency to treat other people like garbage by claiming whatever physical or mental handicaps she hopes might plausibly excuse her moral failings and vile behavior. Don't fall for it.

 

[stupid frog]

She's a furry on FetLife. I can believe it.

+ she's on Grindr

 

[Adrenochrome Dreams]

Anyone can make an account on fetlife or Grindr. Doesn’t mean she actually left her hovel

 

[LonesomeDud]

I mean, it's possible, but I don't think anyone here really has to worry about ending up in the same dating pool as Kelly Lenza, so either way...

 

[brooky]

It’s hard to believe that somebody who struggles with the basics of everyday life (including just standing up, and walking), doesn’t leave the house much, seems to have limited energy and success with socialising with people, and can barely entice her own husband to have sex with her, has somehow gone from 0-60 MPH in a nanosecond in her wildly promiscuous, extra-marital activities.

You're overestimating the vigorousness of her encounters. They're probably brief fumbles with smelly, ugly weirdoes, very awkward all around, with minimal small talk beforehand to establish boundaries etc. They aren't full on affairs with lots of sneaking around and flirting and laughing and nice dates out or anything. If she wasn't open about what she was doing, she could easily disguise them as a trip to the grocery store.

Chantal managed to drag herself to a dark alley to get felt up, and she's arguably way lazier than Kelly.

 

[toilet_rainbow]

She attended Midwest FurFest from what I can tell. She also did that deer gimp photoshoot for “kink advocate” Devon Price back in the fall, so she’s definitely at least in close contact with her. I can believe that she is doing what she claims, even if she is possibly exaggerating details like how often she is actually hooking up. She’s pretty ambulatory and social for a deathfat with CHF.

 

[Breadbear]

deathfat with CHF

I almost forgot about the congestive heart failure - I mean the Long COVID. That she had symptoms of before getting COVID. Checkmate, doctors.

 

[Here to Gawk]

It’s hard to believe that somebody who struggles with the basics of everyday life (including just standing up, and walking), doesn’t leave the house much, seems to have limited energy and success with socialising with people, and can barely entice her own husband to have sex with her, has somehow gone from 0-60 MPH in a nanosecond in her wildly promiscuous, extra-marital activities.

Isn't Kelly taking testosterone and God-knows-what else for gender dysphoria? Screwing with your hormones can cause drastic behavior changes, especially if there's a simmering mid-life crisis in the background.

 

[Trombonista]

Isn't Kelly taking testosterone and God-knows-what else for attention and oppression points?

FTFY. We all know she doesn't actually have gender dysphoria.

 

[toilet_rainbow]

Tumblr updates. Mostly the usual.




Kelly has a cold but no weed

Spoiler: text

No weed tonight, so I'm awake with increasing sinus pain from this cold slowly clogging up my face.

Lots of thoughts about being on t, relationships, who i am. It's all changing, and it's all not. So grateful for the ppl in my life rn. It's been a helluva trip so far but like. I feel like I have found a few of "my people," like folks say.

As always, struggling w poor self esteem off and on. Insomnia always. Horny always. Loving ppl always. Curious almost always. Sometimes brave when I need to be and sometimes on accident

Dropped my phone on my face and it hurt so I'm off to listen to a meditation

Reblogging Devon Price giving advice and reassurance to a pooner trying (and failing) to cheat on her wife on Grindr




Reblogging reassurance that it’s okay to be fat and get even fatter (and adding her own commentary)




Reviewing her experience of taking T and O (Ozempic) at the same time



Says that her father was a sailor



Furry art she created





Amongst the usual furry/fat/trans stuff, she reblogged some of the most horrific MLP fanart I’ve seen in a while (which is saying something)

Spoiler: nsfl

 

[Berserker Armor]

Speaking of reblogs: I have been meaning to point out when checking in on her on my own time here and there that she’s been reblogging from puppychan ALOT which is a nerve racking cow cross over to say the least

 

[Free the Pedos]

Well, no. Chances are good that a judge will award custody of the girls and the house to Kelly, along with a massive amount of alimony. And I guarantee that Kelly would fight tooth and nails to keep the girls. Not because she wants them, but because he does. That's S.O.Ps with narcissists.

I almost forgot about the congestive heart failure - I mean the Long COVID. That she had symptoms of before getting COVID. Checkmate, doctors.

Dads get split custody most of the time when they pursue it. I think he has a decent case for less custody what with her poor health. It really depends on the state and the judge they go in front of, according to my understanding. I knew a couple that was somewhat similar (functional dad, sick personality disordered mom) and he got full physical custody.

I bet her husband is afraid of losing custody and paying alimony OR just tells himself that so he can avoid putting in the effort to start over.

 

[Jacinda Ardern IRL]

Dads get split custody most of the time when they pursue it. I think he has a decent case for less custody what with her poor health. It really depends on the state and the judge they go in front of, according to my understanding. I knew a couple that was somewhat similar (functional dad, sick personality disordered mom) and he got full physical custody.

I bet her husband is afraid of losing custody and paying alimony OR just tells himself that so he can avoid putting in the effort to start over.

I think it's likely him not wanting to pay for alimony, for the cost of a divorce, and the lawyer costs he might need to get full custody (even though I think he wouldn't have any trouble getting full custody). I think he's lazy and complacent enough about the situation that, as grim as it feels, he's honestly just rather wait for Kelly to die naturally and then start his new life. If he's worried about having to pay alimony anyway, it's probably cheaper for him to just support her in his house and mentally check out in the mean time.

 

[Breadbear]

There's always a chance he just doesn't give a shit, that he's happy enough with his job, hobbies, and friends that he doesn't care one way or the other about his household. As long as he has some spending money and viddy games, he's good.