I’m still a bit of a noob, and (this thread especially, over the last couple of days) Kiwi Farms is surprisingly wholesome to cows who wish to get better
The #1 hallmark of a cow is constantly doubling down on your behavior. Either to prove some stupid point to nobody, or because you don't believe you've done something wrong. A lot of us do dumb shit when we're younger. Zoey's an example of a type of person whose behavior we'll laugh about, but it's not like we
hate her (and some of it you can't even really
blame her for to an extent). Now, contrast that with somebody like, say, Colton, or Nick Rekeita.
These people are doing shitty things to the people around them all of the time and their actions have a very real impact on people other than themselves. Not only that, but they
constantly double down on their antics while placing the blame elsewhere, lying about how things happened, or just not caring at all. You can
legitimately be pretty hateful of Rekeita for using his children as bargaining chips in the court of public opinion on top of straight up exposing them to cocaine.
Hell even
Ralph is at least
saying he's going to go into rehab (

), but more importantly the
way in which he said so isn't the way somebody like Nick would in that situation ("
yeah man the state is totally making me even though I'm INNOCENT and I'm going to go back to drinking immediately after"). Nick has shown that he is not only unremorseful but has stated he would absolutely indulge in the behavior that got him into trouble if nobody was looking. Zoey's been demonstrating she both wants to get better and knows how the way she can behave affects people around her. Nobody's going to
hate the subject of a thread for just taking ownership of their behavior (provided it wasn't some criminal shit like monkey torture or child predation).
And if the dox is confirmed: is she uglier and more retarded than
Birdie?
Honestly she looks pretty normal, assuming the photo with the grad cert (or whatever that is; I'm not certain what level of education that would be for if she didn't graduate unless that bit was a fib) is her. I've seen weirder looking people here, and at least she's relatively healthy still (but she needs to eat and drink normally).