I’ve never topped and I never will. I didn’t transition to top guys sorry
[–]pnkchyna 16 points 14 hours ago*
every single time

. tbh, it’s degrading asf…cause we know they would never ask a random cis-woman to peg them.
[–]AndesCan 5 points 13 hours ago
How do you know that?
I’m speaking from my own experience, anytime I’ve ended up a

the dudes been pegged by a cis women….
I look at it like this, I’m trans whether I like it or not. If I’m asking a cis dude to meet me at my lvl with their open minds than I’m not gonna close my mind to what they might be curious about.
Men are men, not a monolith, should sound familiar.
But if you constantly presume things you don’t know then you’re choosing to write the story the way you see it which could be wrong and could be full of self pity, which is just another way to suffer.
SUFFERING IS A CHOICE WHY ON EARTH WOULD YOU CHOOSE TO SUFFER OVER SOMETHING YOU DONT ACTUALLY KNOW
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/meditation-for-modern-life/202409/pain-is-inevitable-suffering-is-optional#:~:text=Pain%20is%20an%20unavoidable%20part,stronger%20on%20the%20other%20side.
[–]pnkchyna -5 points 13 hours ago*
…because it’s reality. we live in a society where the average woman doesn’t want to date bi men & in a world where dozens of countries still criminalize homosexuality. & fyi…toxic masculinity is all the rage. getting fucked in the ass invokes the polar opposite.
speak for yourself sweetie…cause you’re clearly suffering. i’m sorry you can only find gay men, that must really suck. but there’s no need to take it out on me, if you genuinely wanna be a top then all power to you

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[–]Dear-Association6904 0 points 1 hour ago
Would you say that being fucked in the ass it's dysphoric? Enjoying sex because we have a prostate should make u dysphoric right? After all cis women don't have a prostate, Doesn't the use of words such as top and bottom make u dysphoric? How is it that a man wanting something up in the ass makes him gay and makes u dysphoric but being fuck in the ass yourself and enjoying prostatic sex (exclusive men thing) does not make you a gay male too?
I will say if u are too dysphoric to top then u should be too dysphoric to bottom without SRS because u are having gay sex either way.
See how fucked up this is? U can just say that u have a preference but no its better to be like: IF STRAIGHT MEN LIKES BEING PEGGED ITS AUTOMATICALLY GAY!
This statement it's fake for example some gay people has never been Bottom so does that mean he is not gay?
No, Because being gay it's liking a male looking person not being fuck in The ass!
[–]pnkchyna 0 points 52 minutes ago*
whew chile

…y’all are waaay too invested in putting dick in men. it’s wicked work.
anywho, first of all…i never mentioned dysphoria, & neither did OP. so keep the straw man arguments to yourself.
second of all…take a human anatomy class so you can educate yourself on the homologous counterpart to the prostate in cis-women. there’s only
one human template that we all develop from.
third of all, i don’t want tops or bottoms…i only date straight men whose default & only setting is penetrating. y’all are the hype beasts for the bottoms & vers sissies that masquerade as straight.
fourth of all, if you haven’t noticed…anal isn’t exclusive to gay men. there’s literally cis-women who prefer &/or exclusively have anal sex. you sound like an inane incel who’s unfortunately never had the opportunity to explore their sexuality.
bless your heart…all that wanton anger & frustration isn’t healthy.
[–]AndesCan 4 points 13 hours ago
Sources about pegging… BY STRAIGHT WOMEN FOR WOMEN
https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/sex/a32421/what-is-pegging/
https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/sex/a12149828/pegging/
https://www.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10155568449357708&id=100059185706330
https://m.sevendaysvt.com/arts-culture/am-i-gay-if-i-ask-my-girlfriend-to-peg-me-34068381
[–]pnkchyna -11 points 13 hours ago
LMFAO nobody caaares bitch. get a life

, this is a weird & gross ass hill to die on.
[–]AndesCan 7 points 13 hours ago
Do you not see the irony you’re calling people who do pegging gross you literally are calling them gross. Have you not heard the phrase don’t yuck someone’s Yum?
For the record, I have never pegged anyone. Would I do it? I don’t know. I have no desire to, but if I met the man of my dreams and it was something he was really into I mean in the end as long as you’re happy and he’s happy Then who cares.
Again, are men like to get pegged gay ?
If you don’t see why this hill is so important to die on let me fill you in on a little secret honey
I bet you call yourself a woman. In my eyes you are. But in the eyes of about 70% of the cisgender population, you’re a gay man.
Do you see that they spoke for you? They told you what you are.
Are you telling me that if a man wants to get pegged by a woman and only a woman he’s gay
That’s mighty bold of someone assigned male at birth, who enjoys having sex with other men who doesn’t call themselves gay. Let that irony sink in for a minute.
You don’t get to tell anyone what their sexuality is nor do you get to tell them what their gender is end of story that’s the hill I’m dying on
[–]pnkchyna -6 points 12 hours ago
girl…why is you soo pressed that we don’t want dick in the booty men ??? your weird ass should be happy cause that’s more for you.
[–]AndesCan 3 points 12 hours ago
No, I’m not happy because any straight dude who reads this is gonna think straight trans women will think they’re gay
Like I said, are guys who like to get pegged gay?
Because it seems like you’re insinuating, they’re gay…
Does that make lesbians to use strap on straight? Or does that make lesbians who have PV sex with trans women straight?
Lol
Let’s recap you have blasted me for defending men who want to be pegged from being labeled as gay or insinuated as gay. You’ve also told me that any trans woman who potentially would want to top a man is weird or gross.
You should write a book