and I must scream
kiwifarms.net
- Joined
- Jan 17, 2021
This makes me think he have tried to test the waters multiple times by raising some "hypothetical" scenarios and "what ifs" that include her being with a woman. Women who are married to a man (or have long term relationships with ones) don't see the need to continuously claim how much they don't want to be with a woman.She has always been very vocally against being with a woman
This is so disgusting to me, I have no words. Many years of infertility. You could have come out or/and left at any point. But no. No. You stayed and waited and waited and waited until she got pregnant, and then you told her. FUCK YOU. How cruel can these men be? The infertility might be tied to him too, by the way, with a different man she might have gotten pregnant sooner.We have a child together after many years of infertility. She berates me constantly for "trapping her into having a kid with someone who doesn't want to be a man."
You know it but you don't care.I know I'm probably a horrible person for struggling quietly with my gender identity and trying to move forward with the life I "sold to everyone" (her words) and not just leaving her years ago to transition. I know that by coming out and transitioning, there will be a lot of people that are angry, hurt, or upset by my actions.
You could have come out at any point. You waited until a child was born to trap her. You know what you were doing, stop playing dumb now. Many years of infertility. You chose to come out now. And after Trump was elected, it's not like a democrat was elected after 4 years of republican president so you think that now is the right time because it's good for the trans community and blah blah blah. You don't even have this excuse. It's very clear why you chose to come out now. She knows it too and she tells you as much. This is the truth and you know it.But why don't my feelings matter? Why would it be better for me to just suffer for the foreseeable future instead of living my life genuinely and trying to be happy and not actively wanting to not be alive. Yeah, people will be upset, but why is it my fault for upsetting them and not their fault for not being accepting?
I love this false equivalent. "I understand she can't change her sexuality, why doesn't she understand I can't change my gender?"I can understand why she wouldn't want to be with me after transitioning because she is 100% straight and wants nothing to do with being with a woman. You can't change your sexuality. It just kills me that that same logic can't be applied to me and my feelings.
Because she haven't being lying to you for years about her sexuality. She haven't led you astray for years of struggling with infertility just to reveal after a child is finally born that she lied to you about who she is or whom she attracted to. You have. You have done all of this. So no, this is not the same at all.
FUCK. YOU.If all you can see in a trans person is all of the people who were hurt, or relationships that ended, and not how brutally painful, depressing, terrifying, and guilt-ridden if feels to be a trans person (especially in the world right now), you are the problem.
I feel so bad for this woman and the child.











