It's wild how we have to infer the best possible situation from his Grindr interactions and assume he had consent, but then with Pxie we have to assume the worst and that she didn't have consent.
His community seriously can't grasp that
there are no victims accusing Pxie of anything, and
he has several victims accusing him of violating consent. It's literally that simple. These acts by definition require a victim, it's not a victimless act, like littering which is against society broadly. So until someone steps forward and accuses Pxie, then that detail is beyond irrelevant.
He's already admitted to violating consent. Not to mention this isn't the first time he's done this sort of thing. With Denims he admitted to recording illegally, (California is two party consent).
I think the asking Pxie for sextapes of her with other guys, just proves
how his main focus is being cucked. His attraction to
minors, men, feet, or even
engaging in sex himself are not his primary sexual impulse. I'm now more than ever convinced his breakup with Hasan was entirely because Hasan refused to cuck him.
Hasan turned down Lav because she was engaged, so clearly sleeping with women in relationships isn't something he is comfortable with. Destiny has no actual values or political beliefs he truly cares about, so their friendship ending had nothing to do with that. He's just upset his friend didn't want to satisfy whatever perverse cuck dynamic he wanted. Explains why he acts like a spurned lover, and Hasan acts like someone with a deranged stalker ex. Because that's the closest representation for their dynamic.