it's another of those infinitely expanding questions. if you want the state to ensure the safety and care of children who aren't aborted but saved from psychotic mothers or just parents in general, you also should want the state to have a high quality of care for those children, which mandates X, which mandates Y... it is a very exhausting conversation. suffice to say, this topic doesn't ever have any good outcome to it, and the ultimate solution is unfortunately impractical, because men are horny, and women are horny, and people don't contain themselves or consider future problems, especially at a young age.
societal constructs exist to help and perpetuate those behaviors, and no interest in pulling away from them is ever shown by anyone with the power to influence this change. the tragedy is not that justa or i can't agree on it, the tragedy is the children who get caught up in a bad home, or get aborted, or get adopted into something evil. the world is a tragic place, and the abortion debate is probably the most tragic. i'm sorry i don't have a further answer either. i wish i did.