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All of this is profoundly stupid. Do you think Null wants your kid's picture on his website? Again, it's not a fucking blog. Do that somewhere else.
Margaret Pless / idlediletante / Stan - Official Kiwi Farms Advertiser and Enthusiast Who Has Proudly Eaten Ass. Now Posting Her Tits to Own the Troons!
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The question is not "why not?" but "why?"
I'm not even going down the "ugh do you know what people do with pics of children" path. You just do not post your children. It's NOT the school website. It's not even Facebook, or not even some influencer or whatever posting their kids in "cute" videos on TikTok or other SM. It's a site frequented/ watched by people from around the world, some of whom are bona fide creeps.
Is anything likely actually to happen? I'll conservatively say no, and I truly hope not. But you DON'T post your baby to a site watched by an unknown wide range of people, but known to include some people who hate every person here, and including some who are fucking deranged or who can't even articulate why children and babies are not objects of desire.
And you know better than to post a pic or name of your husband (& whatever he does for a living). Yet you post your child - unrequested, and without even a smidgen of passable trust between you and the potential audience.
And the outcome? Yes, some of us have commented she's adorable and you have every reason to dote on her - those things are true. But not one of us needed to see her. And the fact that you have an adorable child isn't going to make any of your detractors think better of you than they already do. Nor is it going to increase the positive thoughts and hopes for you and your family that those of us who wish you well already have.
If you've got some need to draw in malevolent people and/or push off benevolent ones, you seem to have been pretty skilled at meeting that objective prior to now. Pulling your daughter into your issues is reckless and wrong.
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Okay stan , I think is time for meds and therapy. I understand you get shittered from time to time to let off some steam but this is getting off the rails .
I got some help after birth of my kid a good therapist can do wonders and try to call your mom for some adult time.
I got some help after birth of my kid a good therapist can do wonders and try to call your mom for some adult time.
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I felt like it. And I am proud of her. I work hard for her. I enjoy having her.
I'm pretty sure this thread already got a picture of him, and his name.
You know you're right I'm tapping out 'til Easter.
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Also, take up a hobby like creative writing, music, or art. Posting that would go over better than posting pictures of your kids.
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You are disturbingly nonchalant about this possibility. What makes it even worse is I think you’re doubling down mostly because you don’t want to admit you’re wrong on an Internet forum.
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I'm hesitating to post in this thread because at this point I think Stan just thrives off of us giving her attention and will do anything for it, absolutely including this
true cow behavior
true cow behavior
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or there’s a deeper, scarier reason
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Can you choose to not post online for Lent, for the sake of yourself and your kid?
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Yeah, and as I mentioned, same for my kids - and probably the same for nearly all parents here. And yet none of that adequately answers the "why" question. You know damn well that every impulse is not a self- justifying defensible reason to do it.
And we also both know that although alcohol lowers prudential bars, and while it may cover some mild PL or overzealous arguing (or even an unnecessary tit pic), if that's what's behind this decision, it's beyond a mild crutch and into a needs-addressing problem.
Okay, maybe. Oh, wait, right, a pic from college...at your school that you reference fairly often. But I don't see people using his name, though I suppose that could be willful ignorance on my part bc I have normal boundaries. But you don't use his name (unlike, iirc, your MIL's recently), and you scoot around his work, even when talking about it. So you do have a more complex analysis than "why not.". And btw, you'll note that there's not a lot of "tell us what he does, tell us, tell us" - bc even people who dog you here seem content not needing to know.
Be well, and get right.
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Tap out until you can realize why this was profoundly fucking retarded. Then wait another month. After that you can come back to make fun of trannies.
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I think that that is a good idea.
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stan i promise you nobody sane here is trying to archive your daughter
just delete the shit
and never do that again
just delete the shit
and never do that again
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People who like you and people who don't like you so much are saying the same thing, Stan, to delete the photo and to be more discreet. I hope this year is a good one for you and your family.
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Blue checks can not edit nor delete their posts. That's what makes this even more baffling that Stan would do this in the first place. Luckily a Janny got to it and deleted it.
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This isn't me joking. I get the impression you're inebriated more often than not when you post. Don't just "check out" until Easter. Take the initiative and get help.
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Alcohol clearly impairs both your judgement and reading comprehension. My criticism of you behavior has nothing to with what random retards Online say about you, who gives a shit?
No, my criticism is of your behavior, specifically your drinking. Your daughter is being raised by an alcoholic. Your daughter's childhood is going to be Hell on earth if you don't get your shit together, Mags. Right now she's too young to know and understand what a fucking mess you are, but that won't last forever.
I wonder how Tilly will turn out? Will she go on to emulate your destructive behavior, having had no healthy coping mechanisms modeled for her growing up? Or will she turn into the "responsible" type, who ruins her own life and mental health taking care of your drunk ass? Best case scenario, she cuts you off forever, and lives a healthy normal life away from you, having nothing to do with you, and never speaking of you or to you ever again.
"Huurrr durrr I'll hide it from her, I'm a functional alcoholic!" Then it will take her longer to see you for who you are; a worthless drunk.
For the sake of your daughter: Get sober, or literally kill yourself. There will be a non-alchy relative who will take care of her; and I'm sure they'll do a better job than you can in your current state.
I'm stepping away from this discussion for my own sake, this topic is far too personal to me.
Get sober Stan.