Trainwreck ArchivistBecks / 8bitBecca / RemembrancerMx / Yonah Bex Gerber / Rebecca Marie Hernandez-Gerber - The Unhappiest Bitch on Earth. Used a Cancer Scare to Raise Money for a Disneyworld Trip. Collects Identities and Minority Labels Like They're Pokémon; Retired at 36 because of Self-Diagnosed PCOS

[Stinkyboy]

I really hope becky loses her home and custody of hunna
idc about blackhat ratings, shes a contemptable being and deserve the FO phase of FAFO

 

[CharcoalChkn]

Hold on. Roll that back.

Who is their (actual proper second-person plural possessive) ex "who pays the mortgage?

Has the Kraut been formally removed?

She's been going back and forth between ex and partner to how she refers to him based on how much sympathy she is trying to farm from post to post. Shit or get off the pot bitch.

 

[Temperance]

Who is their (actual proper second-person plural possessive) ex "who pays the mortgage?

She's been going back and forth between ex and partner to how she refers to him based on how much sympathy she is trying to farm from post to post. Shit or get off the pot bitch.

Yep, she's referring to Daniel.
Déjà vu. The last time Daniel broke up with Becky (in 2017), he continued living with her & Jackson as a roommate since his name was on the lease of their apartment. This gave Becky the opportunity to slowly wrangle him back into a relationship with veiled rape/abuse accusations.

And now this time, Daniel has once again broken up with her but continues living in the McMansion & being her paypig. I wouldn't be surprised if his name is on the mortgage, and he also has to worry about what will happen with Hannah. Becky has him ensnared even more thoroughly than before - and I have no doubt that this was deliberate on her part. Will he have the guts to finally escape? I'm not confident, tbh.
Sucks to suck, Daniel!

 

[Tragi-Chan]

She's been going back and forth between ex and partner to how she refers to him based on how much sympathy she is trying to farm from post to post. Shit or get off the pot bitch.

It’s very revealing that she seems less emotionally affected by the split from her “husband” than the argument they had afterwards about her being a drama queen. She’s not upset about losing the man of her dreams, she’s upset about losing a source of narcissistic supply.

And now this time, Daniel has once again broken up with her but continues living in the McMansion & being her paypig. I wouldn't be surprised if his name is on the mortgage, and he also has to worry about what will happen with Hannah. Becky has him ensnared even more thoroughly than before - and I have no doubt that this was deliberate on her part. Will he have the guts to finally escape? I'm not confident, tbh.
Sucks to suck, Daniel!

With abusive manipulators like Becky, you have to make a clean break. Just leave. Block them everywhere. Don’t “talk about it,” don’t try to get “closure,” because they WILL talk you around. Since that’s not possible here, I also have low hopes of success.

 

[Next Task]

With abusive manipulators like Becky, you have to make a clean break. Just leave. Block them everywhere. Don’t “talk about it,” don’t try to get “closure,” because they WILL talk you around. Since that’s not possible here, I also have low hopes of success.

Was just talking about this yesterday with a couple of friends, one who was 9 months out of a relationship with a severe BPD case. The other friend was talkin about the importance of closure, but fortunately the one who had been in the relationship agreed with me that it was unlikely to ever happen, for exactly this reason. He seems to have learned enough to not ever re-engage. And it's not even about talking around, it's also about creating enough of a crisis to force you to get involved, which Becky is ... not as good at as she should be, considering, for all her talk about suicide. I think because her real go-to for causing a crisis isn't self-harm as much as financial ruin.

Of course now that Hannah is leverage Becky's more dangerous to anyone trying to get out of her orbit, most especially Daniel. Unless he could take her and leave Becky completely behind, is there any purpose in actually leaving the household? Because there's no way to clean break from the mother of your child otherwise. What I'm hoping he's doing, for all his faults, is 'grey rock'-ing Becky so she gets her drama fixes elsewhere without feeling the need to threaten harm. Because if so, it's working a treat.

 

[sarna]

Becky has him ensnared even more thoroughly than before - and I have no doubt that this was deliberate on her part.

We all said this, repeatedly, throughout the pregnancy saga. Having a kid with his sperm put a leash on the guy she couldn't legally marry. Don't say we didn't warn you, Daniel.

 

[blue gopher snakes]

Escaping the abuse of a BPD relationship (platonic or romantic, because honestly they treat their ex friends as badly as they treat their ex pArTnErS) is all the “closure” you are ever going to get. There is no bottom to their behavior.

They will go lower, they will poison the well of all your other relationships if they can, and it will all start up all over again if they sense even an ounce of reaction from you. They are deeply, profoundly incapable of tolerating rejection and try desperately to turn that feeling off using whatever means possible. They are the living avatar of the phrase, “Look what you made me do.”

The only way to move forward from a relationship with a BPDemon is to adjust your view of yourself as someone who was, for whatever reason, drawn to the initial love-bombing and calibrate your own bullshit meter to flag those “favorite person” behaviors as warning signs. Often times, their victims are codependent types who have a weakness for “fixing” others. I say this as a recovering fixer, with love. If you are a fixer who was caught up in the BPD’s snare and subsequently had your own reputation or finances torched in the aftermath, your closure has to be that you use it as an expensive lesson. Cultivate healthy boundaries and you will be less likely to have a repeat of the BPD rejection ever again.

Be less available. Be less willing to accept sob stories at face value. Be less forthcoming with your energy, your resources, and your sympathy.

 

[salt]

“My ex is an abuser because he is only covering the entire mortgage for my McMansion himself, instead of all of the bills for me and a bunch of other freeloading adults” is an amazing position to have. The level of entitlement is basically performance art.

 

[Printemps]

Becky, who only wears skirts and dresses, is currently reeing about how her "conversion therapy" (being encouraged to wear "girl clothes" as a kid) was literal torture and she scratched herself raw because of it. Odd, because I have never seen her wear anything that could be considered even androgynous, let alone masculine.

 

[unexpected onions]

Odd, because I have never seen her wear anything that could be considered even androgynous, let alone masculine.

The conversion therapy must have worked.

 

[Tragi-Chan]

Unless he could take her and leave Becky completely behind, is there any purpose in actually leaving the household? Because there's no way to clean break from the mother of your child otherwise.

I feel like if he had his own place, at least it would give Hannah some refuge. She desperately needs some context for her revolting mother’s behaviour.

 

[Baggywrinkle_v2]

Ha ha, yes, isn’t it funny that the baby is becoming aware of Mommy’s pathetic dependence on drugs. I look forward to the “kids say the darnedest things” incident when little Hannah tells the kindergarten teachers about how Mommy keeps getting stoned in front of her.

At first I was thinking there's no way Becky would let her kid attend school and risk undermining her fucked up world view. But then I realized that's exactly why she'll send her kid off. So many opportunities to be victimized by teachers and other parents. Plus, Becky needs Hannah to make friends so she can live out her milf fantasies, and that is incredibly disgusting.

And of course, Becky is too lazy to have Hannah at home all the time. Letting someone else take care of the kid is her M.O.

 

[RisingPhoenix]

Apparently they had discussions on what would happen if they split up. I imagine Daniel swore he'd stay around and cover the house in the event of a break.

Also Bex has reee'd in the past about "people helping her and then using that help against her later" - so Daniel might on some level be concerned about the mental impact on Bex (which will also affect Hannah) if he decides to cut completely loose

I think it would be healthier for him to move out, but continue to pay in the money but I imagine he'll struggle to cover a mortgage and renting a place in LA

It sucks, but as a reminder. He had a year plus of IVF to figure out shit, it's not like Hannah happened by accident.

 

[Diana Moon Glampers]

I can't grab screenshots right now but Becky is on a tear about Sam being a euphoric atheist again. And she also went off as said above about conversion therapy, which was obvious total bullshit. Would love to have it all here for the next time her story changes.

 

[Temperance]

Becky scamming a local community charity for free diapers. https://archive.ph/ZN6uN


Commie Becky wants free stuff. https://archive.ph/IVvzS


Mad at Sam for being an atheist. Lol, I actually do believe that Becky has been trying to convert him to Judaism. Just like she did with the cucks. https://archive.is/dP1wK

Her asspatters are obnoxious (as always).

"In my defense he's really fucking hot"


Long rant about how Becky was tortured in "conversion therapy". She ends it with some e-begging. https://archive.ph/3xTdr

My parents put me through conversion therapy when I was very small. Want to hear what it was like? /1

During conversion therapy, you’re forced to conform to the arbitrary gender norms your doctor has decided should be applied to you. And your parents are told it’s ok to torture you because they’re saving you from a lifetime of being transgender. /2

All my toys were taken away & replaced with “girl” toys. I was miserable. I stopped playing for months. My Papi now proudly says it’s fine because I became a reader. Of course I started reading early, it was my only escape & I could pretend I wasn’t a girl in books. /3

All my clothes we re taken away & replaced with “girl” clothes. I’d scratch my legs until they bled. I hated the fabrics. I was itchy & crying. But they were “saving” me, so it was ok. /4

No friends, either. I wasn’t allowed to hang out with boys. But all the girls hated me. So I just…didn’t have friends for the entirety of elementary school. That’s definitely healthy for a child. /5

The only reason I remember parts of this is my father admitting it all to me when I came back out as an adult. I knew I was in therapy, but not why I was there. Conversion therapy fucked me ip so badly entire parts of my childhood memories simply don’t exist. /6

My first suicide attempt was when I was very young. I kept trying until I escaped. I have lifelong mental health issues, including C-PTSD, & will never recover. All of this was considered preferable to letting me be a happy trans kid. /7

Conversion therapy is torture. It’s about taking the child you were given & manipulating them until, at least surface level, they appear to be the child you actually wanted. It’s entirely for the benefit of their families. It doesn’t do a single child any good. /8

And they know it’s torture! Everyone engaging in conversion therapy knows it. My parents were explicitly told I would cry & scream & likely hate them but it was “for the best.” Best for who? For fucking WHO? /9

So. Yeah. Conversion therapy is torture. It’s fucked. It destroys all that’s unique & beautiful about a child & replaces it with a compliant drone. It kills a child long before they’ve died. Of course it should be banned. 10/10

Hate to do this but if you’re cisgender & have found this thread to be educational, I’m an unemployed disabled mother to a year old miracle & could always use some help!!! PayPal.me/remembrancermx

Muh trauma holes! https://archive.ph/5LluB

 

[Printemps]

"My parents tried to convert me away from being trans and wanted me, born female, to refer to myself using feminine terms. This was literal torture. Anyway, give me money because I am a mom!"

How can she not see the glaring contradiction here? It's like she's daring people to point it out so she can get that dopamine hit off confrontation.

 

[Sailor Kim Jong Moon]

Isn’t she a menfolk? What “boy” toys were taken from her exactly? Also, she’s old as fuck. I don’t think anyone put tranny and kid together during her childhood. It’s a present day fad.

I hope her ex husband shows SAD the shit talk she posts lol or SADs sister if she’s really the leaker or whatever

 

[PatrickButtmanJr.]

This, of course, puts Danny further in the "Bad" category and Jackson (who is now also disabled?? What??) in the "Good" category.

Having your balls removed and stomped on by a sea hag would probably count as a disability.

 

[fagnarok]

"I will never recover."
- Becky Gerber

In cognitive behavioral terms, this is a Core Belief: Becky believes and outright states that Becky will never be well.

Although I'm not exactly a toxic-positivity, manifestation, Law of Attraction type, I don't think it's controversial to state that people's thoughts heavily inform if not outright create their realities.
It's outright obvious to state that, as long as Becky believes Becky will never be well, Becky will never be well.

BPD, everyone.
(Not even once.)

 

[Stinkyboy]

She wants something.
She complains everyone else, who didn't request these things, are the ones that have to be the ones to make sure these things are used.
What an entitled cunt.
Maybe she really IS jewish.