Community Munchausen's by Internet (Malingerers, Munchies, Spoonies, etc) - Feigning Illnesses for Attention

[screemsfromthedeath]

I wouldn’t put it above her to purposely seek out tards to form relationships with because they’re known for being easy to manipulate. My money is on Rose being on ASPD spectrum, or rather being initially neurotypical and developing ASPD later in life which is not that unusual for CSA victims. Bonus points is if she knew she’s too broken for normal people and can’t manipulate them as easily, and she also knew that she’s incapable of building a healthy relationship, so tards there are. Same goes for those who date inmates, addicts, etc though, in fact if I remember her lore correctly, her ex who was into some pretty damn wacky shit, could also be classified as an addict since porn slash coom addiction is definitely one. In fact I’d rather get hooked on nose candy than coom solely because coom is harder to quit.

so when i was in the hospital she told me that she thought she was autistic but wasent sure of it. i did not get diagnosed with autism until senior year of high school after having outside testing done (school told me i would not be talking or i would not be as aware of my own issues as i am if i was autistic this was also a school that was giving ipads and macbook pros to students and HAD MONEY FOR TESTING AND TO HELP ME OUT) i worked for an aba center for a few years back and they told me that with in the first 5 minutes of knowing me they could see i was autistic. but long story short yes rose did think she was autistic but never did any offical testing for it

There was a funeral right? Wouldn’t the ‘husband’ have seen the body…? Not to be macabre here. Am I missing something?

Also, Rose always struck me as being someone with above average IQ. I wonder how happy she actually was forming relationships with those seemingly far below her intelligence. I personally would be miserable & icked out.

Really points to some psychological pathology imo

so i only know that there is GOING TO BE a funural in june or july from her obit. and the obit was put on by a company that does cremation. (also speaking to her mom that was hevaly implied that there was going to be a service several months later so i have a hard time that any sane place that would keep her body until june or july would say NO that is too long away. i personally think she was cremated and that there will be a urn at the service

Hey, if she wants to start over, change her name, and become a more normal person, I support this.

and i myself support that (its ashame that she did all of this crap to all of us but yes if she wants to start over in life and change her name and everything i support that. BUT I DONT THINK IT WILL BE TOO EASY TO STAY HIDDEN FOR hell she has no bladder she barly walks (like a few feet at most) and has a g and j tube and a central line i dont think these could be conditions that you just had and show up to a new docotor with out them looking into it (her hospital runs off mychart. mychart runs off epic (most drs have an epic account) epic runs off hyperspace if you have a hyperspace account you have access to ALL OF EPIC (LIKE ALL HOSPITALS AND DOCTOR OFFICES) i say this to say that a normal docotor with an epic account can look into other agencys that use epic so it would not be too hard to find out info. hell my doctor has access to my medical records from another state just by using thir epic account this person is able to see my primary care my hospital stays my outpatient doctors and everything else in between. so i really DOUBT that she would be able to stay hidden for a period of time and i know this to be how this works becouse i do information technology for a several doctor offices and i have had the joys with fighting with epic to get a computer issue related to epic solved

This dude's borderline incoherent to me but that post reads like he thinks he can walk in and say he's Rose's husband and can prove it by showing the office clerk her nudes.

no i was hoping to be able to use like her state id and some supporting medical records to get a deth cert (i called jefferson county (the county she died in) and they informed me all that i would need would be something with both our names on it like a marrage license. a bank account a lease to an apartmnet or house, something like that. which i was hoping to use the power of attorney i had for her but not sure if that would work i asked the clerk and he said he was not sure but i could submit it and see

 

[a hapless toad]

Looks like Colorado has "verification of death" documents that have less stringent rules about who can access them...

 

[Taylor Swift’s Left Boob]

so when i was in the hospital she told me that she thought she was autistic but wasent sure of it. i did not get diagnosed with autism until senior year of high school after having outside testing done (school told me i would not be talking or i would not be as aware of my own issues as i am if i was autistic this was also a school that was giving ipads and macbook pros to students and HAD MONEY FOR TESTING AND TO HELP ME OUT) i worked for an aba center for a few years back and they told me that with in the first 5 minutes of knowing me they could see i was autistic. but long story short yes rose did think she was autistic but never did any offical testing for it

Bro, with all due respect, she knew you’re not the sharpest tool in the shed beforehand. She still chose to date you to take advantage and suck emotional comfort or, god forbid, sex out of you (for the record, I’m the least woke person on earth and even I think it’s awful and unethical to be engaging in a sexual relationship with, putting it mildly, a non-smart person). On a side note though, not smart doesn’t equal autistic, and school teachers aren’t equipped with necessary skills to diagnose and even suspect autism. You’re probably not the first and not the last non-smart student they’ve seen, hell I know a guy who graduated high school and still types “I readed” and “they runned” instead of “read” and “ran”.

Also, being autistic doesn’t mean it’s the free pass to take advantage of people who are in more vulnerable position than you. It’s not about her being autistic, it’s about her taking advantage of you, using you to satisfy her needs and possibly lying to you about her death. Newsflash, people don’t do that to those whom they love. It’s bad bad awful bad yuck just gross in general and if she and her mother willingly did that to you, they’re both revolting and horrible people.

say this to say that a normal docotor with an epic account can look into other agencys that use epic so it would not be too hard to find out info.

Basically what you’re saying is that you hope for some poor underpaid sucker at a hospital to violate HIPAA, get sued, lose their job just to tell the internet that some fucked up bitch who gets off on pretending she’s a toddler all while swimming in her piss is alive.

Correct me if I understood your ramblings wrong, but I’ll be honest, your sentence structure is absolutely abhorrent and you should look into whatever the fuck they use to treat MCAS to get your punctuation allergy fixed.

 

[screemsfromthedeath]

Basically what you’re saying is that you hope for some poor underpaid sucker at a hospital to violate HIPAA, get sued, lose their job just to tell the internet that some fucked up bitch who gets off on pretending she’s a toddler all while swimming in her piss is alive.

Correct me if I understood your ramblings wrong, but I’ll be honest, your sentence structure is absolutely abhorrent and you should look into whatever the fuck they use to treat MCAS to get your punctuation allergy fixed.

nope not what i was saying at all. i was explaining how epic worked and how its too easy for a doctor to look into someone even if they changed names and moved states. the only way i see her staying hidden is moving out of the country and changing names and dob but still then that is a stretch. i feel like how epic is setup someone is going to go looking if they get her and see all of her conditions and if she would make up some story that she had these conditions

Newsflash, people don’t do that to those whom they love. It’s bad bad awful bad yuck just gross in general and if she and her mother willingly did that to you, they’re both revolting and horrible people.

i have to agree with you on that. if they did do that i would be so upset and want to report it to the police and tell anyone and everyone that would hear me how she faked what she did. hell i would even go as far as sueing for emotional distress but like i said i dont have enough proof to proove either way yet. i know basicly just as much as everyone else here does

 

[Taylor Swift’s Left Boob]

nope not what i was saying at all. i was explaining how epic worked and how its too easy for a doctor to look into someone even if they changed names and moved states. the only way i see her staying hidden is moving out of the country and changing names and dob but still then that is a stretch. i feel like how epic is setup someone is going to go looking if they get her and see all of her conditions and if she would make up some story that she had these conditions

Ah, thanks, I did too much reading between the lines I guess. Still, even if a medical professional finds out that she changed her name, it’s not going to help us here in any way since no one is dumb enough to risk their job over some online drama.

i have to agree with you on that. if they did do that i would be so upset and want to report it to the police and tell anyone and everyone that would hear me how she faked what she did. hell i would even go as far as sueing for emotional distress but like i said i dont have enough proof to proove either way yet. i know basicly just as much as everyone else here does

That’s what I mean, man. She had no business being romantically involved with you in general though, but if she really just played you for her own sick and cruel amusement, it’s like 1000x worse. I feel really sorry for you right now, but you live and you learn, just try being more picky and less trusting about people you decide to put your trust in.

 

[Oracular Slug]

i have had the joys with fighting with epic to get a computer issue related to epic solved

I'm sorry.

get your punctuation allergy fixed.

Tip: quietly read it out loud and when you pause, put a period/comma/anything and capitalize the next letter.

 

[Polychromos]

There was a funeral right? Wouldn’t the ‘husband’ have seen the body…? Not to be macabre here. Am I missing something?

Also, Rose always struck me as being someone with above average IQ. I wonder how happy she actually was forming relationships with those seemingly far below her intelligence. I personally would be miserable & icked out.

Really points to some psychological pathology imo

I wouldn’t put it above her to purposely seek out tards to form relationships with because they’re known for being easy to manipulate. My money is on Rose being on ASPD spectrum, or rather being initially neurotypical and developing ASPD later in life which is not that unusual for CSA victims. Bonus points is if she knew she’s too broken for normal people and can’t manipulate them as easily, and she also knew that she’s incapable of building a healthy relationship, so tards there are. Same goes for those who date inmates, addicts, etc though, in fact if I remember her lore correctly, her ex who was into some pretty damn wacky shit, could also be classified as an addict since porn slash coom addiction is definitely one. In fact I’d rather get hooked on nose candy than coom solely because coom is harder to quit.

Can we please stop arm-charing Roses behavior to this degree? It doesn't matter what happened to her. She is/was just a horrible human being. She isn't smart and saying her IQ is above average is completely ridiculous. She has never acted like a calculating villain or an oblivious autist. She just justifies horrible behavior with her victimhood. There is no need to bring random diagnosis into it, you're just humoring her delusions. I do think she singles out people she can manipulate, but I just don't think it's deeper than that.

so i only know that there is GOING TO BE a funural in june or july from her obit. and the obit was put on by a company that does cremation. (also speaking to her mom that was hevaly implied that there was going to be a service several months later so i have a hard time that any sane place that would keep her body until june or july would say NO that is too long away. i personally think she was cremated and that there will be a urn at the service

I guess the late funeral date is a bit of a red flag. Is this normal in America? I know about cases, where people who were creamated in Winter were burried in spring, but waiting half a year seems kind of weird to me.

 

[athousandrustynails]

GOING TO BE a funural in june or july from her obit.

That is one of the maddest things I've ever heard. I don't even think it takes that long when there needs to be a formal investigation into someone's death. Why would they set it so far away (other than if someone were looking to monopolise attention for as long as they feasibly can after faking their own death).

 

[Sailor Kim Jong Moon]

Eh, her writing suggested some degree of intelligence. Average intelligence is pretty low - so being above average is hardly mastermind.

And this is thread about mental illness on a gossip site? So I’ll speculate.

I don’t get how anyone with average to above average IQ could get in a romantic relationship with an obviously intellectually disabled person. One who needs a carer. It’s abnormal attraction & it weirds me out

 

[screemsfromthedeath]

That is one of the maddest things I've ever heard. I don't even think it takes that long when there needs to be a formal investigation into someone's death. Why would they set it so far away (other than if someone were looking to monopolise attention for as long as they feasibly can after faking their own death).

THAT IS WHAT IM THINKING i was like why so damn late for funueral. i know a high school friend i had passed away in a simular way to rose and she died in december 20th i think and they had the funueral 2 weeks later

 

[SaltyButter]

That is one of the maddest things I've ever heard. I don't even think it takes that long when there needs to be a formal investigation into someone's death. Why would they set it so far away (other than if someone were looking to monopolise attention for as long as they feasibly can after faking their own death).

Someone very close to me was found dead in his home just this past Friday, he was only 55 so they are doing a full investigation and an autopsy to figure out what happened. He was alone and his police dogs were loose in the house so the odds of it being something suspicious are EXTREMELY low but they dont want to take any chances. As a result, the family was told they will not receive his body at the funeral home until Friday this week at the earliest. Because he has family and friends flying in from across multiple continents they are holding a delayed funeral for him, so we all have time to travel. His funeral is tentatively set for being not before the 10th and is unlikely to be later than the 21st and thats the ultimate worst case scenario.

It would be one thing if they said they were doing a memorial service or celebration of life for her in July, thats kinda odd but sure I get it. But the actual funeral and burial??? Who is payin to store her body for 6 months or more. Absolutely absurd imho.

 

[athousandrustynails]

Who is payin to store her body for 6 months

I agree with you but keep all that personal anecdote stuff to yourself. It's fairly identifiable information, it pulls focus from the thread subject and most importantly no1curr.

 

[screemsfromthedeath]

It would be one thing if they said they were doing a memorial service or celebration of life for her in July, thats kinda odd but sure I get it. But the actual funeral and burial??? Who is payin to store her body for 6 months or more. Absolutely absurd imho.

the storing of the body is what gets me (i belive that she could have been cremated and that there would be a celebration of life / funural service. i only say this because of the company that posted the obit was a cremation service. so i could see her ashes being in a urn and that urn just being there at the service but im not sure. at this point im not willing to bet either way about the body

 

[Oracular Slug]

i only say this because of the company that posted the obit was a cremation service.

That company will post anything, someone here posted an obit for a toy or something silly like that. We can basically ignore the obit's existence.

 

[SaltyButter]

I agree with you but keep all that personal anecdote stuff to yourself. It's fairly identifiable information, it pulls focus from the thread subject and most importantly no1curr.

This is 100% fair, no1curr, apologies! Sometimes I forget myself. Wont happen again for at least 5 months

 

[Schizo Rat]

Munchies are showing up again in my media consumption. They're a specter haunting things I enjoy.

Dude's ex-wife and "non-binary" 12 y/o daughter have long covid and he's a covid freak too. They pulled the kid of out public school when lockdowns started.

 

[draftdodger]

Munchies are showing up again in my media consumption. They're a specter haunting things I enjoy.

Dude's ex-wife and "non-binary" 12 y/o daughter have long covid and he's a covid freak too. They pulled the kid of out public school when lockdowns started.

Caleb Hammer is a munchie magnet. So many women have EDS/POTS and use it as an excuse to not work normal jobs on the show it’s insane (but expected). Interesting to see a male perspective, but it’s not new for his Financial Audit series.

I actually love when in media I see a woman who claims to be EDS/POTS + others like MCAS. It’s like waiting for it to drop it into conversation as an excuse for their laziness/alcoholism/shirking is a high for me.

 

[brooky]

I feel kind of bad that the first person I met IRL who has EDS, I instantly wanted to disbelieve her.

Thing is, she's not a malingerer or avoiding work. She actually works really hard and is very successful in her field. Annoyingly successful.

BUT she also tends to have the most/worst medical conditions of anyone in the room. Everyone has one or two things going on, but she tends to have everything everyone else does, plus more. The EDS was kind of the cherry on top.

Is there such thing as an emotional munchie? Someone who wants attention and sympathy, but not at the expensive of their career?

 

[Polychromos]

I feel kind of bad that the first person I met IRL who has EDS, I instantly wanted to disbelieve her.

Thing is, she's not a malingerer or avoiding work. She actually works really hard and is very successful in her field. Annoyingly successful.

BUT she also tends to have the most/worst medical conditions of anyone in the room. Everyone has one or two things going on, but she tends to have everything everyone else does, plus more. The EDS was kind of the cherry on top.

Is there such thing as an emotional munchie? Someone who wants attention and sympathy, but not at the expensive of their career?

Several of the munchies obviously lie about doctors visits and diagnosis. I think there are enough people who could be classified as munchies who don't get their attention fix from medical professionals at all. You also don't have to be a malingerer to be a munchie. It's about lying for attention.
But I also feel the need to tell you, that there are a lot of people who have a real medical condition and behave completely OTT. The idea that people with real illnesses are all beacons of virtue is just not true. There are even some subjects in this thread who (might) have a (usually 1) real condition and then became munchies on top of it.
There are so many munchie blog/instagram posts about how they did a thing EVEN THOUGH they are DISABLED!!! The ass pats are the goal, so your coworker could be a munchie, or just be a really annoying person.

 

[Jupiter Doughnuts]

But I also feel the need to tell you, that there are a lot of people who have a real medical condition and behave completely OTT.

I once went down a rabbit hole of insane Type 1 Diabetes mommy blogs. Some of them were very OTT, but on the other hand, to cope with injecting your 2 year old with insulin half a dozen times a day you've got to have an outlet. Tons of patches and stickers etc in a vain attempt to make medical gear fun.

But yes, people can have a real medical condition and be making it worse or using it to get pity or attention. It's on some line between self neglect, eating disorder, and intentionally causing illness, but diabulimia is a real thing that Type 1 diabetics do. Basically intentionally mismanaging diabetes to lose weight, but also making themselves sick in the process.

It's so crazy that the distrust of OTT people has made me squicky about real normal people discussing real illnesses - think the 6 months where Hank Green tiktoked about his ongoing cancer treatment.

On that note, has anybody else read John Green's new book Everything is Tuberculosis? I'm wondering if we're going to get a wave of Tilly-style tuberculosis munchies soon.

I do think it's hilariously telling how little attention he gives "sick" fans compared to the actually deathly ill kids he's worked with. Actual Cancer? Antibiotic resistant Tuberculosis in a developing country? The Green brothers will write a book about you. CFS, Long Covid, EDS? crickets.