Trainwreck ArchivistBecks / 8bitBecca / RemembrancerMx / Yonah Bex Gerber / Rebecca Marie Hernandez-Gerber - The Unhappiest Bitch on Earth. Used a Cancer Scare to Raise Money for a Disneyworld Trip. Collects Identities and Minority Labels Like They're Pokémon; Retired at 36 because of Self-Diagnosed PCOS

[Sailor Kim Jong Moon]

Daniel has been upgraded to a narc abuser

 

[The Judean People's Front]

Couples counseling with Daniel isn't going well.


Ninja'd!

This frickin mopey sow. I'd love to read that therapist's notes. (And I hope the therapist googles their clients).

I did a bit of googling about couples counseling with a narcissist, and man is she projecting. The counselor doesn't completely believe her outright, so they're a "flying monkey"


Here's where I got that - it's massively pseudoscientific but it's exactly the kinda thing someone like Becky uses for persecution fodder.

@Brett DeLawyer could be to try and co-parent effectively, but I suspect they're trying to save the relationship for the kid's sake. Becky is, of course, not actually going into it with an open mind.

 

[Brett DeLawyer]

Why are they attending couples counseling when they are not a couple? What a waste of time and money. "Muh narc 'boos tho!" Bet the damn therapist needs a drink more.

 

[REGENDarySumanai]

This is why you never acquaint yourself with a narc, especially a Cluster B nutcase like Becky.

 

[The Judean People's Front]

I wish we knew her Steam Account. She claimed two months ago that she was only alive to play Civ 7 and I wanna bet that she has put in less than 20 hours total since release.

Her Steam account is locked down - it's Lirael_Remembrancer. I'm sure it's so that "stalkers" like us can't see what games she's (not) playing.

Although the new Civ sounds pretty bad by most accounts, so maybe I forgive that one.

 

[rusty shackleford 1]

Why are they attending couples counseling when they are not a couple? What a waste of time and money. "Muh narc 'boos tho!" Bet the damn therapist needs a drink more.

It’s abusive to force your partner into a third party medicalized therapy setting when you won’t even communicate earnestly at home. almost a form of gaslighting imo, especially when you only chase dick, ignore your child, demand attention from an ever growing house full of men, rot on the couch whining, talk shit about every person in your house with your face and name visible, and demand double standards. No serious person vents to the internet about their marriage, much less a live broadcast of all the ways you step out on each “marriage.” That Becky does all that and still demands counseling and some third party arbitration is sinister in my opinion.

 

[RisingPhoenix]

Why are they attending couples counseling when they are not a couple? What a waste of time and money. "Muh narc 'boos tho!" Bet the damn therapist needs a drink more.

Well Bex and Daniel are "spiritually" married if you count their ceremony in Germany. I guess Daniel wants to at least honor it enough to attempt to "salvage" the relationship.

I think he skipped the first appointment as I recall. Now Bex is whining because he actually showed up this time.

I'm guessing she ramped up the drama so she can claim Daniel is the one not trying because he went out on a date earlier this week while she had a "crisis" along with her antics today.

Daniel, the fool, hasn't figured out there's nothing there to really save. Bex isn't interested in saving the relationship, just coming across as the most injured party to the therapist.

 

[Pargon]

I wish we knew her Steam Account. She claimed two months ago that she was only alive to play Civ 7 and I wanna bet that she has put in less than 20 hours total since release.

I'll never understand this internet sub-culture that declares this thing is my true and only favorite thing and I'm obsessed with it and nothing else matters only to move on to the next this thing within a couple of weeks.

Look I’m not saying Civ 7 is Nobunaga’s Ambition (NES, 1989), the pinnacle of video gamed strategy and intellectual stimulation, but I think 20 hours is tremendously generous.

She’s got one save file and it’s the one created upon campaign launch. Fucking tourist.

 

[Diana Moon Glampers]

Some people do couple's therapy even if they're splitting if they know they're coparenting and will have to be in one another's lives for a long time, whether they like it or not. Sort of a "figure out how to be non-enemies, if not exactly friends" counseling. I have never experienced it in practice but that's the theory.

 

[Uncle Tom's Condo]

Some people do couple's therapy even if they're splitting if they know they're coparenting and will have to be in one another's lives for a long time, whether they like it or not. Sort of a "figure out how to be non-enemies, if not exactly friends" counseling. I have never experienced it in practice but that's the theory.

Becky is just there for unquestioning validation. Does anyone think she'd be there if wasn't 100% asspats?

 

[Disco Snake]

The counselor arc is hilarious. There is no way Bex's didn't insist on the most progressive, BIPOC friendly, trans positive, therapist money could buy. Her behavior is so over the line, even someone primed both ideologically and professionally to believe her took the cis white man's side. Suffah Bex Suffahhhhhh

 

[The Judean People's Front]

So Becky is drinking in response to an upsetting couple's counseling session.

Daniel is apparently walking the dogs in the hills behind the house (ostensibly with Hah-nuh on his chest since it's established he does this nightly).


But yes, he's the one handling all this poorly, Becky.

 

[Larry David's Opera Cape]

How old is Hannah at this point? Over a year right? You just know Becky will still be whining about postpartum when Hannah is 5 years old.

It's definitely possible for untreated PPD to last about that long, but she has been in treatment that many Americans would give an arm or at least a couple fingers to access- regular access to a psychiatrist AND a therapist, apparently covered by insurance, not limited to 10 sessions per year (most of which they'll now try to twist your arm into doing virtually). AND the psychiatrist is available for emergency appointments ASAP- no 6 week waitlist. AND couples counseling too. If she is regularly seeing all these professionals and not getting better, someone would have suggested a med change, an escalation to a higher level of care, something, by now.

On another, horrifying note, I just realized what was so familiar to me about Becky's sinister glare- she looks like Susan Schofield. Shudder. I've always thought Suze seemed more BPD than whatever else she claims to have.

 

[The Judean People's Front]

Becky is now only in healthy relationships. Did SAD finally dump her and this is her spin?

 

[Trombonista]

So Becky is drinking in response to an upsetting couple's counseling session.

Daniel is apparently walking the dogs in the hills behind the house (ostensibly with Hah-nuh on his chest since it's established he does this nightly).

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But yes, he's the one handling all this poorly, Becky.

That sunset looks nice.

 

[Larry David's Opera Cape]

Becky is now only in healthy relationships. Did SAD finally dump her and this is her spin?

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Back to thanking God, specifically, instead of whatever "gods" she usually invokes.

She better hope Judaism isn't the one true faith or she is so cooked (literally).

 

[Printemps]

Becky is now only in healthy relationships. Did SAD finally dump her and this is her spin?

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I suspect this is just Daniel reiterating in therapy that the split is final and her trying to show him how much she totally doesn't care at all, not even a tiny bit, so there, because she's got the maturity of a 13 year old.

 

[AirdropShitposts]

Someone in the house is done with Becky’s bullshit. I’m guessing Daniel or possibly SAD.
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Bex a million times before Hannah was born: I need to kill myself after she's born because it's the only way to protect Hannah from the Kiwi Farms.
Bex now: "I'm trying so incredibly hard to stay alive for my daughter."

 

[Tragi-Chan]

The counselor arc is hilarious. There is no way Bex's didn't insist on the most progressive, BIPOC friendly, trans positive, therapist money could buy. Her behavior is so over the line, even someone primed both ideologically and professionally to believe her took the cis white man's side. Suffah Bex Suffahhhhhh

The fact that the counsellor didn’t just shake their head sadly and have Becky fired into the sun speaks volumes. No decent therapist could look at Becky’s situation and say “This is worth saving.” I haven’t seen a domestic situation this toxic since Josef Fritzl.

Becky is now only in healthy relationships. Did SAD finally dump her and this is her spin?

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“Only stable relationships from now on. Just me, my gooning husband, the boyfriend I’m trying to control entirely, any other low-quality men I can ensnare between my hams and a dead tranny posthumously elevated to my one true love. Also I think one of them has a baby or something? I seem to recall a baby.”

 

[Pargon]

Back to thanking God, specifically, instead of whatever "gods" she usually invokes.

She better hope Judaism isn't the one true faith or she is so cooked (literally).

“B-but I thought there was no such thing as Jewish Hell!”

“Oh, I’m sorry, you were mistaken. No, we just keep ours secret because it is so much worse.”