Trainwreck ArchivistBecks / 8bitBecca / RemembrancerMx / Yonah Bex Gerber / Rebecca Marie Hernandez-Gerber - The Unhappiest Bitch on Earth. Used a Cancer Scare to Raise Money for a Disneyworld Trip. Collects Identities and Minority Labels Like They're Pokémon; Retired at 36 because of Self-Diagnosed PCOS

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Bex is an idiot if she can't figure out how to gauze wrap her arm.
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Spoilered as I get a bit spergy about Becca's self-harming.

This. And also there's two camps of self-harmers. Those who know they have mental issues, shouldn't be doing it to themselves, have a rather deep level of shame and will hide it from everyone - loved ones, colleagues etc. They definitely wouldn't Tweet about it, wouldn't hesitate to throw on long-sleeve tops and would be mortified if someone noticed.

Then there's group two who want the attention, will show it off and desperately want people to ask about it. They may use a story (cat scratches, burn from cooking or whatever) but want those sympathetic "oh no, poor you" reactions.

The second group is usually teens but Becca falls in to it. Adults can still self-harm but it's rarer and by their 30s should be pros at dealing with the medical side of wound care and hiding it. The majority who started in their teens will 'grow out of it' or get help and develop more normal coping strategies when life gets shitty.

Although she purely wants sympathy and to show Daniel & Co how much they've hurt her, she probably also deludes herself in to thinking she's 'raising awareness' and 'removing stigma' around self-harm. IMO, that 'stigma' is actually important and pushes people towards recovery.

It's one of countless ways she's actually the abuser. I have no doubt cutting herself is manipulation and control. 'Better tread carefully around her or she'll slice herself up in the bathroom then blame me for it on Twitter'.
 
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Erida said:
It's one of countless ways she's actually the abuser. I have no doubt cutting herself is manipulation and control. 'Better tread carefully around her or she'll slice herself up in the bathroom then blame me for it on Twitter'.
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That's exactly what it is this time too. She unlocked her Twitter as a lead-up to a "look at what you made me do, you unfeeling assholes" moment.

Li0ness_LoL, meanwhile, had quite the on-point retweet yesterday:

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I'd say she's currently winning the War of Passive Aggression.
 
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Jubileus said:
That's exactly what it is this time too. She unlocked her Twitter as a lead-up to a "look at what you made me do, you unfeeling assholes" moment.

Li0ness_LoL, meanwhile, had quite the on-point retweet yesterday:

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I'd say she's currently winning the War of Passive Aggression.
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I'm really starting to like this chick. Passive aggressive digs yet being dignified and not stooping to Becca's level of whining all over the internet. Although, should she ever feel the need to vent, she's welcome here ;)
 
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Erida said:
Spoilered as I get a bit spergy about Becca's self-harming.

This. And also there's two camps of self-harmers. Those who know they have mental issues, shouldn't be doing it to themselves, have a rather deep level of shame and will hide it from everyone - loved ones, colleagues etc. They definitely wouldn't Tweet about it, wouldn't hesitate to throw on long-sleeve tops and would be mortified if someone noticed.

Then there's group two who want the attention, will show it off and desperately want people to ask about it. They may use a story (cat scratches, burn from cooking or whatever) but want those sympathetic "oh no, poor you" reactions.

The second group is usually teens but Becca falls in to it. Adults can still self-harm but it's rarer and by their 30s should be pros at dealing with the medical side of wound care and hiding it. The majority who started in their teens will 'grow out of it' or get help and develop more normal coping strategies when life gets shitty.

Although she purely wants sympathy and to show Daniel & Co how much they've hurt her, she probably also deludes herself in to thinking she's 'raising awareness' and 'removing stigma' around self-harm. IMO, that 'stigma' is actually important and pushes people towards recovery.

It's one of countless ways she's actually the abuser. I have no doubt cutting herself is manipulation and control. 'Better tread carefully around her or she'll slice herself up in the bathroom then blame me for it on Twitter'.
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I guess I tend to associate with stable people, but I think this is the first time I've ever seen anyone as old as Bex engage in self-harm theater online.

To add to @Erida's discussion of self-harm, I would expand on the "look what you made me do, Daniel" part because I can see her using this as means of control as well as a means of guilt-tripping and demonizing. I have no doubt that everyone around Bex knows that any time she does not get her way or feels offended she will threaten suicide or self-harm and that those threats ensure compliance from friends, family and romantic partners. Fear of what she would do to herself probably kept Daniel with her far longer than he would have liked until he realized he is not responsible for her well-being. Even those who realize it's theater tend to do everything they can to avoid it because they are generally decent people who do not want to run the risk that she will cut too deep, accidentally get a scar, get infected, etc.
 
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proteus4994 said:
Boy, she sure has an affinity for cheap Chinese-made plastic and metal crap, doesn't she?
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Cheap or not, the fact that he's buying her shit to "make her feel better" when she's carrying on about how she needs to sell family wedding rings to pay medical costs says an awful lot about their relationship.

I get that she's a bottomless pit of emotional need and that nobody could ever realistically provide all the attention and reassurance she wants, but substituting stuff for attention to make her feel momentarily better won't make her less emotionally needy. It will just make her become a vortex of material need in addition to being an emotional black hole.

She's exactly the type to become a hazmat level hoarder, which would at least be an entertaining twist.
 
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Developing right now, but now Rebecca is REEEEEEEing that basic human decency is privilege:

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This is the sophomoric fart-sniffing Rebecca considers deep thinking, but being the solipsistic bitch that she is she can't help but make it all about herself once again. Granted, this is all "excuses as to why I should be allowed to get away with being a giant turd while you can't, you transphobic antisemitic racist sexist ableist kinkshaming jerk", so not a huge surprise.

Meanwhile, Li0ness fires another salvo in the War of Passive Aggression:

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Edited to add last two tweets to the block, because goddamnit it's hard to tell when this bitch is actually done with a rant.
 
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PhantomDiploma said:
I distinctly remember Bex claiming that she was leaving Riot voluntarily because of an abnormal pap smear back in November of last year. I wasn't aware that sort of thing was sorted out in under six months.

As an aside, the "pap smear" tweets going into the reason she left Riot have since been erased by some sort of weird Twitter glitch. The cached search results are still visible.

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Rebecca memory holed her Twitter posts and DELETE FUCKING EVERYTHING'd after getting fired. https://kiwifarms.net/threads/archi...e-hernandez-gerber.25523/page-32#post-1987937
 
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I know people who know people in this web of people due to working in esports a while back and Rebecca is block evading and continuing to contact everyone involved, even as she declares that she is done on Twitter.

This makes Li0ness fucking hilarious to me, to be honest.
 
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