If you read askgaybros you'll see for gay me it goes way further. Like the majority full on will openly say they don't believe trans men are men and will have none of it, much further along than just saying they're not attracted to them for not having the equipment.
A lot are also into the femboy thing but a lot will also openly say they aren't attracted to trans women either because they're presenting as the thing they're not attracted to, women, so neither sides get a full pass. And there's tons and tons of comments about the bad apples taking over and starting to turn people against them, pointing out homoSEXuality means two men, and many call common trans ideals homophonic and misogynistic.
Lebians sadly have been more kept down but everyone saw ovaritt and gendercritical and such. There's plenty of women speaking their mind you can find too.
They do hold all the subs like /r/gay and /r/lgbt to carry on the reddit analogy but the sale follows irl, but really they are losing the battle there too pretty big time