I agree that women in their 30s can be hot and some women actually are hotter in their 30s than 20s if they’ve lost weight, figured out how to style themselves better, etc. It’s Anisa’s behavior that makes her so cringe and unattractive. Visible aging is fine if you’re not a cringe god. It’s a known fact that men and women have to work harder to maintain their health and looks in their 30s than they did in their 20s.
Anisa has visibly made herself look so much worse in her 30s and she can’t take it back.
Besides that, why the fuck did Ian pick Anisa? When I look at her, even back then in her early 20s, she was mid af. He was super famous, I know he had to have had so many hot girls hitting him up that weren’t mid, stupid, cringe, social climbing titty streamers with the voice of a crow.
That will always be the biggest mystery to me — him not shopping around more. That doesn’t mean he had to have sex with a bunch of women if he wanted to be careful or he finds that unethical, that’s understandable. BUT, he could have dated some more. It sounds like he went on literally one date with one woman who sounded crazy then met Anisa and decided that was it. It’s so bizarre to me that the girl that got drunk and wanted to sleep with him on their first date turned him off but not Anisa being a literal titty streamer and talking about fucking his friend (Joji), Leafy and himself on stream? For the content cop, did he do absolutely no research on the girl he was about lock down and call his girlfriend considering she was already hated online?
Edit: I think most people are so perplexed that he ruined his life for someone as mid as Anisa. Even if she was still the same lying, manipulating, grifting dumbass if she were a solid 10 people would get it. It still wouldn’t be worth it, but it would make more sense. Even Johnny Depp eventually had enough of Amber Heard’s bullshit and she was considered one of the most beautiful women alive at the time.