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- Aug 3, 2021
We would rather be ruined than changedto me, i think the worst part about nick, and the part that removes any pity for him, is the fact that EVEN NOW he could "pull up". even now, he could just stop or even just actively put forth effort to stop in some manner the drugs and sex with strangers shit, and from ( this ) day forward go full ham into his kids well being, take them on family trips, hikes, to theme parks or whatever, just fully go into family time and being a dad, genuinely apologizing to them through words and actions, explain you were a fuck up, but you will do all you can to at least equalize the damage and be someone that could be trusted around their families. still has time to be able to be trusted and loved enough to participate in their future weddings and/or special events.
my brother in christ rekieta, pull up. i personally have a relative that did horrible things to some around me but i still had a deep bond with to the end and beyond. regardless of if your wife is inherently good or a full druggie, or especially so if you're the only option, just pull up your big boy pants and try to minimize damage as much as you can and be a dad that's flawed but tried. you're 43, god willing you could live to 90+. there's a possibility you could do more good in their lives than bad thanks to time itself. you could even use your fuck ups to see and guide your kids on not doing those fuck ups.
...but you won't, because you're a retard
We would rather die in our dread
Than climb the cross of the moment
And let our illusions die.
~ W.H. Auden