Lolcow Andrew Peter Carlson / Anaiah Carlson / Tamarlover / Xtamarlover - Jewish/Christian Wannabe Cult Leader, Stalker, Ugly af, dogfucker, mayor of spitsville

[RG 448]

The word "re-tard" is word filtered to "exceptional" and if you were actually the man of religion that you say you are you would refrain from using it because it is terribly rude.

This is a Christian site.

 

[Lackadaisy]

100% תּוֹעֵבָה

 

[Anaiah Carlson]

The word "re-tard" is word filtered to "exceptional" and if you were actually the man of religion that you say you are you would refrain from using it because it is terribly rude.

Right. So you filter that one word and allow all kinds of other insults against people? strange inconsistent standards it seems. Its something like the "n" word. Comes from Latin and means "black." Suddenly it has become an insult. Since when is it insulting to refer to someone as a black? Well if you use the word black it is considered ok but if you use the n word which literally means the same exact thing, its considered wrong. Because people make up silly rules about language that are arbitrary. That's how swear words were invented. There's nothing wrong with socalled swear words in and of themselves. Yet apparently they are "bad" words. Not really. The people who think they are bad are uneducated. They only become bad if they are used as insults in a way that is not right to use them.

 

[GV 998]

I'd never break up with her, i'd never physically abuse her, I wouldn't encourage her foolish decisions, and I would teach her to stop being so hateful and unforgiving of other people, and i would help her become a more stable person. I would be a servant to her and do whatever she needed me to do and I would be her partner in everything she wanted from me as long as I was morally ok with it. I would show her what real love is and I would treat her special in a way no one else would. And she would see that I am different than all the other guys she's been with and that I'm good for her she would see that once she was with me in person and realized all I want to do is love her and be there for her and I have no ulterior motives in trying to be in a relationship with her. And all the other guys who she breaks up with, move on. But for me, it would be the end of my world if she were to break up with me. So she would actually have someone who loves her so much he couldn't bear to have her break up with him. I was formerly her partner in questionable activities online, so I'd be her teammate in a way no one else would be. We would work well together because I'd be willing to help her do all kinds of things no one else would be crazy enough to do to help her with. I'd be the first stable thing in her life if she was willing to give me a chance and make it work. I just have to convince her to give me that second chance and I'll be successful I believe.

Ok, two things.


1. You sound like a hopeless romantic with no real relationship experience. This isn't how relationships work. It's not about worshipping the ground your woman walks on. That's a cute sentiment, but no one sane does it. And women don't even want that. They want someone who will connect with them on an emotional level. Women don't want to be put on a pedestal, which 100% what you are doing. It's not love, it's obsession.

2. You didn't actually name ANYTHING that you would bring to the table. You'd make her feel special. Sure, great. That doesn't pay the bills. Can you offer her and her children shelter? safety? Can you take on the role of a father figure and potentially BECOME a father to those children? Do you have ANY experience with that?

While society has changed a lot over the years, we men have a natural instinct to provide for women. It's built into our DNA. What can you provide?

 

[Florence]

Right. So you filter that one word and allow all kinds of other insults against people? strange inconsistent standards it seems. Its something like the "n" word. Comes from Latin and means "black." Suddenly it has become an insult. Since when is it insulting to refer to someone as a black? Well if you use the word black it is considered ok but if you use the n word which literally means the same exact thing, its considered wrong. Because people make up silly rules about language that are arbitrary. That's how swear words were invented. There's nothing wrong with socalled swear words in and of themselves. Yet apparently they are "bad" words. Not really. The people who think they are bad are uneducated. They only become bad if they are used as insults in a way that is not right to use them.

 

[RG 448]

Right. So you filter that one word and allow all kinds of other insults against people? strange inconsistent standards it seems. Its something like the "n" word. Comes from Latin and means "black." Suddenly it has become an insult. Since when is it insulting to refer to someone as a black? Well if you use the word black it is considered ok but if you use the n word which literally means the same exact thing, its considered wrong. Because people make up silly rules about language that are arbitrary. That's how swear words were invented. There's nothing wrong with socalled swear words in and of themselves. Yet apparently they are "bad" words. Not really. The people who think they are bad are uneducated. They only become bad if they are used as insults in a way that is not right to use them.

"There's nothing wrong with the n word because it means black."

 

[Anaiah Carlson]

Do you believe in soul mates? Why is Tamar so special? Couldn't you just shape another girl into something Tamar like?

She's unique. there's no one else like her. I don't believe soul mates in the traditional sense. But I feel like I am supposed to be with her. But maybe I'm wrong. My knowledge eats away at me knowing that Tamar is not where she needs to be. I can't bear to think how much she's probably going to suffer in life without my help. And I love her specifically. You can't replace anyone. You can find someone else but they will never be the same person. People are irreplaceable and have an immeasurable value.

 

[autism420]

Right. So you filter that one word and allow all kinds of other insults against people? strange inconsistent standards it seems. Its something like the "n" word. Comes from Latin and means "black." Suddenly it has become an insult. Since when is it insulting to refer to someone as a black? Well if you use the word black it is considered ok but if you use the n word which literally means the same exact thing, its considered wrong. Because people make up silly rules about language that are arbitrary. That's how swear words were invented. There's nothing wrong with socalled swear words in and of themselves. Yet apparently they are "bad" words. Not really. The people who think they are bad are uneducated. They only become bad if they are used as insults in a way that is not right to use them.

shut up you stupid kike

 

[Florence]

She's unique. there's no one else like her. I don't believe soul mates in the traditional sense. But I feel like I am supposed to be with her. But maybe I'm wrong. My knowledge eats away at me knowing that Tamar is not where she needs to be. I can't bear to think how much she's probably going to suffer in life without my help. And I love her specifically. You can't replace anyone. You can find someone else but they will never be the same person. People are irreplaceable and have an immeasurable value.

...Have you looked into getting a dakimakura?

 

[Lackadaisy]

shut up you stupid kike

lol he's not even a kike.

 

[RG 448]

She's unique. there's no one else like her. I don't believe soul mates in the traditional sense. But I feel like I am supposed to be with her. But maybe I'm wrong. My knowledge eats away at me knowing that Tamar is not where she needs to be. I can't bear to think how much she's probably going to suffer in life without my help. And I love her specifically. You can't replace anyone. You can find someone else but they will never be the same person. People are irreplaceable and have an immeasurable value.

What about her living situation is so harmful to her? Is she being abused? Is her husband a creepy weirdo who stalks her?

 

[Florence]

What about her living situation is so harmful to her? Is she being abused?

She will be when @tamarlover gets his hands on her

 

[LD 3187]

She's unique. there's no one else like her. I don't believe soul mates in the traditional sense. But I feel like I am supposed to be with her. But maybe I'm wrong. My knowledge eats away at me knowing that Tamar is not where she needs to be. I can't bear to think how much she's probably going to suffer in life without my help. And I love her specifically. You can't replace anyone. You can find someone else but they will never be the same person. People are irreplaceable and have an immeasurable value.

How do you manage a religious life with this obsession? Do you think God wants you to stalk her and go after her? Where does free will go in this case? If you guys were MEANT to be together shouldn't this be easy and natural?

 

[GV 998]

What about her living situation is so harmful to her?

She's not with him, so in his mind, that means she is living an unfulfilled life and is probably miserable, because clearly, she would be SOOOO HAPPY if she were just WITH HIM!

This is classic lovesick puppy syndrome. This would be normal if he was like 11-13 years old and was basically just discovering the different dynamics between the sexes.

 

[Anaiah Carlson]

Ok, two things.


1. You sound like a hopeless romantic with no real relationship experience. This isn't how relationships work. It's not about worshipping the ground your woman walks on. That's a cute sentiment, but no one sane does it. And women don't even want that. They want someone who will connect with them on an emotional level. Women don't want to be put on a pedestal, which 100% what you are doing. It's not love, it's obsession.

2. You didn't actually name ANYTHING that you would bring to the table. You'd make her feel special. Sure, great. That doesn't pay the bills. Can you offer her and her children shelter? safety? Can you take on the role of a father figure and potentially BECOME a father to those children? Do you have ANY experience with that?

While society has changed a lot over the years, we men have a natural instinct to provide for women. It's built into our DNA. What can you provide?

I will provide whatever she needs me to provide. If she wants me to be a stay at home dad i'd do that. if she wants me to get a full time job out of the home I'd do that too. I plan on developing myself to be able to provide all the things she needs in that capacity. I'll get a job and save up money to give her everything she needs.

shut up you stupid kike

Never heard the word before and I have no knowledge of its wrongness.

How do you manage a religious life with this obsession? Do you think God wants you to stalk her and go after her? Where does free will go in this case? If you guys were MEANT to be together shouldn't this be easy and natural?

God doesn't want me to sin against her which I have done. But I don't know what God wants in this situation because God doesn't talk to me and he doesn't currently accept who I am as a person. So I have to operate on my own thoughts and feelings.

Remember, tons of religious people are hypocrites. Ive been managing my religious life alright, but recently my fixation on her has been overwhelming my entire life and my religious is suffering as a result. I'm hoping to realign myself to be more devoted to my religious life instead.

 

[RG 448]

I will provide whatever she needs me to provide. If she wants me to be a stay at home dad i'd do that. if she wants me to get a full time job out of the home I'd do that too. I plan on developing myself to be able to provide all the things she needs in that capacity. I'll get a job and save up money to give her everything she needs.

That's certainly an important first step, but you need to get your "foot in the door", so to speak, before you can push that idea. Do you have a plan for doing that?

 

[Anaiah Carlson]

What about her living situation is so harmful to her? Is she being abused? Is her husband a creepy weirdo who stalks her?

Well she is currently married to a guy who was in jail for 2 months for physically assaulting his ex wife he was with prior to her one year ago. So I have no way of knowing if he is safe or not for her. Considering his violent tendencies I am afraid for her wellbeing in this particular situation.

That's certainly an important first step, but you need to get your "foot in the door", so to speak, before you can push that idea. Do you have a plan for doing that?

I think I'm going to try to go to college and get a degree. That's probably the best thing I can do for myself.

 

[RG 448]

Well she is currently married to a guy who was in jail for 2 months for physically assaulting his ex wife he was with prior to her one year ago. So I have no way of knowing if he is safe or not for her. Considering his violent tendencies I am afraid for her wellbeing in this particular situation.

That's definitely a disturbing legal precedent. A good husband should have a clean record.

 

[Yellow Yam Scam]

I think I'm going to try to go to college and get a degree. That's probably the best thing I can do for myself.

Yeah, it's generally a good idea for aspergers-ridden goofs with delusions of grandeur to take on thousands of dollars of debt in order to get a degree in "Religious Studies."

 

[Anaiah Carlson]

That's definitely a disturbing legal precedent. A good husband should have a clean record.

I know I've crossed the line in certain ways, but I have genuine concern for her in the midst of this all and I don't want her to get physically hurt. I am not a danger or threat to her physical wellbeing. Because I know my heart and I know I would never hurt her. I'm not sure if she knows that, but I hope she will not be afraid of me hurting her physically going forward.