Not with the glistening snail-trails of crazy you've left on the internet, you won't. A restraining order? A detailed record of your obsession with a woman who has emphatically rejected you? Your utter lack of empathy, or theory of mind? Your diminished executive function? Yeah, good luck with that.
Define "fair." What, exactly, would pass muster for you as a fair chance?
I ask this because you betrayed and intentionally humiliated her, treated her abysmally, and ruined her relationships with others. And yet she still gave you multiple chances, and tried to salvage the friendship, despite clear evidence that you are not a good person. But eventually, your controlling, selfish behavior led her to give up and cut ties with you.
And you're still whining about how you didn't get a fair chance, and deserve another try? Dude--no. By your own account of events, you've long since used up your allowance of "fair" chances, and then some--any reasonable person can see that. And that's before we get to the creepy-stalker behavior that drove her to get a restraining order, or your threats to use her children to manipulate her into reconciliation by getting their birth fathers involved, somehow.
Her husband doesn't sound like a great catch, but you? You're poison. You might never raise a hand against her, but your controlling, possessive, empathy-deficient self is downright toxic. And I wouldn't put it past you to move the goalposts so you could keep claiming that any future refusals on her part still didn't represent a "fair chance." After reading this thread, I think your only definition of a "fair chance" is one that ends with her capitulation.
He's not a Jew; just a fundie-lite Christian who adopts whatever Jewish trappings appeal to him.
