Sorry if this has been mentioned already -- I'm still 20 pages behind but this is what I really don't understand about Ian:
He holds onto any slight against him, perceived or not. It's increasingly apparent he is a vengeful, spiteful person. It's clear to me that he didn't write off his old fans because they were le heckin evil nazirinos, but rather because they went against him, called him out, and (in his mind) disrespected him.
Anyone he sees as being "nasty" to him (aka not kissing his ass like his discord tranny jannies and 6 Patreon subs) is completely written off and a terrible person for being an incel/alt right/ectect. This happened with h3 for calling him a bad friend, his coach for being real with him, and Sam Hyde for striking down his video. Side note, not sure if commonly accepted but my theory is Ian only made that documentary on Sam to get back at him and try to own him. He's THAT petty.
SO WHY THE FUCK DOES HE LET ANISA WALK ALL OVER HIM AND TREAT HIM LIKE SHIT? His ego is so fragile and he's been such a little vindictive bitch even before he got with her, that's clear from the content cop days. So why does he never get angry with her or hold anything she says against him? Why does he take her every word as gospel even when she's obviously felting him 24/7??? Why is he posting videos crying over how much he loves her and how upset he is over the criticism she gets? SOMEONE MAKE IT MAKE SENSE.