I thought I knew Anisa pretty well, I've been aware of her since the beginning of their relationship in the /pt days. The only thing that actually surprised me in the info dump from the coach Mike and his wife was how malicious Anisa is. I know that probably sounds retarded if you've paid attention to them at all, she's obviously a nasty person, but when they described how Anisa would intentionally sabotage Ian's big events: getting the implants removed and dying of anorexia at the worst possible times so Ian wouldn't train properly for his fights, it did surprise me a bit.
I really thought that she was just a self-centered idiot that wasn't being considerate of her husband, and her mentally spiraling and making horrible decisions at the worst possible time, was maybe subconscious. I didn't think she was intentionally ruining his training to drag him down with her, into whatever fucked up hole she's in. But he seems aware and allows it, so I can't really pity him.
The beginning of their relationship was so different, she really wanted him to like her and whined to her Discord about him constantly, but when she threatened to break up with him and he said 'I'll never get with another girl like you' that just sealed the deal. She suddenly had all the power in the relationship and the respect was completely gone. I saw clips of his Concern Trolling video and was just stunned at how he can pretend to be so smug and arrogant when the entire Internet knows what a spineless sad worm he is.