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tamarlover said:
I know what rape is. The following I believe is not actual rape but is falsely called rape: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_by_deception

Tamar agrees with me that socalled rape by deception is not rape.
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Wow, for someone who ostensibly is so concerned with studying and philosophizing about ethics, you have incredibly shitty ethics.

So you don't believe rape by deception is rape; do you believe there are still reasons to have moral qualms about it though or do you believe rape by deception is totally fine?
 
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tamarlover said:
I know one of the things she didn't like was when I had tons of spit in my mouth saved up and I spit it all over her face and spread it all over her face huge gobs. I asked her permission before I did that and she said I could.
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You seriously have mental problems. Did you make her finger your asshole?
 
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tamarlover said:
My ex did things with me she was uncomfortable doing. And she felt used sexually by me. Her fault for not speaking about her issues with me. Communication is key and she didn't communicate anything. I told her to tell me if she was uncomfortable with anything or in pain with anything and she said she would but she never did. She consented to everything. not my fault she felt degraded afterwards. There was no physical abuse involved. We simply did things she regretted afterwards. I know one of the things she didn't like was when I had tons of spit in my mouth saved up and I spit it all over her face and spread it all over her face huge gobs. I asked her permission before I did that and she said I could.
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What did she do with you that she didn't feel comfortable doing, can you elaborate? What made you think about rubbing your spit on her face???
 
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tamarlover said:
My ex did things with me she was uncomfortable doing. And she felt used sexually by me. Her fault for not speaking about her issues with me. Communication is key and she didn't communicate anything. I told her to tell me if she was uncomfortable with anything or in pain with anything and she said she would but she never did. She consented to everything. not my fault she felt degraded afterwards. There was no physical abuse involved. We simply did things she regretted afterwards. I know one of the things she didn't like was when I had tons of spit in my mouth saved up and I spit it all over her face and spread it all over her face huge gobs. I asked her permission before I did that and she said I could.
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What the fuck man.
 
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Cato said:
Wow, for someone who ostensibly is so concerned with studying and philosophizing about ethics, you have incredibly shitty ethics.

So you don't believe rape by deception is rape; do you believe there are still reasons to have moral qualms about it though or do you believe rape by deception is totally fine?
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I think if you have a good reason to deceive, its fine. But that in general, the greater the deception, the more risky it is. And in some instances the deception would be morally wrong. It all depends. I say the only reason I decided not to do it with her is because it was too difficult and impractical to pull off.

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You seriously have mental problems. Did you make her finger your asshole?
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I didn't make her do anything. She did whatever I wanted.
 
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tamarlover said:
I know what rape is. The following I believe is not actual rape but is falsely called rape: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_by_deception

Tamar agrees with me that socalled rape by deception is not rape.
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Can I ask how you and Tamar started talking about rape by deception? Do you, perhaps, have a history of tricking people into doing sexual stuff..? Tell us more about your sex life.

tamarlover said:
I didn't make her do anything. She did whatever I wanted.
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What did you do with her? Anal? BDSM? Tell us about how good you are in bed.
 
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tamarlover said:
I think if you have a good reason to deceive, its fine. But that in general, the greater the deception, the more risky it is. And in some instances the deception would be morally wrong. It all depends. I say the only reason I decided not to do it with her is because it was too difficult and impractical to pull off.
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What possible "good reason" for rape by deception could exist?
 
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Can you give give some more details about the things she later said she was uncomfortable with? You say they weren't physical abuse, but spitting on someone would absolutely constitute assault in day to day life and would be considered part of a physical abuse pattern by abuse counselors. What other sexual acts did you perform that she later told you were unwelcome?
 
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Can I ask how you and Tamar started talking about rape by deception? Do you, perhaps, have a history of tricking people into doing sexual stuff..? Tell us more about your sex life.

What did you do with her? Anal? BDSM? Tell us about how good you are in bed.
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I did not do anal or bdsm. And i did not do any fetishes with her.

You cannot mistake how I was with my ex with how I tried to be with Tamar. I was an extremely different person when I was with my ex.

Tamar and I talked about it because in the bible, her hero she named herself after is named Tamar, who did rape by deception to sleep with her father in law. According to Melinda, Tamar was a righteous woman for doing that and tricking her father in law into thinking she was a random prostitute. So she named herself Tamar because she was inspired by Tamar's story of rape by deception to get what was owed to her through deception and be blameless. That's Tamar's view of it. To me, I think the rape by deception part of the bible story was not wrong, but that sleeping with her father in law was wrong.

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:c ewwww wtf is wrong with you?
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It was fun what can I say.
 
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tamarlover said:
I did not do anal or bdsm. And i did not do any fetishes with her.

You cannot mistake how I was with my ex with how I tried to be with Tamar. I was an extremely different person when I was with my ex.

Tamar and I talked about it because in the bible, her hero she named herself after is named Tamar, who did rape by deception to sleep with her father in law. According to Melinda, Tamar was a righteous woman for doing that and tricking her father in law into thinking she was a random prostitute. So she named herself Tamar because she was inspired by Tamar's story of rape by deception to get what was owed to her through deception and be blameless. That's Tamar's view of it. To me, I think the rape by deception part of the bible story was not wrong, but that sleeping with her father in law was wrong.
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I think spitting on her face counts as a fetish. It's not something you normally do in bed, as far as I know... What else did you do that made your ex uncomfortable, though?

Would you consider catfishing tamar online to get her nudes?
 
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