She is, in this instance at least, wiser than you.
And nothing in that necessitates, in your call to action, referring to women as "holes"; angry and offensive words won't help you against your "fucking demonic entities", you'll need supporters, which you instead alienate and repulse.
Nothing that has been said is an attempt at redirecting focus like in "Occupy Wallstreet", it's been valid criticism of how the words in the call to action make it less effective than it needs to be. To put it in a manner that you must surely understand: did your favorite dictator Adolf Hitler, in any of his speeches to the nation of Germany, ever refer to women as "holes" or use any other derogatory term for their gender? I think you'll find that he did in fact not, but I'm not an expert in that field.
It's been known since at least antiquity that when seeking sympathy or support or anything at all the words used matter immensely, please fucking stop throwing the game because you can't control yourselves from sperging.