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A TiF takes to Reddit to warn others about her mother being featured in a major Australian newspaper in an article about pediatric transition; according to her, her mother - Dr. Rachel Hannam - is supposedly a "manipulative narcissist" and an "abusive parent" (and has complained about her in the past before). Because all troons 'n' poons are, by nature, viciously dishonest and insincere, I'm inclined not to believe a single word typed from OP's keyboard. But it did make me curious, so I looked up the article, and I'll be including it down below (as it is paywalled otherwise).
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Dr Hannam, a former Greens member and election candidate, has skin in this very fraught game: she not only counselled teenagers and young adults intent on changing sex, but had to contend with a member of her own family seeking to transition.
Over the past three years she and Mr Hutton have gone on a punishing journey together. Mr Hutton, 78, has been at loggerheads with the Queensland division of his party, fighting accusations of being transphobic, which he deeply resents and rejects. His expulsion was confirmed this week.
Dr Hannam struggled to cope with the pressure at home and at work in Brisbane, inundated by distraught parents pleading for help for a gender-dysphoric child before it was too late.
They talked. A lot.
“Rachel really opened my eyes,” Mr Hutton said. “Before this thing started with the party, I really didn’t know much about the issues. My concern was basically freedom of speech, not the medicine and science around gender dysphoria.
“But through Rachel, I got to understand that there’s a lot going on here. We’re talking about a whole generation of kids who are really being experimented on in ways that are completely unacceptable.
“I mean, we don’t allow children to drink alcohol or buy tobacco or to drive or vote, and here we are – here’s the Greens – saying children should be able to go to a doctor and have these incredibly radical transformations to their bodies wrought around them with puberty blockers and other treatments.
“And here we have Rachel, saying, ‘well, hang on, these children might be able to be helped by other means’.”
Dr Hannam, 48, questions whether gender dysphoria – a genuine and confronting state of distress where a person denies their biological sex – can mask underlying psychosocial and psychiatric issues. In many cases she believes therapy, not medical intervention, is the answer.
“I’m not denying that there are transgender people in the world, but I do believe a lot of young people have deeper problems and it’s not gender dysphoria,” she said.
“Many of them are autistic or neurodivergent or have experienced trauma – we know that, it’s not debatable.
“I’ve worked with autistic and neurodivergent people for many, many years, and most say that adolescence was horrible for them, terrible. They hated getting secondary sex characteristics. Any teenager, especially girls, can feel distress over the physical changes that happen during puberty but when you’re autistic or neurodivergent it’s next level.
“We need to have sympathy for that, and do what can be done to help. But to affirm that a young person was born in the wrong body as a starting point – I just find that deeply unscientific.”
Dr Hannam knows it is risky to speak out like this, such are the emotions and vitriol swirling around the transgender space. She has already had to defend a complaint to the Health Ombudsman that she was transphobic, an expensive and stressful undertaking. The Psychology Board of Australia cleared her.
But she couldn’t stand by when she learned that Mr Hutton had been breached by the Greens over posts to his private Facebook page questioning the party’s pro-trans rights policies.
They connected in 2022 and have been talking ever since. “I’m willing to go on the record and say I’m horrified by how Drew has been treated,” Dr Hannam said. “All he did was leave some comments on a post … I couldn’t understand why that was grounds for him to be kicked out when he’s given so much to the party over the years.”
His suspension and subsequent expulsion, ratified by the Queensland Greens’ state council last Sunday, brought to a head long-simmering tensions over the purge of members by a “transgender-queer cult” that, Mr Hutton alleges, has seized control of the party.
He told The Australian he had been contacted by more than 30 ex-members who were expelled for refusing to toe the line on trans rights, and many more who complained of being hounded into quitting. Dr Hannam, who ran for a seat on Brisbane City Council for the Greens in 2016, let her membership lapse for unrelated reasons and no longer votes for them.
Mr Hutton set up the Australian Greens in 1992 with his friend, Bob Brown, who has called for his life membership to be reinstated. The veteran activist said his “crime” was to refuse to delete comments made by others on his 2022 Facebook posts decrying the sacking of then Victorian convener Linda Gale, allegedly for denigrating trans people in a discussion paper advocating that the party revisit its pro-rights platform. She denied this.
While his focus was freedom of speech – Mr Hutton says the trans faction ruthlessly crushes internal dissent – he turned to Dr Hannam to help him come to grips with the science behind the controversy. He read studies and academic papers, and pored through the findings of last year’s Cass Review for Britain’s National Health Service that underpinned the NHS’s decision to ban new prescriptions of puberty blockers for under-18s wanting to transition.
And he listened closely to Dr Hannam, as she filled in the gaps in the literature from her experiences of dealing with gender dysphoria at work and in her family. “I realised that there were a lot of questions associated with things like giving children puberty blockers, giving them cross-sex hormones, giving them surgery because they were uncomfortable in their bodies,” Mr Hutton said, catching up with her on Friday.
“I thought, well, that’s wrong. It’s problematic. What’s the alternative? Rachel told me about the things she was doing with children and their parents and it was so positive.
“You don’t simply give kids puberty blockers or a medical procedure and just say, ‘you’re in the wrong body, here you are, change your body’.
“Rachel was just saying, ‘let’s go through this journey with the kids’ and see if we can get through it in a far less intrusive, far less destructive way.”
Dr Hannam said parents were often left with nowhere to turn when “good science was substituted for ideology”, leaving health and medical professionals reluctant to get involved in gender cases for fear of the blowback. Some families were told that dysphoric children and young people were at risk of suicide unless their demands to change sex were met.
She believed in an “exploratory approach rather than a blanket affirming approach” in dealing with these cases. “I am not denying the existence of transgender people, as I know Drew is not, either,” she said.
Drew Hutton has delivered a searing statement about the party he helped found, after his explosion over comments he made about transgender rights.
“But … we’ve seen psychiatric epidemics through all of human history. What if this is another one? What if we’re making some huge mistakes. I believe we need to slow down and really dig deeper into what else might be going on.
“I think it’s the tip of the iceberg for a lot of these young people. And underneath the waterline we see neurodivergence, we see trauma, we see social isolation, we see other mental health struggles, and I have enormous amounts of compassion for that.”
The personal cost to each of them has been severe. Mr Hutton lost friends of decades’ standing over his fallout with the party, among them new Greens leader Larissa Waters. Pulling the “cult” into line was a test of her leadership mettle, he said.
He is in the process of obtaining legal advice on the standing of the disciplinary process that led to his expulsion, having put Senator Waters on notice that he would also explore other “political options”.
“I am not going away,” he told The Australian.
Dr Hannam has been so scarred by the situation in her family she no longer sees gender-dysphoric children and young people as clients, though she does work with parents. “It’s been a really tough time,” she said. “Everything was sort of OK, and then the politics of this issue infiltrated my family life.”
Moving on - a lonesome little lady wants to find love but is so insanely paranoid about anyone being aware she's a pooner that she's practically schizoposting about it. Something about her neuroses is quite Veinscrawlian, for those who follow his saga in the SRS thread...
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The article, as featured in The Australian, titled "‘Generation of kids being experimented on in ways that are completely unacceptable’, says Greens co-founder Drew Hutton." It's nothing any Kiwi would find to be new information, but my heart goes out to Dr. Hannam for having this miserable pile for a daughter.My own mom’s transphobic article is on the front page of Australia’s biggest newspaper today
! This post is not intending to lead people to transphobic material (I’ve read the sub rules).
My mum is an academic/psychologist. Her article about how gender affirming care is ruining children and taking advantage of autistic/traumatised people is on the front cover of a today’s conservative Australian newspaper.
It’s entitled “‘Generation of kids being experimented on in ways that are completely unacceptable’” on The Australian (one of Australia’s biggest news outlets).
Online, it’s behind a paywall. But many thousands of Australians would have read the hard copy today.
My own mother. This is not a v*nting post. This is to show that transphobia always - without any exceptions - presented in a logical way to control others. This stems from fear.
My mum can’t accept that I’m trans. She has cheated on both her husbands (my dad and step dad), yet still somehow remains a practicing therapist. She is an abusive parent but has influence with conservative media outlets due to politics and her PhD.
I’m non-contact with her, but in a national newspaper, she talks about how she’s basically the victim of her “family member” (me) being transgender, and how so many parents come to her as a therapist to - essentially - try to convince their kids to stop being trans.
My mother is not a decent therapist. She is a manipulative narcissist (and I know from living with her), with the intellect to gain her a PhD.Please be wary of Dr Rachel Hannam.
If this post is taken down for some legal reason, please contact me. I want to share my story, rather than be silenced. If i need to change details, please let me know.
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‘Generation of kids being experimented on in ways that are completely unacceptable’, says Greens co-founder Drew Hutton
Australian Greens co-founder Drew Hutton wanted to understand why so many young people are determined to change their sex. So he turned to an expert to guide him through the maze of the gender debate
Drew Hutton’s crash course in gender dysphoria began when psychologist Rachel Hannam reached out, after the Australian Greens elder defied the party he co-founded on trans rights.Dr Hannam, a former Greens member and election candidate, has skin in this very fraught game: she not only counselled teenagers and young adults intent on changing sex, but had to contend with a member of her own family seeking to transition.
Over the past three years she and Mr Hutton have gone on a punishing journey together. Mr Hutton, 78, has been at loggerheads with the Queensland division of his party, fighting accusations of being transphobic, which he deeply resents and rejects. His expulsion was confirmed this week.
Dr Hannam struggled to cope with the pressure at home and at work in Brisbane, inundated by distraught parents pleading for help for a gender-dysphoric child before it was too late.
They talked. A lot.
“Rachel really opened my eyes,” Mr Hutton said. “Before this thing started with the party, I really didn’t know much about the issues. My concern was basically freedom of speech, not the medicine and science around gender dysphoria.
“But through Rachel, I got to understand that there’s a lot going on here. We’re talking about a whole generation of kids who are really being experimented on in ways that are completely unacceptable.
“I mean, we don’t allow children to drink alcohol or buy tobacco or to drive or vote, and here we are – here’s the Greens – saying children should be able to go to a doctor and have these incredibly radical transformations to their bodies wrought around them with puberty blockers and other treatments.
“And here we have Rachel, saying, ‘well, hang on, these children might be able to be helped by other means’.”
Dr Hannam, 48, questions whether gender dysphoria – a genuine and confronting state of distress where a person denies their biological sex – can mask underlying psychosocial and psychiatric issues. In many cases she believes therapy, not medical intervention, is the answer.
“I’m not denying that there are transgender people in the world, but I do believe a lot of young people have deeper problems and it’s not gender dysphoria,” she said.
“Many of them are autistic or neurodivergent or have experienced trauma – we know that, it’s not debatable.
“I’ve worked with autistic and neurodivergent people for many, many years, and most say that adolescence was horrible for them, terrible. They hated getting secondary sex characteristics. Any teenager, especially girls, can feel distress over the physical changes that happen during puberty but when you’re autistic or neurodivergent it’s next level.
“We need to have sympathy for that, and do what can be done to help. But to affirm that a young person was born in the wrong body as a starting point – I just find that deeply unscientific.”
Dr Hannam knows it is risky to speak out like this, such are the emotions and vitriol swirling around the transgender space. She has already had to defend a complaint to the Health Ombudsman that she was transphobic, an expensive and stressful undertaking. The Psychology Board of Australia cleared her.
But she couldn’t stand by when she learned that Mr Hutton had been breached by the Greens over posts to his private Facebook page questioning the party’s pro-trans rights policies.
They connected in 2022 and have been talking ever since. “I’m willing to go on the record and say I’m horrified by how Drew has been treated,” Dr Hannam said. “All he did was leave some comments on a post … I couldn’t understand why that was grounds for him to be kicked out when he’s given so much to the party over the years.”
His suspension and subsequent expulsion, ratified by the Queensland Greens’ state council last Sunday, brought to a head long-simmering tensions over the purge of members by a “transgender-queer cult” that, Mr Hutton alleges, has seized control of the party.
He told The Australian he had been contacted by more than 30 ex-members who were expelled for refusing to toe the line on trans rights, and many more who complained of being hounded into quitting. Dr Hannam, who ran for a seat on Brisbane City Council for the Greens in 2016, let her membership lapse for unrelated reasons and no longer votes for them.
Mr Hutton set up the Australian Greens in 1992 with his friend, Bob Brown, who has called for his life membership to be reinstated. The veteran activist said his “crime” was to refuse to delete comments made by others on his 2022 Facebook posts decrying the sacking of then Victorian convener Linda Gale, allegedly for denigrating trans people in a discussion paper advocating that the party revisit its pro-rights platform. She denied this.
While his focus was freedom of speech – Mr Hutton says the trans faction ruthlessly crushes internal dissent – he turned to Dr Hannam to help him come to grips with the science behind the controversy. He read studies and academic papers, and pored through the findings of last year’s Cass Review for Britain’s National Health Service that underpinned the NHS’s decision to ban new prescriptions of puberty blockers for under-18s wanting to transition.
And he listened closely to Dr Hannam, as she filled in the gaps in the literature from her experiences of dealing with gender dysphoria at work and in her family. “I realised that there were a lot of questions associated with things like giving children puberty blockers, giving them cross-sex hormones, giving them surgery because they were uncomfortable in their bodies,” Mr Hutton said, catching up with her on Friday.
“I thought, well, that’s wrong. It’s problematic. What’s the alternative? Rachel told me about the things she was doing with children and their parents and it was so positive.
“You don’t simply give kids puberty blockers or a medical procedure and just say, ‘you’re in the wrong body, here you are, change your body’.
“Rachel was just saying, ‘let’s go through this journey with the kids’ and see if we can get through it in a far less intrusive, far less destructive way.”
Dr Hannam said parents were often left with nowhere to turn when “good science was substituted for ideology”, leaving health and medical professionals reluctant to get involved in gender cases for fear of the blowback. Some families were told that dysphoric children and young people were at risk of suicide unless their demands to change sex were met.
She believed in an “exploratory approach rather than a blanket affirming approach” in dealing with these cases. “I am not denying the existence of transgender people, as I know Drew is not, either,” she said.
Drew Hutton has delivered a searing statement about the party he helped found, after his explosion over comments he made about transgender rights.
“But … we’ve seen psychiatric epidemics through all of human history. What if this is another one? What if we’re making some huge mistakes. I believe we need to slow down and really dig deeper into what else might be going on.
“I think it’s the tip of the iceberg for a lot of these young people. And underneath the waterline we see neurodivergence, we see trauma, we see social isolation, we see other mental health struggles, and I have enormous amounts of compassion for that.”
The personal cost to each of them has been severe. Mr Hutton lost friends of decades’ standing over his fallout with the party, among them new Greens leader Larissa Waters. Pulling the “cult” into line was a test of her leadership mettle, he said.
He is in the process of obtaining legal advice on the standing of the disciplinary process that led to his expulsion, having put Senator Waters on notice that he would also explore other “political options”.
“I am not going away,” he told The Australian.
Dr Hannam has been so scarred by the situation in her family she no longer sees gender-dysphoric children and young people as clients, though she does work with parents. “It’s been a really tough time,” she said. “Everything was sort of OK, and then the politics of this issue infiltrated my family life.”
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On the inverse, this TiF wants to pretend she's a regular, not-insane woman so she can finally get some tail, stating that "I'm just a horny shit and desire intimacy." What say we, Kiwis? Do you think this kind of dishonesty is better or worse than presenting yourself as the opposite sex?Can you be stealth in a relationship or should I give up the idea of a relationship completely?
I'm 24, have never had a relationship, nothing close and wouldn't consider one before being done with phallo (currently post stage 2, waiting for a stricture repair which I don't know if I'll have to travel and have to pay out of pocket for which would take 1-1.5 years to save up for). I transitioned socially at 11, was accepted by my parents at 14 and almost completely stealth when I turned 15, went on blockers at 15, testosterone at 16½, top surgery at 17. All pictures of me as a child, I look like a boy and I look so drastically different now that no one who knew me before I was able to be stealth. I have always passed as male. I don't have any top surgery scars and my phallo scars are not the typical phallo scars and I think I could get away with saying that I got in an accident and needed reconstructive surgery which would explain why I need trt. I'm planning on moving to another country and going stealth to all healthcare workers. I have talked to my family and they have assured me that they would never tell a partner of mine that I'm trans, they know how much I despise it. I just can't have a relationship with someone and have them know that I'm trans, they can tell others people, it's feels humiliating to have them know and there's such an extraordinary amount of things wrong with me already that I can't do anything about that I won't be able to find anyone who would accept both all of those things and me being trans. If it's impossible to be stealth in a relationship I will simply have to be alone. Has anyone had a stealth relationship?
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A transmedicalist troon thinks the issue with the reversion of transgender acceptance is because of concession of language rather than the fact that normal people think every troon 'n' poon is fucking annoying. You're not exempt either, OP, I don't want your stupid ass in a women's bathroom, either.Lying to get laid
I'm trans ftm, but I really don't pass. I've been on T almost 2 years, and no matter how hard I try, people always refer to me like a girl. So considering I don't have much going for me in my transition yet, is it bad or weird to pretend I'm a cis woman just to get laid?
Like, if I don't specify either way, just taking advantage of people's own assumptions about my gender, and not to date them, just for sex.
But mainly what I wanna know is, has anyone done, or would anyone else do this? I don't identify with being a woman at all, I'm just a horny shit, and desire intimacy![]()
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A "transbian" (read: heterosexual male) preaches about how much more comfortable he finds "lesbian" relationships and accidentally reveals himself to be a misogynist without even realizing - I mean, stating that men have a feeling of need to "dominate women" by using hook-up lines? Gross! It makes you wish that Y: The Last Man was a reality.We must not surrender "sex change" terminology.
The goal of treatment for transsexualism should be to integrate as fully as possible into society as the opposite sex. This can only be accomplished if we are recognized functionally, socially, and legally as the opposite sex.
Terminology has been watered down: "sex change" has become "(gender) transition," and "sex reassignment surgery" became "gender reassignment surgery," then "gender confirmation surgery," and now "gender affirmation surgery" which need not even involve constructing genitals of the opposite sex! All of this has resulted in the public no longer taking sex changes seriously, and transsexuals being treated the same as non-op people and people who undergo no medical transition at all.
We're now seeing governments reversing accommodations that were designed to allow transsexuals who had completed treatment to have livable lives. The US will no longer change the sex marker on passports (and is reverting existing changes), and multiple states will no longer update driver's licenses or birth certificates. Some states have gone in the opposite direction: replacing "sex" with "gender" on licenses and allowing changes based entirely on self-ID, both of which erode public confidence in sex changes. The UK recently ruled that trans people—even those with GRCs—are no longer their acquired sex for all intents and purposes.
I think we must revert to talking about transsexualism in terms of sex changes and sex reassignment surgery. People can come up with various definitions of sex—chromosomes, gonads, gametes, hormones, gender identity—but most people fundamentally view it in terms of primary and secondary sex characteristics: male = penis + facial hair + wide upper body + narrow lower body, female = vagina + breasts + narrow upper body + wide lower body. Functional sex is what matters 99% of the time. We'll always be grouped in with our birth sex if we're grouped in with the much larger population of trans people who don't undergo sex reassignment surgery.
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Being a trans lesbian feels very different (and more authentic to me) than being a straight cis guy
Even though in either case I’m attracted to women it just feels different and more comfortable even though I’m not even on hrt or really out. Like as a straight cis guy you have this endless horniness and this feeling of a need to “dominate” women by using hookup lines and you gotta be gentlemanly and pass down the family name and propose marriage and all that stuff and I don’t vibe with that. I do like women and known that all my life and tried to like men despite that especially before i realized I could be a girl but it never truly felt right to me. There’s this sense of equality and joy and intimacy and comfort being a woman in a sapphic relationship especially with another trans woman that I feel joyful with, and combined with the fact that most of my life I wasn’t “girly” at all I resonate a lot with being a butch lesbian. Also I’ve known for many years I do not ever want to be a biological father and I always connected to lesbian woman on a level I never had with straight women, I had a crush on a girl back in senior year of high school that I think in hindsight was a lesbian and I think she rejected me because I still didn’t know I was a girl. I’m autistic and I watched this show called love on the spectrum and looking at the straight relationships I don’t feel represented at all seeing them nor is it something I actually want. I still think I’m a girl after denying it yet again and the dysphoria is ruining my life.