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[The Ugly One]

The only crime taken very seriously by both genders, guaranteed attention and sympathy if you claim you were SA'd.

Lots of women will blame you if you got molested as a child. You see it all the time.

 

[KifflomKween]

Lots of women will blame you if you got molested as a child. You see it all the time.

Bold of you to assume they will even acknowledge that's what it was if the perpetrator was a female.

 

[rapecel]

I fucking hate women's refusal to hold themselves accountable.

 

[Dog with Dementia]

Lots of women will blame you if you got molested as a child. You see it all the time.

I'm genuinely curious, where do you see that? I have seen women do and say retarded shit but nothing like that.

 

[Sneed's Feed n Seed]

“I love your mom but she’s like a pet to me”

Man that shit aging like fine wine.

 

[Tom Nook's Gloryhole]

I fucking hate women's refusal to hold themselves accountable.

Expecting a woman to show accountability is like expecting a dog to learn how to play the violin. At some point you have to point the finger back at yourself for allowing yourself to imagine such insane views.

 

[The Ugly One]

I'm genuinely curious, where do you see that? I have seen women do and say retarded shit but nothing like that.

Main response I have seen is blaming the victim for letting it go on if they were older than like 8 or 9 maybe. Many women expect teenage boys to exercise far more control over situations than they actually can, zero understanding or appreciation for power dynamics other than Women Most Affected. It's like they think you turn 13 and get handed your Patriarchy Badge. And of course, if the abuser was a woman and you were past puberty, it is no big deal at all.

 

[Sneed's Feed n Seed]

Children of either sex are far likelier to be raped than adults. Lifetime risk is almost entirely before 18.

Men are judged such that they must be able to regulate women, not need help themselves. Someone raped as a child is liable to actually need someone else's EMOTIONAL LABOR™ (affecting women the most) thus "THE ICK" kicks in.

Women most affected, men have to fix it.

INFURIATING INFODUMP TIME

• CDC & DOJ surveys define “rape” for males only as being penetrated (oral/anal), not being forced to penetrate—which hides most female-perpetrated assaults against boys/men.
• Official lifetime “rape” rate for men(CDC):
  • 3.8% (~1 in 26) — but this excludes “made to penetrate” cases.
• When “made to penetrate” is counted, male lifetime sexual victimization jumps to:
  • 10.7% (~1 in 9) — and most are female-perpetrated.
• Nearly equal numbers of men and women are subjected to non-consensual sex (penetrated or forced to penetrate) annually in CDC data, but only women are counted as “rape” victims in headlines.
• Under-reporting for male victims is far more severe than for females—due to stigma, disbelief, and social messaging about masculinity.
• Teen boys and younger males are at higher annual risk of sexual abuse than middle-aged women—especially ages 12–17, where their per-year risk often matches or exceeds that of adult women.
• Global meta-analyses show boys are victims of child sexual abuse (CSA) at rates approaching girls, especially under age 13. U.S. studies place CSA rates for boys between 7–13%—almost certainly an undercount.
• “Feminism is for everyone” is the rhetoric, but public policy, media, and advocacy campaigns routinely center only female survivors, leaving male and non-binary victims invisible in statistics, funding, and social response.
• The gender gap in “rape” statistics is a product of definitions, not reality. Change the definitions to make sense, and the disparity disappears.

This will, of course, not convince a woman of anything except "she can't manipulate you with this" and will lead her to engaging in affective communication calling you a bad person (because women are most affected) or having a melt down, but at least we know the reality of it.

And women are finally catching diddling cases.

 

[Dog with Dementia]

Main response I have seen is blaming the victim for letting it go on if they were older than like 8 or 9 maybe. Many women expect teenage boys to exercise far more control over situations than they actually can, zero understanding or appreciation for power dynamics other than Women Most Affected. It's like they think you turn 13 and get handed your Patriarchy Badge. And of course, if the abuser was a woman and you were past puberty, it is no big deal at all.

That's interesting. I have never heard or read that myself though, not even on Twitter. I'm also pretty convinced that no woman irl would agree with that if you presented her with that hypothetical. Do you have screenshots?

 

[Dawdler]

I've honestly completely stopped worrying about whomen's troubles
They are adults. Either they solve it or suffer it.

 

[KifflomKween]

I've honestly completely stopped worrying about whomen's troubles
They are adults. Either they solve it or suffer it.

Or (what usually happens) we all do because they drag everyone else with them. Crabs in a bucket.

 

[Dog with Dementia]

I don't particularly hate women, but something I heavily dislike is women's view on "respect". Every single time a woman talks about respect they clearly display that they don't understand respect or how it works at all.

The usual context in which they bring up respect is something along the lines of:

"I may do this unrespectful thing (usually being a whore) but I can still want to be respected!"

Like, yes, you can want to be respected or demand respect but that doesn't mean you will receive it. Respect is a positive consequence of doing respectable deeds, like displaying a skill or showing discipline. Like the typical argument of "Why is a guy more respected for sleeping around than a woman" when it's significantly easier for one sex than the other, and doing easy things just isn't respectable.

Countless TV shows and movies have across the past 30 years have hammered home the point that respect is something you need to earn, yet somehow modern women cannot grasp this concept and it's beyond me at this point. What's the root cause of this?

 

[Jace on ice]

A big redpill moment for me was when that movie Gone Girl came out and women everywhere empathized and related to one of those most shockingly evil sociopaths I've ever seen.

A women let's her husband get falsely accused of murdering her and while his life is completely destroyed she continued to psychologically torture and torment him from the shadows.

She does this because he makes her move to a new city because of his job and that makes her sad, no really that's literally it.

 

[Baron Reginald]

Besides, aside from those occasional fanfic weirdos I've never seen a woman with that dead pornsick stare men

I have seen that phrase before. "Pornsick gaze" but what even IS that?
I have never got a clearly defined answer, and have only been able to tack it down to "I got checked out by someone who gives me the ick"

That is an actual question, since I have seen a few images posted as examples and it's usually someone who clearly has the 'tism trying to look at someone when they talk but avoiding the eyes or is just someone mentally checked out of a situation.

 

[KifflomKween]

I have seen that phrase before. "Pornsick gaze" but what even IS that?
I have never got a clearly defined answer, and have only been able to tack it down to "I got checked out by someone who gives me the ick"

That is an actual question, since I have seen a few images posted as examples and it's usually someone who clearly has the 'tism trying to look at someone when they talk but avoiding the eyes or is just someone mentally checked out of a situation.

It's a kind of vacant stare, like the stare of an addict, it's glassy like that of a dead fish and like there's no soul behind it. Has a thirsty predatory glimmer to it when it locks in on a female like he can't help to undress her with his eyes. Sometimes his pupils even dilate visibly mid conversations like he's just had a hit of coke. It's really fucking creepy. It's also really fixated and unblinking. They have a way of observing every single one of your facial expressions and you just get this weird nagging feeling like they are trying to creep into your mind and read your thoughts which I know sounds weird but it's how it feels. Once they lock eyes on you they don't give you room to breathe. It's like they are in a trance.
It appears in autists and non autists alike so it's not quite the autism stare.

When you talk to someone with that kind of stare they look human, act human, sound human, apparently talk to you like you are a human but there's nothing behind the eyes. They eye you like they would a meal. Like some sort of alien or demon is staring back at you. Feels like being eyed by a predator. You get the feeling the person isn't all quite there.

The way I handle this is to avoid them as much as possible or when that's not possible I just stare them dead in the eye which usually makes them look away.

 

[NarkDigger]

A big redpill moment for me was when that movie Gone Girl came out and women everywhere empathized and related to one of those most shockingly evil sociopaths I've ever seen.

A women let's her husband get falsely accused of murdering her and while his life is completely destroyed she continued to psychologically torture and torment him from the shadows.

She does this because he makes her move to a new city because of his job and that makes her sad, no really that's literally it.

I watched it a while back so correct me if I'm wrong but isn't the rest of the film about her manipulating another guy into "saving her from her evil husband" and at the end she comes back and says that this second guy who was helping her all this time, actually kidnapped her and generally she "wins" in the end?


And yes there are also tons of edits and general sentiment that she is actually a cool girlboss who stands up to patriarchy or something.

 

[Tom Nook's Gloryhole]

It's a kind of vacant stare, like the stare of an addict, it's glassy like that of a dead fish and like there's no soul behind it. Has a thirsty predatory glimmer to it when it locks in on a female like he can't help to undress her with his eyes. Sometimes his pupils even dilate visibly mid conversations like he's just had a hit of coke. It's really fucking creepy. It's also really fixated and unblinking. They have a way of observing every single one of your facial expressions and you just get this weird nagging feeling like they are trying to creep into your mind and read your thoughts which I know sounds weird but it's how it feels. Once they lock eyes on you they don't give you room to breathe. It's like they are in a trance.
It appears in autists and non autists alike so it's not quite the autism stare.

When you talk to someone with that kind of stare they look human, act human, sound human, apparently talk to you like you are a human but there's nothing behind the eyes. They eye you like they would a meal. Like some sort of alien or demon is staring back at you. Feels like being eyed by a predator. You get the feeling the person isn't all quite there.

The way I handle this is to avoid them as much as possible or when that's not possible I just stare them dead in the eye which usually makes them look away.

You are literally describing an autistic man lmao.

 

[crab fucker]

A big redpill moment for me was when that movie Gone Girl came out and women everywhere empathized and related to one of those most shockingly evil sociopaths I've ever seen.

A women let's her husband get falsely accused of murdering her and while his life is completely destroyed she continued to psychologically torture and torment him from the shadows.

She does this because he makes her move to a new city because of his job and that makes her sad, no really that's literally it.

I do agree that sympathizing with the chick in Gone Girl is very telling of women but there at least is a bit more to it than that. The husband was cheating on her for a long time, which she found out about, and I think during their arguments he all but told her that he didn't love her. The sickening thing is that I think women grasp onto this so much because they see what she does as some kind of 'just revenge' or empowerment, but it's clearly just insane. The lengths she goes to in the movie to pull off her scheme are only possible if she was already capable of such psychopathy before her conga line of trauma. Any bitch who sympathizes with her and agrees with what she did is beyond BPD and fits squarely into the brimstone niggerhell tier of women.

Edit: I should also mention that as part of her scheme she had to literally frame her ex-boyfriend of kidnapping her to explain where she was all that time, and she then MURDERED him to make the story clean. What a brave and sympathetic woman.

 

[The Ugly One]

I do agree that sympathizing with the chick in Gone Girl is very telling of women but there at least is a bit more to it than that. The husband was cheating on her for a long time, which she found out about, and I think during their arguments he all but told her that he didn't love her. The sickening thing is that I think women grasp onto this so much because they see what she does as some kind of 'just revenge' or empowerment, but it's clearly just insane. The lengths she goes to in the movie to pull off her scheme are only possible if she was already capable of such psychopathy before her conga line of trauma. Any bitch who sympathizes with her and agrees with what she did is beyond BPD and fits squarely into the brimstone niggerhell tier of women.

Edit: I should also mention that as part of her scheme she had to literally frame her ex-boyfriend of kidnapping her to explain where she was all that time, and she then MURDERED him to make the story clean. What a brave and sympathetic woman.

I would be outraged about the foid love of Gone Girl except I empathize with Christian Bale in American Psycho.

 

[SouthernBitchBob]

Why do they constantly talk about rape?

Oh lots of reasons, well beyond the feminist oinking point that "99% of men are rape apes in-waiting" or whatever they're on about these days. Most of them would get you shrieked out of the room for mentioning them.

• Rape is a crime that implies value. Sure, nobody *wants* to get raped, but gosh he wouldn't have assaulted me if I weren't ~pretty~, right? Don't blame me, all the instant gnashing of teeth pushback against hallucinated "men" saying "she was asking for it" point directly at this. Preemptive objection is quite telling.
• It's the only (I think?) crime that has no objective evidence. The difference between consensual sex and rape is, well, consent. Murder has a body, or a missing person. Theft has a missing item. Assault has witnesses and maybe injuries. Trespassing might have a crowbarred door. Rape is literally "I had sex with this person and didn't want to", at most your physical evidence is that you got rough. Much as feminists complain that it's "not taken seriously", these features mean it's the crime you can most easily lie about. It's just how it works.
• Additionally, because it's a crime that is fully legal right up to the point of "no", it's basically "safe". Sure, you could get sympathy points from say, a kidnapping, but that story falls apart fast if you didn't actually get kidnapped. Oh hey wait, that guy you banged last night was kinda ishy? I...must not have consented. I was assaulted! Bam, immediate attention and you didn't even need to get something to happen to you.
• Female sexuality has a fascinating component to it that we're not allowed to talk about, and straight guys don't really "get". Read any schlickfic to find out more. It goes something like, hot rich lothario guys find my natural passive charm and seductive wit so irresistibly attractive that they'll give up philandering and aim all of that sexual energy directly at me me me. Gosh I have no idea what he finds so ☆alluring☆ about me, I hope he doesn't give into his animal urge to pin me down and ravish me (I do). <- How close to rapey does  that sound? Yet it's on display at every bookshop you can find.

That's a non-exhaustive list, but pretty much that. That's why.