Daddies and Littles - Child Abuse Fetish

Are there any stories about how people grow out of this fetish? If you get a new normal boyfriend and he sees goes online and sees your tumblr is filled with stuff like sexual babytalk he's gonna be creeped out. There must be thousands of embarrassed girls (and guys) trying to forget this dumb phase of their lives.

It's the mixture of cringe & a glamorisation of paedophilia that makes this whole thing weird.

Actually, not sure if its been brought up bit I'm surprised these creeps haven't used the bioshock fandom with the litle sister / big daddy scenario present.
 
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chekovia said:
Are there any stories about how people grow out of this fetish? If you get a new normal boyfriend and he sees goes online and sees your tumblr is filled with stuff like sexual babytalk he's gonna be creeped out. There must be thousands of embarrassed girls (and guys) trying to forget this dumb phase of their lives.

It's the mixture of cringe & a glamorisation of paedophilia that makes this whole thing weird.

Actually, not sure if its been brought up bit I'm surprised these creeps haven't used the bioshock fandom with the litle sister / big daddy scenario present.
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One, don't give them ideas. I have a hard enough time looking for Booker and Elizabeth content that isn't porn. Actually I bet if you wanted to find DDLG Bioshockers that's where you'd start. Fuck.

Also, for most of these people, it's a lifelong thing/isn't a "phase" if for no other reason that it's tied to significant psychological fuckupery. They don't leave because they can't function normally otherwise, or worse, they've been mindfucked in the "lifestyle" so long they CAN'T go back to functioning normally anymore. Like the ones who actually train themselves to be incontinent and become physically reliant on the diapers, or the ones who have been with their caregiver/mommy/daddy so long they're basically codependent in every way (financially, emotionally, etc.).

BDSM has its fuckwits, but it can be practiced with sanity in most cases. For the DDLG types, though, not so much. It's actually frightening the longer you think about it.
 
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One, don't give them ideas. I have a hard enough time looking for Booker and Elizabeth content that isn't porn. Actually I bet if you wanted to find DDLG Bioshockers that's where you'd start. Fuck.

Also, for most of these people, it's a lifelong thing/isn't a "phase" if for no other reason that it's tied to significant psychological fuckupery. They don't leave because they can't function normally otherwise, or worse, they've been mindfucked in the "lifestyle" so long they CAN'T go back to functioning normally anymore. Like the ones who actually train themselves to be incontinent and become physically reliant on the diapers, or the ones who have been with their caregiver/mommy/daddy so long they're basically codependent in every way (financially, emotionally, etc.).

BDSM has its fuckwits, but it can be practiced with sanity in most cases. For the DDLG types, though, not so much. It's actually frightening the longer you think about it.
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That's good analysis.

If the show Billions has taught me anything it's that BDSM is an upper middle class fetish that is utterly separate from everyday life, that's the point of it, it is a binary of desire and normalcy. daddies and littles consists of damaged people inflicting their damage onto mundanes in public by all the accounts here.

Regarding incontinence: I'm aware that Freud is considered somewhat outdated but I believe, horrifyingly, that the anal fixation may be the psychological fuck-up a lot of these people are aflicted with:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anal_stage
 
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chekovia said:
If the show Billions has taught me anything it's that BDSM is an upper middle class fetish
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You keep watching Billions, Chekovia. You keep watching Billions. Might as well watch Fifty Shades Of Grey too.

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In all seriousness, messed up sexuality, and mental problems that rely on this shit normally comes up from an abusive childhood.

It's probable that some of the Girls in DD/LG might be using this as some sort of coping mechanism for things that have been done to them. Then they become too dependant on it and the rest's history.

The men I'm not so sure, because any even slightly charming asshole could pull of this kind of relationship with some sexually messed up girl who doesn't know her left from her right. The pictures of the daddies we have on this forum show you don't even have to be that good looking ever.
 
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Vocaloid Ruby said:
You keep watching Billions, Chekovia. You keep watching Billions. Might as well watch Fifty Shades Of Grey too.

:story:

In all seriousness, messed up sexuality, and mental problems that rely on this shit normally comes up from an abusive childhood.

It's probable that some of the Girls in DD/LG might be using this as some sort of coping mechanism for things that have been done to them. Then they become too dependant on it and the rest's history.

The men I'm not so sure, because any even slightly charming asshole could pull of this kind of relationship with some sexually messed up girl who doesn't know her left from her right. The pictures of the daddies we have on this forum show you don't even have to be that good looking ever.
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Most men are dogs, frankly, and will take advantage of anything that will give them access to women, I've noticed most of the tumblr images I've seen of this fetish come from a female point of view. Men sure as hell aren't writing this stuff they're probably cynically getting laid.

As for your statement about naivety, a lot of people mistake lust for affection. I'm pretty sure that's what's driving this degeneracy: lonely young girls and cynical loutish men willing to accept women shitting themselves in nappies in order to access their pussy.
 
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just caught up on this thread, so this may be a bit late.

doesn't it seem like these people seemingly dedicate their entire lives to this fetish of theirs? it honestly sounds so exhausting to live a life completely devoted to being a "little", or w/e the hell. that's in addition to living by "daddy's/mommy's rules", which completely limit some of these adults' ability to function as actual human beings in society.

i mean, not that they were very good at functioning in society prior, i would assume.

it just seems so goddamn tiring (and disgusting) to do this. who would dedicate so much of their life to a fetish?
 
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Most men are dogs, frankly, and will take advantage of anything that will give them access to women, I've noticed most of the tumblr images I've seen of this fetish come from a female point of view. Men sure as hell aren't writing this stuff they're probably cynically getting laid.

As for your statement about naivety, a lot of people mistake lust for affection. I'm pretty sure that's what's driving this degeneracy: lonely young girls and cynical loutish men willing to accept women shitting themselves in nappies in order to access their pussy.
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I wouldn't doubt that the men in the community probably have a deep desire for control and a bit of a Lolita fetish. They probably also get off on humiliating their partners.

I disagree that your average pussyhound would put up with this just for a piece of ass.
 
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I believe I posted quite a while ago about a former friend of mine who had a "little" for a girlfriend in high school. I'm not so sure about whether or not said former friend was into it, but I do know that his now ex-girlfriend spread her fetish among my friend group, and it led to some tumult. I think she now lives with someone who's around five years her senior (she's 19, he's 24 or 25) and frequently posts on tumblr and instagram about shoplifting and drug use.

On the topic of strange fetish wear, she owns this weird choker that reminds me of those y-shaped leather chest pieces that Hard Gay wears. But instead of a y-shape, it's a pentagram that covers her chest.
Yeah, me neither.
 
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