DarksydePhil / TheyCallMeDSP / Phil Burnell - General Discussion

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All this moron had to do was take a month of patreon money and use it to pay for a trip to disney land. He is such a stupid cold asshole. He didn't do it cause he thought leanna didn't have the guts to leave him i bet.
When's the last time he even took Leanna to that arcade? He didn't even try to do anything with her for months. It's another reason he should go back to CT: he has no gf to take out and he's a shut in so it doesn't mattet where he lives. But as everyone's said and his actions have shown he won't consider moving and selling the townhouse until he really gets a hit to his finances.
 
When's the last time he even took Leanna to that arcade? He didn't even try to do anything with her for months. It's another reason he should go back to CT: he has no gf to take out and he's a shut in so it doesn't mattet where he lives. But as everyone's said and his actions have shown he won't consider moving and selling the townhouse until he really gets a hit to his finances.

Leanna at least having an income created some kind of buffer for financial emergencies. With her gone, that's over. His next financial emergency will be his last, and he'll probably fuck around like a fuckup until he's not only completely screwed and has to move back to CT, but has to beg for the money to do even that.
 
I think the death knell of the relationship was Phil showing up at her job and being a complete ass. People naturally form relationships with coworkers.

Every single person pulled her aside and told her she needed to bounce out of the relationship. Real people...not just faceless personalities, but people that knew her and she trusted.
 
I think the death knell of the relationship was Phil showing up at her job and being a complete ass. People naturally form relationships with coworkers.

Every single person pulled her aside and told her she needed to bounce out of the relationship. Real people...not just faceless personalities, but people that knew her and she trusted.

Combine the fact that everyone at her work probably was aghast at Phil's sociopathic behavior and maybe even said he seems abuusive, do you need help, she probably got questions like that at the hospital, too, where Phil also acted like an utter fuckwad.
 
Leanna at least having an income created some kind of buffer for financial emergencies.

Whatever his financial status actually was, this is a super important fact. Panda added a stable flexible element to his budget. If a major appliance goes out in the next few months, he either has enough money to absorb it (revealing he's lying) or he's going to be really screwed (because he's an asshole). Maybe his daddy is going to keep shoveling money into the furnace he calls a failure of a son, but that's not exactly a "Real, Adult" victory, is it?

I think the death knell of the relationship was Phil showing up at her job and being a complete ass.

Anyone who has outside contact with the world is going to auto-correct what's wrong with Phil having a relationship. You don't have to talk to someone very long to see that they're wounded and that something is wrong. You can't necessarily do a lot about it, but you see the cracks, and just by noticing those cracks your behavior changes and makes them notice that you notice them. Social obsessed behavior has flaws, but it ultimately keeps everything moving towards a point, and that point is never "Cook dinner for a dude that plays video games while you have the flu".

If no one noticed anything wrong with Panda, I'd be amazed. Phil MIGHT be able to coax some other confused creature into his dustbin, because he's unnerringly confident and that is honestly an attraction point. But unless he gets someone mentally ill or totally socially isolated, people will notice something is wrong, and the roots of society will begin to crack back into his unweeded garden.
 
The whole break up situation made me realize the irony in that while we all thought of Panda as Phil's daughter, she was actually more like a mother to him. While little Phil was playing video games and running his serious big boy business, Panda was cooking, cleaning, and working to support the household. Now mommy is gone and little boy Phil can do whatever he wants and play all day in his own happy fantasy world.
 
The whole break up situation made me realize the irony in that while we all thought of Panda as Phil's daughter, she was actually more like a mother to him. While little Phil was playing video games and running his serious big boy business, Panda was cooking, cleaning, and working to support the household. Now mommy is gone and little boy Phil can do whatever he wants and play all day in his own happy fantasy world.

So it's like Home Alone, except it's a disgusting middle aged autist with gout, and he won't be able to dodge the bill collectors with a series of clever traps.
 
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This is why pandalee abandoned him
 
Real people...not just faceless personalities, but people that knew her and she trusted.

When Phil had her go out and get a job to earn him more money, he either didn't think that she'd develop any bonds with anybody or he thought that their home life was perfectly normal so there would be no issues if it came up. The only thing that would have benefited their relationship would have been if Leanna didn't get a job and stayed trapped in the house.
 
When Phil had her go out and get a job to earn him more money, he either didn't think that she'd develop any bonds with anybody or he thought that their home life was perfectly normal so there would be no issues if it came up. The only thing that would have benefited their relationship would have been if Leanna didn't get a job and stayed trapped in the house.

I don't think Phil thought that far ahead. Phil only thinks of short term gains and not long term consequences. Phil embraced jacking it on stream for a quick mention on Keemstar but never thought about how it could cost him in the future, like maybe with a new MCN. So I think when Leanna got a job Phil saw the extra money she would bring in and the idea this could effect their relationship never crossed his mind.
 
Looks like karma finally caught up with snorting gout man. Will 2017 finally see a final collapse of the DSP empire?

DSP's Empire is like the Byzantine one, by this point it owns nothing but the turf around its city but still won't quite die and screeches about the glory days dude, ACKCKACKACKACK.
 
Hopefully no thristy as fuck assholes see this as their big opportunity. Chances are Panda already has a guy or two in mind and that's a factor in finally giving her the confidence to leave. Judging by her past on Youtube and her shared texts she's one of those girls whose circle of friends is mostly guys.

I'm a bit confused about the timeline. When was Panda's ER trip? Did the breakup occur before or after? I'm assuming after since Phil was acting like the bill was a burden on him and felt it was within his rights to tell her co-workers to refrain from calling 911 in the future. Panda's alluded to her coworkers making 'why are you even dating him' comments in the past and I'd think that meeting Phil in the flesh and witnessing him be more concerned with the car than Leanna and telling them not to call an ambulance in the future probably dialed those comments up to 11.

She must have moved out almost immediately if she's been living elsewhere for two weeks, right? I wonder if she found an apartment on her own or crashed with a coworker. Probably the latter. I know Phil was talking about his lease running out but how is she getting to work? Is she using Phil's new car or is she going into work with a coworker?
This explains while Phil has been light on the DSP Tries it recently. Panda's always the one to film them.

If someone could made a chart of events that would be really helpful. I didn't get any real info out of the SoKast.
 
I'm a bit confused about the timeline. When was Panda's ER trip? Did the breakup occur before or after? I'm assuming after since Phil was acting like the bill was a burden on him and felt it was within his rights to tell her co-workers to refrain from calling 911 in the future.

Phil has desperately insisted the breakup was before his psychotic behavior, and claimed she broke up with him, but was going to continue to live with him, before her panic attack and the ER visit. Some have cited that even a completely psychotic creep like Phil wouldn't have publicly been so callous about her ER visit unless they'd already broken up, but I think acting that psychotic is actually a very good explanation for why she finally dumped him.

I bet she had already decided to break up with him after that pathetic "engagement" thing with the trashy ring that made it clear he was never marrying her. I strongly question her judgment even wanting to marry this cocksucker, but even a chick that dumb must have got a wake-up call when he pulled that bullshit.
 
...why? Sounds pretty funny to me.

Because it's against the rules for kiwis to thirst post. If BSV does it it's hilarious. If RandomFarmer420 does it it's just sad.


Phil has desperately insisted the breakup was before his psychotic behavior, and claimed she broke up with him, but was going to continue to live with him, before her panic attack and the ER visit. Some have cited that even a completely psychotic creep like Phil wouldn't have publicly been so callous about her ER visit unless they'd already broken up, but I think acting that psychotic is actually a very good explanation for why she finally dumped him.

I bet she had already decided to break up with him after that pathetic "engagement" thing with the trashy ring that made it clear he was never marrying her. I strongly question her judgment even wanting to marry this cocksucker, but even a chick that dumb must have got a wake-up call when he pulled that bullshit.

I have to think a major factor in the breakup was the engagement. If I'd seen my then-fiance telling everyone who offered us congratulations that it didn't mean we were getting married I would have ended it immediately. It was very clear Phil was happy with the level of commitment and involvement he was putting into the relationship and didn't want things to change. If we could see that on the outside it must have become overwhelming apparent to Leanna.

Still, wish we had a date. Then we might be able to work out what the tipping point might have been.
 
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