It's all an exercise in goalpost moving, as society accepts more and more diversity (or just doesn't care), the social justice types keep redefining "tolerance" and "racism" so that you still haven't met their burden for proving you aren't racist.
When the stigma over interracial marriage went away, instead of declaring progress, they said you just had a fetish for black women, you still hated black people deep inside, they just knew it.
When the stigma over having black friends in your social circle went away, instead of declaring progress, they said it was "tokenism" and you still didn't like black people, they just knew it.
And now, when it's possible for a black man to be elected President, twice, instead of declaring progress, they say you're racist because you have "power and privilege", they just KNOW IT.
Lord I'm tired of playing a game with no "win" condition, how about you?