I can only speak for myself in this matter. Since she went out and got that part-time job, there was a difference in Leanna. Perhaps it was being exposed to "normal" people since she was with Phil from 17 or 18 on, otherwise it was her turbulent life at her folks' home. Regardless, I did not see or hear of her asking him to spend loads of money on her or invite her onto streams...she was happy doing the soap and wax tart business.
The few times she did appear on stream, it's clear she was only doing so to troll Phil. She'd flash the fake ring before he splurged $40 for a real one, or would purposely annoy him with insincere diatribes relating to sexism in gaming. It was not the same kid that everybody hated from the Kingdom Hearts days.
Her now having left the king of putrescence with a desire to stay away from drama lends credence to mature decision making, so it is not "sucking her dick" but rather acknowledging the way things are today with regards to giving her some credit. She lived with Phil all these years and came out sane on the other side. With chronic anxiety disorder, but a semi-functioning member of society nonetheless.