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- Sep 21, 2014
Oh I know medical staff will treat everyone the same but it's the gravy and ass pats from friends, FB, tumblr when they can post CANCER or ALS, oh wait, I guess plenty do that with or without a diagnosis. But it at least raises the bar for those who don't outright lie and had to use the Fibro, IBS, something hard to physically diagnose bullshit.
I suspect most of them also don't realise that the attention is not constant throughout a progressive/terminal illness. There's often a lot of rallying around during initial diagnosis and treatment and again in the final weeks, but there are prolonged periods in the middle when the attention from everyone except caregivers drops off because most people can only suspend their own lives to rally around for quite short periods (a reality which greatly contributes to carer burnout).