if someone murdered someone before, and they say to someone they are romantically interested in "I murdered someone in the past and went to jail for it but I am free now and I won't kill anyone ever again." are they expected to tell them all the gory details about how they murdered them? I don't think that is necessary. Similarly, if someone is romantically interest in a former child molester, I don't think the former sex offender needs to say anything more than "I went to jail for molesting a child." That in itself should be sufficient. She doesn't need to know the gory details of the child molestation. She doesn't need to see a video of it. So, if someone is interested in a former cyber-stalker, they don't need to say all the gory details of the cyber-stalking, only that they were guilty of cyber-stalking. And then if she asks for more details, then he should share. But if details are not asked for, the details can be shared or they can be avoided to prevent unnecessary issues. however, I am the type of person that wants to tell my future wife just about everything about me. So I would like eventually to share all those things if we are going to be serious. If however, we aren't even going to enter a relationship, there is no need to give all the crazy gory details. For example, I haven't told her about my masturbation issue, because I don't think that is appropriate to discuss with her if we have not entered a relationship. If she wants to enter a relationship with me, then I can tell her about some of my personal private issues. Otherwise, she doesn't need to know. And the only reason the people here know is because I made a comment on one of my youtube videos to mock Marshall before I knew kiwi farms existed and then the maker of this thread the Jumping Dwarf took a screen shot of it and plastered it over the internet. Otherwise I wouldn't have mentioned it here to people. However, since it was already revealed, I addressed it further and shared further about my issues here.