Phil's looking for someone to cook and clean for him and get a real job to give him more money. He will devote one major day to spend time with her. Narcissistic personality disorder.
What we have been told by a well known fabricator of stories: She "was going through a rough time" I suspect a break up. She found someone who paid her attention. Since there are not much details I can't say if her bought her things or what, but he did fly her out across the country which is kind of an expensive thing to do for someone you don't really know. After 3-4 months (the reveal of her existence) they were already discussing their future and living together. Now the move is set and she is excited to cook and clean for him and will immediately get a job to pay his bills. This is either gold digging or a sign of borderline personality disorder or maybe histrionic personality disorder or a type of PTSD or daddy issues. Difficult to diagnose on so little info. Maybe even a substance abuse problem. Either way it is a definite sign of poor foresight and reckless behavior.