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If you really had to who would you sex?


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Let's see... the stomach has a lining of mucous so the stomach acid doesn't burn through (which is what an ulcer is!), the esophagus is designed so that nothing (say... SPERM) sticks to it, and due to cell death and replacement you pretty much have new organs at varying rates; the stomach replaces almost all of its cells after five days because of stomach acid. There is zero sperm, even traces, after less than a few minutes in the digestive system.

Essentially I want to mail them a biology textbook. This is high school shit.
 
Also, Incels aren't just lacking sex, they're also lacking meaningful relationships with other people. A robot can't provide that.
I think this is kind of noteworthy. Sex is not a need, but people do want to belong. That's why people go "Well monks and nuns are chaste all their life, why are incels such bitches?" But I imagine it's because they have that, they feel like they belong, to their church and their belief. It's why these guys become incels, they want to belong somewhere, and that hugbox mentality actually just makes them worse. Someone in the thread compared it to a religion and theyre kind of right.

You can be an adult virgin and still have friends and 99% of the time nobody is going to know unless you explicitly tell them and even then, outside of college parties and "Never have I ever", it's just probably not going to come up unless youre like trying to get into a relationship with that person, where they will know or find out.
 
Let's see... the stomach has a lining of mucous so the stomach acid doesn't burn through (which is what an ulcer is!), the esophagus is designed so that nothing (say... SPERM) sticks to it, and due to cell death and replacement you pretty much have new organs at varying rates; the stomach replaces almost all of its cells after five days because of stomach acid. There is zero sperm, even traces, after less than a few minutes in the digestive system.

Essentially I want to mail them a biology textbook. This is high school shit.
Reality is subjective when there's a narrative you need to maintain.

Who cares about biology, physics, and natural law? We're here to be victims, not people with a basic grasp of reality.

As an aside, I'd love to read a biology book written by a hardcore incel believing all this stuff.
 
I collect old textbooks and I have one from 1953 about "Women's Health." That'd be right up their alley. If I can find the time I might take pictures of the funnier passages.
Please do, I'd love to read it.
I think this is kind of noteworthy. Sex is not a need, but people do want to belong. That's why people go "Well monks and nuns are chaste all their life, why are incels such bitches?" But I imagine it's because they have that, they feel like they belong, to their church and their belief. It's why these guys become incels, they want to belong somewhere, and that hugbox mentality actually just makes them worse. Someone in the thread compared it to a religion and theyre kind of right.

You can be an adult virgin and still have friends and 99% of the time nobody is going to know unless you explicitly tell them and even then, outside of college parties and "Never have I ever", it's just probably not going to come up unless youre like trying to get into a relationship with that person, where they will know or find out.
You're referring to Maslow's Hierarchy...or at least touching on elements related to it. Maslow's Hierarchy is a pretty handy thing to bring up regarding incels:

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(Keep in mind that while some variants list sex as a "basic need" at the base of the hierarchy, it's done using the logic that you need sexuality to keep the species alive, not to literally live.)

For a person to truly feel happy, according to the model, you need to reach "self actualization," right at the tip-top. It's so small visually on the pyramid because it's not so concrete as something like a basic need. Self actualization is what you have convinced yourself makes you happy--be it friends, family, success, money, spirituality, you name it. Likewise, things like basic needs (physiological) and shelter (safety) are at the bottom because you can't feel happiness even if you're self-actualized when you're starving or out in the cold.

Self actualization is what you make of it. In less industrialized countries, it's actually pretty common for people to feel happier than they do in places like America. The reason for this is because "achieving one's full potential" is something that's already set out for them. Their "full potential" is being a farmer like their parents, or having a family like their neighbors. Compare that to first world countries, our standards for our "full potential" are much higher. We want to be well paid, have a good job that's not too difficult but not too boring, have all these commercial products, and as many friends we can count.

This ties in to why incels are so miserable; because their goal for achieving "self actualization" is just getting laid. It doesn't matter that some incels are rich, or can live a life relaxing all day and never working--things that an average person can only dream about. And because incels can't achieve their "full potential" of...a guy who isn't a virgin, they don't feel like they've reached a point where they feel fulfilled with their life--regardless of how better of they are in reality. Compare this to the monks or nuns who make a vow of celibacy, and how they can be worse off compared to an incel and be virgins, yet still be immensely happy. Their goals of self-actualization are related to their faith, and by following their faith, they feel satisfied with their lives.

Of course, that's assuming they've taken care of the other layers of Maslow's Hierarchy. "Love and Belonging" refers to having friends or a family that cares about them. Some incels often chose to distance themselves from others or resent their own family. But there are those that don't, yet fail on the next level--esteem. You can't feel happiness if you hate yourself or believe you deserve whatever misery you feel. While there are some incels that believe they're pathetic, a vast majority don't have any issues with esteem. They believe that they deserve to have sex, or that they're misunderstood geniuses just born in the wrong body. So while some incels fall apart at the social or esteem levels, all who don't are miserable because of them failing at the self-actualization level.

The cut and cold truth of the matter is that incels, through one way or another, chose to be miserable. They decide to value their worth on how many women they can sleep with, and gauge their success on their perceived attractiveness rather than any other metric. Some take it a step further, and refuse to improve themselves, content to wallow in self-pity and hatred. And by finding a community of like-minded individuals, they've deluded themselves in believing everyone else is the source of their misery.
 
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Please do, I'd love to read it.
I went through the bookshelf (used bookstores and rummage sales are gold mines) and the oldest book I have is called "The Library of Health" and was printed in 1927. I'll see what I can find about "women's health" in there.

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You can see how long it'll take me. :P

(No, I don't live in some weird mansion like the photo might suggest... I just have a habit of buying worn-down antique stuff and restoring them.)
 
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Building on this- there will still be stigma attached to it. In a way, I think that's the least of their problems.

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Finally found the picture I needed in regards to the topic of sexbots.

In a way, the top text from the woman in the bottom picture would be sort of true, however the thing is, it wouldn't just be coming from women. Everyone would think any guy who has one is pathetic, and can't actually talk to women. Also just a hint- it won't be said in anger. It'll be the punchline to a joke.

The amount of narcissism the people who unironically posted and talked about this picture have- they think the entire female populace will actually care that a few men of billions in the world are fucking something that can't even bring them tendies hot out of the oven- How vain do you have to be to think people actually give that much of a shit to the point of chimping out? Not to mention the narcissism of the people who determine the worth of women or even other people in general based on whether they can provide something for them or not (in this case, that's sex).

They think women will care that much about sexbots, to the point of raging about it... That's cute.
They're also forgetting (or just don't care) that some women and couples purchase and own sex dolls themselves.
 
The cut and cold truth of the matter is that incels, through one way or another, chose to be miserable. They decide to value their worth on how many women they can sleep with,

Sometimes I wonder if it's not even that, if self-actualization for an incel is being aggrieved. They only feel validated if they are in a horrible depressed lonely rut because their worldview says they are the sufferer of great injustice, so they must feel that way all the time?
 
Sometimes I wonder if it's not even that, if self-actualization for an incel is being aggrieved. They only feel validated if they are in a horrible depressed lonely rut because their worldview says they are the sufferer of great injustice, so they must feel that way all the time?

The community isn't helping them much either. But I'm guessing a fair few of them probably find it hard to let go (judging by some people I've seen on the site and other online places). Someone I know is like that with the toxic people in his life. Put it this way, there are probably some who don't want to let go of the incels.me community because they may not have anyone else to turn to as friends or a community to validate them personally, and probably find it hard to meet new people and/or reach out to others generally. Even ones who talk about wanting to have sex with a woman are shot down (a la the "why do you want pussy, pussy is gross. if i had a female I'd wash inside her cooch with vodka" picture someone shared a couple pages back).

It may be a sense of "belonging" to something/a group. It's quite appealing, to have a group of people around you where you aren't alone. It may be a toxic environment (with everyone going off about how even doing something that makes you happy, like music, isn't good enough and is bad wrongthink because "REEE WONT GET YOU LAID")- the biggest problem with that is that for some people it's hard to cut themselves off from a toxic idea or group, no matter what that group says or does, because you need something or someone to hold onto, whether that be for interaction, social reasons, etc.
 
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Situations like that suck don't they. You try your hardest and it still isn't good enough. She was a bit of an asshole too but just because you got her a beer doesn't mean you're entitled to her, she has every right to back out of that conversation whenever she wants to. Learn from it, try to act less awkward, try asking about her more and what she wants to talk about. There's always next time.

Friendly reminder from an anon on 4chan:

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It sucks, but if you really do want to make friends and get a girlfriend, you just have to keep putting yourself out there. It helps to think of it as practice and not put so much pressure on yourself. That's the problem with incels, they treat situations like this as the end of the world instead of as a learning experience.

Also, if the girl really was shy, then talking to a stranger (especially a male one) was probably uncomfortable for her. For whatever reason she wasn't into the conversation with OP and didn't want to hurt his feelings, so she got one of her friends to rescue her from the conversation. Remember, OP deliberately followed them into the house so he could eavesdrop on them; they didn't mean for him to overhear what they were saying.

I also feel like a lot of incels (and men in general tbh) don't understand how women communicate/act differently than men. For a variety of reasons (both social and arguably biological), women are often more polite, non-confrontational, and considerate when they talk to someone. Meanwhile, men are often more assertive, direct, and to-the-point when they communicate. In other words, women are more likely to be trapped in a conversation they have no interest in than men are. It really doesn't help that incels (and other types of men who lack social awareness) automatically assume that if a woman is polite and friendly that means she's interested in them.
 
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Situations like that suck don't they. You try your hardest and it still isn't good enough. She was a bit of an asshole too but just because you got her a beer doesn't mean you're entitled to her, she has every right to back out of that conversation whenever she wants to. Learn from it, try to act less awkward, try asking about her more and what she wants to talk about. There's always next time.
Chances are that:
  • He came up too strongly/was outright creepy with her and scared her off
  • Acted smug, patronizing and condescending with her, and annoyed her away
This would be especially the case with a shy person.
If you wish to interact with shy people, you should be open and welcoming without being patronizing; and be patient and understanding without acting like you're dealing with a child. That would be an instant deal breaker.
If this incel approached this girl because she was shy and/or lonely, he actually put himself in a more difficult position than he would have with a more extrovert girl.
 
So, I photographed the first page of "Women's Health" in The Library of Health, and then photographed the final page of that chapter... it's only 27 pages long and relates mostly to "beauty." If people want it, I can do an audiobook of that chapter, but I think there might be more about "the women's body" inside the book. Beware large images to follow (Not THAT large, though):

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Edit: This is what happens when you bring a librarian to an incel-fight.

FYI I'm sorry about how the left side is a bit "warmer." I took the pictures on my couch and had to turn on a lamp to get proper lighting.
 
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they're obsessed with where "cum has been"

If you think about it, the water (or water in your coke) has passed through a man's cum at some point. The same goes for the water in the air.

They should stop drinking water. And breathing.
And they have been cum themselves, just like the rest of us. Or do they think they got birthed by mitosis?
 
And they have been cum themselves, just like the rest of us. Or do they think they got birthed by mitosis?

The ultimate irony is that incels exist because their parents had sex.

If people didn't have sex, incels would not exist. It is the ultimate blackpill.
 
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