Stephanie Cianfriglia / Sapphire Crimson Claw / Yarrow Brown / the-ghost-fucker / transmascdruid / anarchoenby77 / darktwistedpussy / Druid of Endicot - Xe/xyr ghost-fucker, womb wizard, hand sanitizer sommelier, trans-boomer, violently abuses her elderly parents, has sexual fantasies about raping children

[XxxwernxxX]

pls be a troll, pls be a troll. Lol at his "nature-connected gender", it's almost as if... humans are a part of nature?

Dear God she is even more delusional and has her head further up her own ass that I imagined.
"I was actually molested and raped as a child"
"YEAH WELL I IMAGINED IT HAPPENED SO I'M ON PAR IF NOT WORSE THAN YOU"
Nice throw on the defense because you can't admit you've made a horribly crass mistake, very adult of you.
Plenty of people with anxiety disorders panic at the though of being hit by a car, but you'd be hard pressed to find someone that says that equates to knowing the agony of being run over by a semi.

Goddamnit Stephanie, you have no friends because you have no tact. Not even when people bear their hearts, souls, trauma, and deepest fear, can you ever hope to even try to sympathize. You are a grade-A narcissist.

Ooh, yeah, and her nutjob therapist won't do her any favors. Some of them back in the 70's or so actually managed to convince people of being sexually abused when they were never touched. She is so self-centered that she doesn't realize csa is something that irreparably scars you, forever, not just a cute little tack-on for her refusal to grow up. Not to mention many csa victims were offended repeatedly. Wonder if she pulls up an accusation on her father and it's the straw that breaks the camel's back. Let her go. I'd like to see her try to be self-sufficient.

Okay, I'm done.

I'm hoping he's a troll, but I was convinced Dave Muscato was a troll for a long time, too. Scrolling through his fb, I'm pretty convinced he's not. I hope I'm wrong but i may be right. I think I'm wrong though. Perhaps to our benefit.

 

[Meowthkip]

Dear God she is even more delusional and has her head further up her own ass that I imagined.
"I was actually molested and raped as a child"
"YEAH WELL I IMAGINED IT HAPPENED SO I'M ON PAR IF NOT WORSE THAN YOU"
Nice throw on the defense because you can't admit you've made a horribly crass mistake, very adult of you.
Plenty of people with anxiety disorders panic at the though of being hit by a car, but you'd be hard pressed to find someone that says that equates to knowing the agony of being run over by a semi.

Goddamnit Stephanie, you have no friends because you have no tact. Not even when people bear their hearts, souls, trauma, and deepest fear, can you ever hope to even try to sympathize. You are a grade-A narcissist.

Ooh, yeah, and her nutjob therapist won't do her any favors. Some of them back in the 70's or so actually managed to convince people of being sexually abused when they were never touched. She is so self-centered that she doesn't realize csa is something that irreparably scars you, forever, not just a cute little tack-on for her refusal to grow up. Not to mention many csa victims were offended repeatedly. Wonder if she pulls up an accusation on her father and it's the straw that breaks the camel's back. Let her go. I'd like to see her try to be self-sufficient.

Okay, I'm done.

The more we find out about Stephanie, the worse she gets.

 

[keyboredsm4sh]

The more we find out about Stephanie, the worse she gets.

Do you think her parents are aware she's this nuts, that she's willing to do shit like this? Her ghost fucking is lolish, weird but ultimately harmless, though it does piss me off a bit that she claims to have sexual adventure while she's only taken phantom dick. Her obsession with gays and trans is creepy, and her claim that she has it just as bad as a csa victim is downright deplorable and disgusting. Like goddamn, I want her to make one of those "days in my life" vids because there's no way she acts this insane in front of her parents.

I'm just getting my hopes up that her parents have only been cowed (lul) by her behavior. There is no way this bitch is dumb enough to actually tell her father to his face that he "abuses" her, that she's been "sexually abused by him" (I think when she comes out with that story, he's the one she'll blame. She hates him for him not wanting her to be a child). There is no way she'd jeopardize her free room and board. (Then again her father seems the type to do empty threats and well, "If he didn't follow on the last five, he won't on this one.") But... we all know what a disgusting degenerate Nick Bates was and how long he got away with it.

 

[Hamplanet Fitness]

 

[keyboredsm4sh]

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oh jesus stephanie, your dad telling you satan isn't your husband and don't leave shit on the porch isn't abuse.
Proof Stephanie isn't abused:
Was sent to college (apparently has no loans to pay off)
Lives in parents house rent free at 30 doing nothing, was bribed with cat to avoid being murdered
etc etc

I doubt the man who is bending over backwards to get your ungrateful ass a declawed cat called you a little bitch. But you know what? The way you act even as an adult? He's not wrong, and you deserved to be called such. You want fucking emotional abuse? When my dad was a kid, if they said something rude to their mother, she would give them the complete silent treatment for a week. Complete. cold. silence. No acknowledgement, not a word. If one of them said anything that could be taken badly about the food, she picked up everyone's plates and put them in the garbage, regardless of whether or not they had said anything. It is now ingrained into their minds today when her children in their 40s beared their way through an unsweetened pie because of childhood trauma.

Fuck off with that boohoo shit, Stephanie.

 

[GayDemiBoy]

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The worse thing her dad's ever done was call her what she is. The worse her mother did was try and get her to care about her hygiene by telling her her nasty hair was nasty and that she needs to clean if she wants to avoid her dad saying something.

This bitch doesn't know what child abuse is. If she ever claims to have been molested as a child I hope everyone on the hell hole that is tumblr calls her out. At least everyone who's sane and knows what bullshit she's been spewing.

 

[cogsworth]

I doubt the man who is bending over backwards to get your ungrateful ass a declawed cat called you a little bitch.

She doesn't want a declawed cat, she had a whole tantrum about it. I mean i get it, they have to cut off the first knuckle and it causes way more issues than it solves, but he didnt know that and she had a complete meltdown.

 

[Meowthkip]

... Your parents?

The fact that your dad seems to know that you're so unstable that you can't live by yourself without a handler and found somebody answering your ad super suspicious shows that yes, he does care. It sounds like he has trouble expressing it verbally, however, since he does appear to be loud and dismissive of your beliefs, which... he's an atheist, right? Of course he'd find witchcraft silly. If you tried that shit in a Christian fundie house you'd probably get exorcised. He can still love you without subscribing to all of your stupid witch nonsense.

Your dad cares more about you than your imaginary ghost husbandos ever could. Your ghost husbandos will not protect you, or keep a roof over your head, or try and steer you away from sketchy people. I'm not saying he's perfect, but I will say he's probably trying his best. You have to meet him halfway and help him help you, but you just keep pushing him away and resenting him for even trying. It's a two-way street, despite what Tumblr tells you. That's why everybody else on the site is as dysfunctional and miserable as they are.

But of course, you're not gonna listen to any of this. I'm just a big, mean cyberbully who hates you, I don't get it, I'm not there in your shoes. And you're right. I only know what you're telling us, and if I'm able to glean that things aren't nearly as bad as you're trying to tell me they are just from your side of the story, then that's a sign that you may not be the most reliable narrator.

Fuck it.

 

[keyboredsm4sh]

She doesn't want a declawed cat, she had a whole tantrum about it. I mean i get it, they have to cut off the first knuckle and it causes way more issues than it solves, but he didnt know that and she had a complete meltdown.

I know. I'm not "pro-declawing", but her shitfit was pointless, like I said a few posts up. He said "find a declawed cat", not "make". If she doesn't take a declawed cat it may get adopted by someone else, or it could be put down. The cat's declawed whether she wants it or not.

 

[A single cheeto]

Jesus christ get over yourself Stephie. Your parents have literally done everything for you. They took the time to raise your ass instead of kicking you to the curb. If you dont like what theyre saying, maybe sit down and have a long talk? Tell them how it makes you feel. Or get family therapy.

Also comparing herself to a CSA survivor is fucking vile. Actually, everything about her is vile.

 

[lamp shade]

Her name is tainted, you guys. Now no one will take the name “Sapphire Crimson Claw” seriously. What a shame.

 

[redcent]

Oh God why am I stepping out of lurking?

As much as Staph is a nong I can't help but feel pity. I wish instead of curling up and crying "everyone hates me" she'd listen instead.

There's a lot wrong with saying you're a CSA survivor when nothing happened. But I think the problem why she stepped into that puddle of stupid is that she really has this need to paint herself as the victim. And she needs to stop trying to be a victim, and even if she wants to be some pagan satanist ghost fucker she could at least drop the passive aggressive "imma hex u" nonsense, that's no way to deal with problems.

No one here or your Dad hates you Steph. You want hate? If they hated you they'd convince you that you did go through abuse. And they'd get off on it.

People laugh at your foolishness but for the most part don't want to see you homeless or knifed in your sleep by a crack head you randomly flatted with. You think your dad is the worst? Try dealing with a drug addict or a real psycho. You wouldn't care about a little shouting or arguments over spilt herb juice once you face a real monster.

And getting back to where I was, stop trying to be a victim. There are real monsters out there that will not take pity on whatever sob story of the week you have, so painting yourself as a victim is not a good idea. Don't expect pity. Show some pride for a change, be quiet about what's upsetting you and show you're a strong woman/ enby thing. Stop being bothered over petty fights with your Dad. Not silent and sullen and going back to spell casting but instead just not be bothered by a guy who's just a grumpy old man.

There is nothing glamorous about being any kind of victim. You want to be less womanly? Try growing some balls

 

[Fancy Carstairs]

Oh God why am I stepping out of lurking?

As much as Staph is a nong I can't help but feel pity. I wish instead of curling up and crying "everyone hates me" she'd listen instead.

There's a lot wrong with saying you're a CSA survivor when nothing happened. But I think the problem why she stepped into that puddle of stupid is that she really has this need to paint herself as the victim. And she needs to stop trying to be a victim, and even if she wants to be some pagan satanist ghost fucker she could at least drop the passive aggressive "imma hex u" nonsense, that's no way to deal with problems.

No one here or your Dad hates you Steph. You want hate? If they hated you they'd convince you that you did go through abuse. And they'd get off on it.

People laugh at your foolishness but for the most part don't want to see you homeless or knifed in your sleep by a crack head you randomly flatted with. You think your dad is the worst? Try dealing with a drug addict or a real psycho. You wouldn't care about a little shouting or arguments over spilt herb juice once you face a real monster.

And getting back to where I was, stop trying to be a victim. There are real monsters out there that will not take pity on whatever sob story of the week you have, so painting yourself as a victim is not a good idea. Don't expect pity. Show some pride for a change, be quiet about what's upsetting you and show you're a strong woman/ enby thing. Stop being bothered over petty fights with your Dad. Not silent and sullen and going back to spell casting but instead just not be bothered by a guy who's just a grumpy old man.

There is nothing glamorous about being any kind of victim. You want to be less womanly? Try growing some balls

every day, millions of people wake up and get ready and go to work. they work and do errands and chores and pay taxes and deal with bullshit like the dmv or whatever. every day, millions of people go outside and deal with other people


it's as if she thinks 'victims' have a free pass to skip all of that
she's a 'victim' so she should be allowed to sit in her free room all day and browse tumblr with complimentary internet and talk to imaginary friends

 

[PuckishRogue]

Slight :powerlevel: here but here it goes.

If Steph wants to make her nonprofit legit (I don't think she does, but let's work on the basis that she DOES) she has to be willing to do some boots on the ground shit. Working for nonprofits isn't sitting in a nice comfy room until it's time to give a press release, especially not new ones, and especially not lgbt ones. It's pulling on your fuckin' big girl panties and canvassing. It's not the most physically demanding work, but when you're out in 90 degree weather, you're gonna feel it. If she doesn't get past this 'omg too disabled to work' shit, she'll never make another of this supposed org.

I once worked at a nonprofit with a guy who had frequent convulsing seizures and needed to used a cane and special leg braces to walk. Having a hilariously minor surgery a month ago and being anxious in public sometimes isn't a goddamn excuse.

My wish for the harmless cows is to get better, the same goes here, but she's gonna have to have a real fuckin' overhaul of her life if she ever wants to improve.

EDIT: Also, nobody will ever take an lgbt nonprofit seriously if the woman who started it says she fucks the Night Stalker's ghost. No goddamn way.

 

[FeatherBomb]

"im ashamed of my hybristophilia and time in the tcc"

"yeah i fuck the night stalker"

 

[zesty bill clinton]

Love how Stephanie implies most kids don't get yelled at by their parents. I guess since I had screaming matches with my mom as a teenager I've been abused too.

It's so sad how she dismisses the valid criticism we give here simply because it comes from us. She's lumping us in with trolls who say shit like "kill yourself faggot" but we're over here suggesting her dad just cares for her in his grumpy old man way and that she find a nice desk job since social work is a bust. There's a difference between criticism and hate, Stephanie, and 90% of what gets posted here isn't hate. You'll never be able to function in the adult world if you can't take valid criticism without drinking hand sanitizer.

 

[DirtbagDeluxe]

You'll never be able to function in the adult world if you can't take valid criticism without drinking hand sanitizer.

She doesn’t function in the adult world already. That’s part of the reason she has ‘companions’. they can’t disagree, judge, or mature and outgrow her fantasies. They don’t act a thing like these men did in real life because it’s just wish fulfillment. She doesn’t have hybristophilia, she makes absolutely no attempt to actually contact living murderers because they’re real people and she can’t control them with her magical powers. She’s not in love with them for who they are, but for what they represent in her imagination hugbox.

 

[vilehatemachine]

:powerlevel: people who have been abused always try to find the fastest way to get out of that situation when they realise. They don't just post about it online and they certainly don't stay with the abuser just because they were offered a cat (or any pet) in exchange. If her parents are such meanie abusers why doesn't she just... go. Actually get a job (even though she's far too lazy), take up art and offer commissions (even though she's far too lazy), anything to get out of that situation. She's a 30 year old woman not a 15 year old girl. Closest she got was the craigslist? room/housemate. Actually get off of your ass for once.

 

[Privileged Millennial]

I hate that despite reading everything here, part of me is badly trying to give Stephanie the benefit of the doubt by thinking “maybe her dad has said things we don’t know about” or “sometimes people won’t leave their abusers for a number of reasons”. But we’ve all seen it: Steph can, will, and has brought up every single thing she can to use to paint herself as the victim, including apparently lying about being raped and having sex with a married man? I’m so confused by this cow. She could very easily go on a tirade about how her dad beat her and called her a cunt and threatened to kill her pets... But she claims her parents emotionally abuse her without giving any context. She gives context (in fact, she tends to overshare) for everything else that happens. Why not this?

I almost, almost feel bad for her, because she’s obviously fucked in the head and I think she truly believes in all of these bad things happening to her. I know I shouldn’t because of how obvious it is she’s just saying things online for attention, but I’m with the crowd who legit wants her to get better.

It’s okay, Steph. Tell us more about your super supportive spectral partners.

 

[sarcasticslipandslide]

Honestly, if Steph is as lacking in "spoons" as she claims, I really don't think she should be getting a cat. Cats are not low-energy pets and require a great deal of effort to keep them happy and healthy. They need to be played with, groomed, have their litter box cleaned regularly, be fed and watered well, and above all, be treated as more than an ornament. If there is anything potentially dangerous to a cat on her "altar", it needs to be put away ASAP so that no curious little feline attempts to eat it. If there is anything in her weird pastes that could make a cat sick, she cannot keep leaving them around the house like she does. Unless her parents plan on taking 99% of the responsibility for the cat, including vet appointments and the like, I'm not sure Steph will be able to care for it.

And that makes me sad.