Watching that old pizza video of her family was disgusting. Her mother clearly never taught her kid’s table manners. They were all fisting forks, chewing with their mouths open, smacking their lips, gulping drinks, and keeping their napkins on rhe table to drag fingers across instead of keeping them on laps so nobody has to see your leftover grease.
If mother didn’t teach the basics of how to be decent in public, it starts to become clearer why Chantel uses her clothes as a napkin and tells stories about her spews ruining people’s bathrooms. She was raised as an animal.
Still, no matter how much her mother ignored these niceties, most people who grow up notice how other people do things and start to pick it up on their own. Chantel has gone in the other direction and made her bad manners worse, licking her fingers, wiping her hair, ticking and twitching, eating straight out of jars, etc. There is no comparison between Amber-Amber is a fat girl who eats too fast and too much, but Chantel is an eating machine more disgusting than anything I thought possible. The closest thing to watching her is watching those eating competitions and even the professional eaters have more class.
The two latest videos-were they really a day apart? She has the same shirt, the same hair, the same everything. It’s like she filmed her binges and beginning of her candy, I mean grape, diet the same day, or she slept in her clothes.
What did she say? The road to success is paved with many restarts? Well, the road to failure is moreso. The road to success is letting yourself feel the pain and ignore it. Therapy is to give you tools to learn how to wait it out and find support. She couldn’t even make it to OA today, which this isolated fattie needs. I could powerlevel about feeling really sick but still living your life, but I won’t because I’m not unique. Lots of people don’t let these things get in the way of goals, you see people every day who are sick and you never know it. She over ate? So vomit and go to OA, I’m sure they have a bathroom she can clog.
Chantel doesn’t really have goals. She wants people to see her as inspiration-that’s not a goal. You can never get people to see you a specific way and by 35 she should know that.
Her goal should not be impossible ones-to heal her cysts, be an inspiration, or climb the highest mountain in the world. How about lose ten pounds this week, ten the next, ten the following, and end the month with 40 pounds lost. Sensible eating, one fast food item a day week (cheat day) and enough of the cucumber she love’s (without salt) to keep her full. Dr Now’s diet plan is online, she doesn’t even have to come up with it herself since “she doesn’t like to.”
I saw a 600 lb life recently. This whale was in bed, couldn’t walk, but rolling around, using every excuse under the sun to keep her enablers bringing her food and eating. Same as Chantel, same as all the fats who think they are unique. She told Dr Now, The plan won’t work! I have to ease in! You don’t understand, I’ve been this way my whole life. She kept gaining weight, to 700+.
She finally decided to give up, let go, and followed the plan. Once she let all the excuses go:that she was an addict, that she couldn’t do without, that she had to finish everything, all the things Chantel has said-her weight just fell off. She got the surgery She went from a 700 lb whale in a bed to walking and in the 300s in just a few months.
TL;dr. Chantel needs to just let go of all this fantasy about herself and do what she-and every fat - knows to do. Eat much less.
But she won’t so we get to watch this cycle go on and on until she drops of a heart attack at 44. Maybe THAT will inspire somebody.
