I hear ya, bigtime. But if he is ever deemed 'capable' again, he needs to Represent for his kids NOW. Maybe that will never happen(being deemed 'capable'), and maybe it shouldn't ever, but for his own conscience, he needs to make a serious attempt.
And his kids need to know he tried.
I feel so much for Jani and Bodhi right now. Despite that cunt that birthed them being a horrible person, she's all those kids know and that separation is hard for them.
I don't think it will be hard for them for long.
After falling asleep way too early, I’m awake in the middle of the night and just had a feeling I should check this thread. Glad I did, this is unbelievable news.
I’d like to ask you something, and I hope I can do so without getting a rabid, aggressive response (I’ve noticed a tendency of KF user base to be very, er, “touchy”) : when you say things like in the post I’ve quoted, are you just speaking generally about what you’d expect to happen given the knowledge you have from your line of work, or do you actually have insider information specific to this particular case?
one of my jobs puts me in contact with a large number of other medical workers and I know people who know people. I have no personal connection to the schofields, and can't say names or talk too deeply about where and who I've gotten information from. I put it out there to UCLA workers and a few others, that I had an interest in this case, and asked to be kept up to date. that's my only source. edit: my source is a network. not one person.
some of what I've posted is supposition- knowing what I know about MbP and bipolar, general things that could apply to any case like this. anything directly related to this family personally is people simply discussing an unnamed case with me.
in other words- HIPAA? not relevant or traceable.
Regardless, creating a situation where he's unable to respond properly and then saying he's abandoning the kids is completely unjust.
to my mind, the proper response is to allow the authorities to investigate and treat them, not jump in and get in the way. I'm not convinced he wasn't involved in their abuse from the start.
staying away is the best, and also most helpful thing he can do for them now.
I hear ya, bigtime. But if he is ever deemed 'capable' again, he needs to Represent for his kids NOW. Maybe that will never happen(being deemed 'capable'), and maybe it shouldn't ever, but for his own conscience, he needs to make a serious attempt.
And his kids need to know he tried.
I feel so much for Jani and Bodhi right now. Despite that cunt that birthed them being a horrible person, she's all those kids know and that separation is hard for them.
I hope none of the adults that have been in their lives as parents are ever able to harm them again.
I need to add this though- it is very very difficult to sever parental rights, even in abuse cases, especially with children who are not capable of speaking for themselves. Susan may very well be able to regain custody.
I know we would all be horrified, but legal and medical matters don't always match up.
it's a shit storm, be prepared for shit.
they'll probably stay quiet about this. they're hoping it hasn't gotten out/will blow over.