It's the whole "But you shouldn't have to" approach to things. Women shouldn't have to protect themselves from rapists, so all attempts to help women protect themselves from rapists are actually empowering rapists. Because if you acknowledge that rapists gonna rape and deal with that reality, you're apparently condoning that reality, so the only actual approach is to do a lot of screaming and blaming men and victimizing yourself.
A ton of leftist thought, including hers, is built on this, where acknowledging the reality of a situation instead of just extolling the utopian ideal that their policies will somehow bring about is the worst possible thing. Acknowledging that some of the people illegally crossing the border are criminals and will commit crime here is racist, because it flies in the face of the utopian ideal that all brown people are virtuous and good and can only be a boon to our country. That sort of thing.
