Megathread Insane Parents of "Transgender" Kids - Parents who push a transgender identity on their children

[fenny]

Wish my parents had been so understanding and let me transition to a sea otter when I was little.

 

[The Great Citracett]

Wish my parents had been so understanding and let me transition to a sea otter when I was little.

I feel ya.

I wouldn't have grown into the dang dirty troll I am today if my folks had just sewn me into a fursuit the first time I said I wanted to be Garfield the cat.

 

[Silence of the Troons]

I wanted to be a Chinese soldier just like Mulan when I was a kid. Why didn't my parents allow me to become trans Chinese and try to get me drafted into the Chinese army?

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Has a qt animu gurl as his profile picture because he wants to be a soft uwu loli and is addicted to anime?
Twitter anarchist?
Thinks not conforming to sex roles 100 % makes you the opposite sex or a special gender unicorn?

This guy doesn't even state that he's a true and honest woman or have his special pronouns in his bio, and yet it's blatantly obvious just from one tweet and his profile picture as well as his display name that he's a "transbian". They're so predictable

 

[Imperialist #348]

Amazon.com: Raising Ryland: Our Story of Parenting a Transgender Child with No Strings Attached eBook: Whittington, Hillary: Kindle Store

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Child is deaf suddenly when she gets cochlear implants at 3 years old she starts demanding to be a boy while learning to speak. Thing is there are no demands...its a typical pre-schooler experimenting. Child sees darth vader underwears and wants them suddenly its oh she wants to be a boy! Part I'm at now shes just turned 4 and her father asks her "Are you a girl who wants to be a boy?" since she doesnt say yes or no they decide shes reacting to societys view on what she should be and really wants to be a boy but can't say it...

There is a youtube channel and a documentary as well.

this aint it chief!

why arent these parents lined against a wall?.

 

[Silence of the Troons]

4thwavenow posted a thread about Johanna Olson-Kennedy, the director of the Gender Clinic at the children's hospital in Los Angeles, and also included more leaked posts from the private Facebook group for "parents of transgender children" that was brought up a few pages back in the thread (more specifically posts talking about mastectomies on young girls, sometimes as young as thirteen). https://twitter.com/4th_WaveNow/status/1115655520860430337 (https://archive.li/0QGpt) Here's a taste of it:

More examples:

Johanna Olson-Kennedy was also brought up in one of their slightly older Twitter threads about testosterone for "FtM and non-binary thirteen-year-olds". I recommending reading it all, because this woman sure is something. https://twitter.com/4th_WaveNow/status/1109135524948779008 (https://archive.is/IVNLx)(Also on Threadreaderapp)

 

[Raging Capybara]

"My son's father"

Holy shit, the meme is real


edit - I know they are divorced, but it's still a weird way to phrase it.

 

[Positron]

All these munchie-by-proxy story are as creepy as that girl in Poltergeist. This one has an extra twist that the mother is a Christian who ends up believing that other people are "Pharisees" and are "hateful" for calling boys boys.

I don't want to give the site any clicks, so the whole article below:

I Had 4 Boys — Until One of Them Told Me She Was Really a Girl
By Kimberly Shappley, As Told To Breanne Randall
Apr 13, 2017

As early as 18 months old, Kimberly Shappley's son started showing signs he identified as female. Now, the Christian mom shares how she learned to embrace Kai's transition — for her child's happiness and safety.

I remember one night when Kai was very young, and I was tucking her into bed. Her legs were cold and, concerned, I lifted the sheets, discovering she had taken a pair of panties off a baby doll and put them on herself. It was constricting her blood circulation and if she'd slept that way overnight, it could have become very dangerous. After that experience, I realized I could no longer ignore something very real about my child: My son, born Joseph Paul Shappley, is a girl.

I was raised as a devout, conservative Christian with strong Republican values in the South. It's a place where being different can not only be unforgiving, but unsafe. I was, and am, an active member of our local church. I used to lead a small ministry teaching Bible study, and I didn't support or condone those living the LGBTQ lifestyle. That was just part of the Christian makeup I'd been brought up to believe. I knew I'd instill those same principles in my children.

I'd get down on her level and say, 'No, you're a boy.'

But all of my beliefs and convictions were brought into question when, at 18 months old, Kai began exhibiting very strong female characteristics. From the moment my child was born, everything about Kai was geared toward femininity. She would pull T-shirts down around her waist to make them into skirts. She would tie long-sleeved shirts around her head and pretend like it was long hair. I tried so hard to force her into wearing clothes with camouflage and superhero patterns, and I even gave her severe, flat-top haircuts. Kai has three other siblings who are boys, so it was also a very testosterone-filled family environment, which I thought might help. Everything was fishing and spitting and boy stuff. But Kai just continued to be Kai.

As a Christian mother raising a Christian family, it was a very difficult time for me. I wasn't ready to give in and allow Kai to transition socially — especially at such a young age. My internal struggle beat me up daily. I felt like I couldn't go against everything I'd been taught to believe, and yet I also couldn't let Kai live in such obvious agony. I wasn't ready to face the fact that my one-and-a-half-year-old child was a girl. That battle lasted for a couple years.

Shortly after Kai turned 2, friends and family were starting to notice her behavior. Living in Pearland, Texas, that meant we were getting a lot of sidelong glances and questions. Kai would only play with other girls and girls' toys. She said boys were "gross." Family members were flat-out asking me if this kid was gay. It made me nervous, and I was constantly worried about what people would think of me, of us and of my parenting. While family was questioning whether Kai was gay, a Christian friend of mine, who is also a child psychologist, asked me: "Have you noticed Kai's feminine behavior?" It was such a gentle question, as opposed to the harsh accusations of others. I said, "I've noticed, but I figure she'll just grow out of it." I can laugh at that now. It's so clear, in retrospect, that this was not a passing phase. But when my friend asked me that, I still wasn't ready to accept it. As I continued to watch my child developing, my friend started pointing out red flags that there was something very real going on. She told me that Kai being transgender may be something I needed to consider.

By the time Kai was 3½ years old, I couldn't ignore it anymore. She was verbalizing that she was a girl at least six times a day. Everything was: "I'm a princess" and "I'm a girl." Every time she'd say something like that, I'd get down on her level and firmly say, "No, you're a boy." It never worked. She would correct me by waiting until I was in the middle of something and unable to chase her around, then run into the room and yell, "I'm a girl!" and run out again. I did everything I could think of to cut off that kind of talk. There were time-outs, so many time-outs. There were spankings and yelling matches and endless prayers. I even contacted the daycare Kai attended and asked them to put away every single "girl" toy. They complied with it, but Kai never changed her tune. The tenaciousness and bravery of this child is something from which I've learned so much.

I started reaching out to more professionals, including a child psychiatrist who asked me, "If you and Kai were on a deserted island, would you let her wear girls' clothes?'" I said, "Probably." The psychiatrist told me it wasn't God I had a problem with, but what other people would think of my child and me. That really got my gears spinning. I thought, Okay, I could start with girls' panties. It's something no one else will see. It took me three or four trips to Walmart until I could finally bring myself to do it. I'd go pick them up and then leave them in the store, crying as I walked out of the automatic doors. I would be so upset, and then I'd feel bad about not getting them. It was something so seemingly small, but it was a huge hurdle to overcome.

Guilt and confusion were eating away at me in a constant battle to find a solution. Kai was still 3½ when I came across Leelah Alcorn's story online. Leelah, born Josh Alcorn, had voiced a desire to live as a girl. Her parents said that, religiously, they wouldn't stand for it. Leelah later wrote a note to her parents and a specific passage stuck with me: "Even if you are Christian or against transgender people don't ever say that to your kid. That won't do anything but make them hate themselves. That's exactly what it did to me." Alcorn's story ended tragically — she committed suicide because her parents wouldn't let her be who God designed her to be. That hit me too close to home. I'd heard Kai praying to please let Joseph go home and live with Jesus. I mean, this kid was asking the Lord to let her die.

After that, I started studying for a long time just about Jesus, getting to know more about His nature and character. I also read and reread His interactions with the Pharisees. The religious people of the Bible were always using scripture to justify their hateful actions, and Jesus consistently stepped in and asked them to view the scripture from the perspective of loving the person. So that's what I started to do. Online, I found a secret Facebook community of Christian moms of LGBTQ kids. It's a beautiful group with a combined total of more than 2,000 moms now. I found women who would pray with me and for me. I found a group of the least judgmental and loving Christian women I have met. They make me brave. I felt like I was armed with a new understanding of scripture. I had the support of other moms like me, who had been through the same thing I was going through.

With all of that, when Kai turned 4, I finally let her transition. There was still fear and confusion. I was defying the societal and cultural expectations of our community, family and friends. But I knew I had to choose to accept my daughter exactly the way God created her — and there was also a beautiful freedom in that. A few weeks after I stopped punishing Kai for "acting girly," she put on a wizard robe she'd received as a birthday gift, making it her "first dress." She stole my headband to make a belt and pulled her hair forward as much as possible.

When I look back at photos of that day, I have mixed emotions: Regret that I made her suffer so long. Pride for what a tough cookie she is. Respect for such a young child to teach me unconditional love. And then I just laugh, like, how could I not tell this kid is a girl?

While my biggest personal struggle was the choice to let Kai, now 6, transition, my greatest trial as a woman of faith has been the persecution I've received from other Christians. Family members, friends and church members have judged our family and ostracized us to the point that we've considered moving. I'm so disappointed in the hatred they call "love the sinner, hate the sin." You cannot have fresh water and salt water from the same spring. But despite the ignorance and hurtful words of others, I choose to arm myself with knowledge. My child is at the highest risk of suicide and/or being murdered in a hate crime.

I have surrounded my family with transgender men and women who are leaders in the community. They encourage Kai to be proud of who she is and where she comes from. We're building a stronger community together. When Kai was finally allowed to be her true self, she blossomed. I put princess panties in her drawer and she fell to the ground, hugging those panties and sobbing, saying, "Thank you, Mommy, thank you." Within a few short weeks of letting her transition, she was no longer lying, no bed-wetting, no more nightmares. I now have a happy, healthy, outgoing, loving, beautiful, sweet little girl who loves Jesus and loves her brothers.

Yes, the emotional challenge has been great, but I'd rather face that challenge myself than have my child face it alone like so many transgender children have to because their parents won't let them transition. There's never been a moment of doubt or regret after making the choice to let Kai transition. I've learned too much about identity and faith in loving my beautiful daughter exactly the way she is. She's a loud, happy and joyful girl who expects that everybody's going to be kind and good. It's her persistent spirit that has enabled her to transition so young. She knows who she is and has no problem making sure that everyone else knows too.

Now the clinger:

If you or someone you know is a transgender person who is struggling, you can call the Trans Lifeline at 877-565-8860. Trans Lifeline is a non-profit dedicated to the well-being of transgender people and staffed by transgender people, for transgender people.

I've noticed a surge of misappropriation of the Bible among the trans-friendly community. First a Baptist assistant pastor avers that trooning out is NOT a sin, then a misguided ministry urges Pope Francis to discipline a Cardinal who said transgender surgery is a "Luciferian Refusal” of God’s Will".

Science has already fallen; Law is partaking in this Faustian pact. Should religion fail too we'll have nothing against this perverse, evil tide.

 

[AnOminous]

I've noticed a surge of misappropriation of the Bible among the trans-friendly community. First a Baptist assistant pastor avers that trooning out is NOT a sin, then a misguided ministry urges Pope Francis to discipline a Cardinal who said transgender surgery is a "Luciferian Refusal” of God’s Will".

Trooning out a four year old. What the fucking hell.

 

[Krokodil Overdose]

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All these munchie-by-proxy story are as creepy as that girl in Poltergeist. This one has an extra twist that the mother is a Christian who ends up believing that other people are "Pharisees" and are "hateful" for calling boys boys.

Munchhausen's knows no religion.
I don't know much about child psychology, but my experiences with kids tell me that their attention drifts around a lot: they latch onto things, get bored with them, and move on to the next thing. If her story has any basis in fact- which I heavily doubt, given both the self-servingness of memory in general and the capacity for creative interpretation that crazy people have w/r/t normal events- it's because her son was getting a ton of positive reinforcement for his behavior, or something else was going on. Anyone with a formal education on the topic care to weigh in?

 

[Sinner's Sandwich]

At least these trooned out boys don't know what they lose once they have dick butchering surgery because their dicks are useless. No sex drive, no orgasms, no erections.

Having a stink ditch must be still traumatizing tho. Also the gross bowel or stomach tissue technique will cause problems because of the smell etc.

But since they have little to no brain development because they never went through puberty - they won't be able to think about what happened to them like a normal adult.

 

[AnOminous]

At least these trooned out boys don't know what they lose once they have dick butchering surgery because their dicks are useless. No sex drive, no orgasms, no erections.

Having a stink ditch must be still traumatizing tho. Also the gross bowel or stomach tissue technique will cause problems because of the smell etc.

But since they have little to no brain development because they never went through puberty - they won't be able to think about what happened to them like a normal adult.

Great scam, since by trooning them out you destroy their IQ too so they never know how badly you fucked them over.

 

[Krokodil Overdose]

Great scam, since by trooning them out you destroy their IQ too so they never know how badly you fucked them over.

...Holy shit, it's Scott Westerfeld's Pretties, only instead they get turned into sideshow parodies of the opposite sex.

 

[Hummingbird]

Have you noticed how these trans families are almost always white?

 

[queue-anon]

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All these munchie-by-proxy story are as creepy as that girl in Poltergeist. This one has an extra twist that the mother is a Christian who ends up believing that other people are "Pharisees" and are "hateful" for calling boys boys.

I don't want to give the site any clicks, so the whole article below:

Now the clinger:




I've noticed a surge of misappropriation of the Bible among the trans-friendly community. First a Baptist assistant pastor avers that trooning out is NOT a sin, then a misguided ministry urges Pope Francis to discipline a Cardinal who said transgender surgery is a "Luciferian Refusal” of God’s Will".

Science has already fallen; Law is partaking in this Faustian pact. Should religion fail too we'll have nothing against this perverse, evil tide.

Francis has already said publicly that he thinks trans is bullshit and that he thinks transitioning children is particularly vile. This is almost as ridiculous as Adrian Harrop trying to get a Catholic terf in trouble with her archdiocese. The cardinal was being a dick in a way Francis presumably wouldn't approve of, but the cardinal is African, who tend to be the most conservative Catholics out there. I laughed at the terminally woke when they wished for a pope "of color" during the last pope selection. Be careful what you wish for.

 

[Fliddaroonie]

Funny thing is, that kid's gonna pray for death when confronted with the horrifying reality of owning an anal mucus dripping stink ditch

 

[Tragi-Chan]

Alternative hypothesis - the mother had three rough-and-tumble boys who were a real handful. Youngest kid realises that Mommy pays more attention to him when he pretends to be a girl.

 

[Smaug's Smokey Hole]

Have you noticed how these trans families are almost always white?

And that it is almost always the mom who discovers what the kid is too young to realize on his/her own and decides to become a Woke Parent.

"But all of my beliefs and convictions were brought into question when, at 18 months old, Kai began exhibiting very strong female characteristics. "

. . .

In 2015 BBC aired a Louis Theroux special called "Transgender Kids" where he explored the mecca of this shit which included a special gender diagnosing clinic(or something) where one specialist was so happy to tell a pair of parents that it sounds like their baby have been doing gender non-conforming motions since he was 18 months old. Since then I've wondered wtf those esoteric baby motions/movements are supposed to be and I really hope other babies don't do them by accident. Coercively Assigned Female/Male at Birth might get a new sibling with Coercively Assigned Female/Male at 18 months.

And this from @ATaxingWoman's post.
I hate to say it, but just let Tumblr kids be Tumblr kids, they don't need to be transformed by surgeons and hormones.

 

[GenociderSyo]

In 2015 BBC aired a Louis Theroux special called "Transgender Kids" where he explored the mecca of this shit which included a special gender diagnosing clinic(or something) where one specialist was so happy to tell a pair of parents that it sounds like their baby have been doing gender non-conforming motions since he was 18 months old. Since then I've wondered wtf those esoteric baby motions/movements are supposed to be and I really hope other babies don't do them by accident. Coercively Assigned Female/Male at Birth might get a new sibling with Coercively Assigned Female/Male at 18 months.

He did really good job asking the one small child the right questions that showed how children that age do not understand the permanency of decisions, but of course the parents put words into the child's mouth to fit their reality instead of listening to the kid.

 

[Sinner's Sandwich]

And that it is almost always the mom who discovers what the kid is too young to realize on his/her own and decides to become a Woke Parent.



. . .

In 2015 BBC aired a Louis Theroux special called "Transgender Kids" where he explored the mecca of this shit which included a special gender diagnosing clinic(or something) where one specialist was so happy to tell a pair of parents that it sounds like their baby have been doing gender non-conforming motions since he was 18 months old. Since then I've wondered wtf those esoteric baby motions/movements are supposed to be and I really hope other babies don't do them by accident. Coercively Assigned Female/Male at Birth might get a new sibling with Coercively Assigned Female/Male at 18 months.

And this from @ATaxingWoman's post.
I hate to say it, but just let Tumblr kids be Tumblr kids, they don't need to be transformed by surgeons and hormones.

She is just a very effeminate gay man trapped in a female body!1
T is totally harmless and she will never change her mind!

The best thing would be to let her be nonbinary and help her to get over this phase. But nope. Instead she gets pumped full of testosterone which will masculinize her to the point no straight man (I assume she is straight since feminine non binary/boy larping girls are almost always straight) would want to touch her and sterilize her.

In the worst case she will be a infertile, acne ridden, bald, short freak with the voice of a boy in the middle of puberty and with tons of testosterone related health problems.

I hope she stops T early enough. If not the dumb decisions she did as a 14 year old will haunt her the entire life.

 

[Smaug's Smokey Hole]

He did really good job asking the one small child the right questions that showed how children that age do not understand the permanency of decisions, but of course the parents put words into the child's mouth to fit their reality instead of listening to the kid.

I was surprised that he didn't accidentally drop massive insults that crushes people like he normally do. That usually happens at some point in his documentaries. When he did a thing on pacific islanders he almost made a (Maori?) woman cry in a grocery store when she explained their local cuisine. She was deeply hurt while he was completely oblivious to what he just said.

edit: those aren't funny moments, they're deeply uncomfortable "Louis you bastard!" moments. Sincere for the Maori woman.