Apples, please explain to me why I should respond to the rest of your post? You're incredibly ignorant. You say that "everybody else" is doing it in the context of a relationship? Are you deaf, blind and insane at the same time? NOBODY'S doing it in the west. have you read this thread? NOBODY here knows what a relationship is.
Ok, if you want me to go on replying please respond to this. Which guy will a young modern woman see as a bigger loser?
a) a guy who wants a serious relationship
b) a serial rapist
You should respond, because you keep avoiding answering these questions. Its simple, really I just want to to tell me about love. But, I'm ignorant? Cue the 'pot calling the kettle black' jokes. Well, at least everyone else
appears to be doing the whole relationship thing. Really is your whole attraction to the idea of having a relationship, you just want what you can't have? And you mmight as well add dumb to that Holden, although I'll
always pale in compassion to you.
Once again. WHAT IS A RELATIONSHIP TO YOU? Tell us. I've been
DYING to know. Teach all of us poor ignorant Kiwis. Since no one is doing it, as you say, tell us what we should do. Or rather I can't speak for everyone, but share your "wisdom" of the topic. Since NOBODY* here knows what a relationship is. Even myself, who has been in my first relationship for the past year and a half.
See, I'm answering your questions ~
a)Well, if you mean a guy who will blackmail, be clingy and basically do all of what you have done, I say no.
OR
The guy is caring, loving, supportive, passionate, and all around a good guy. Then OF COURSE.
b)If the guy is going around
literally raping women against their will, then no.
OR
If the woman consents, and the man listens to her then...well the non-literal rapist then. Your terminology is all sorts of messed up. Your definition of rape is tumblr-esc. "Oh he looked at me, RAPE RAPE!"
*Also, not you Holden, OF COURSE NOT. Teehee**.
**I hope my irony is not lost on you, as my posts are filled with it.